and am currently laid off of work. Would this turn him off???
2006-10-12 15:00:23 · 11 answers · asked by jennyju 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure it's as much of a problem for a guy as it is for a girl, I guess it really depends on the circumstances, and how you're handling it. If you're moping or doing nothing to try and improve your situation, then yeah, that's going to be a red flag.
2006-10-12 15:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know there is no such thing as an absolute answer to this type of question. People seem to get attracted to others for reasons unexplained.
Personally, at this point in my life, I wouldn't want to go out with a girl who lives at home at age 30.
I however am only one of billions of guys in the world.
Anyway, you've already met the guy and told him this. See what happens. It could turn out to be the greatest thing ever.
Don't get worried about it, don't force yourself to do anything you're not ready to do.
Everybody's situations change. Even the rich and famous can't be that way all the time. They also have bad days, get depressed, etc.
No worries!
2006-10-13 22:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If I were him, I'd be wondering why you were wasting time trying to find a man to latch onto, rather than spending your time productively to acquire a new position.
2. It tells me that you are not a self-sufficient woman, and not very motivated to be so.
3. Would that mean that everything would be on my back in a relationship?
4. You need to get your priorities clear. You need a job and by becoming self-sufficient, you will be better able to bring something to the table, not just him. You are not yet relationship material.
5. Get moving. Hit the pavement!
Good Luck and Warm Regards.
2006-10-12 22:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it probably means that you either fell on some hard times and needed to move in with mom for awhile or you're just a caring, loving daughter who wants to live with mom? (unless, you're just sponging off of mom 'cause you don't wanna look for work)
If the guy is a sensitive and caring person he would not be turned off.
2006-10-12 22:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your just laid off and looking i dont think that it would be a turn off for a man as much as it would b for a woman and a man not having a job good luck
2006-10-12 22:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assure you that this is not the sort of thing that turns men off.
2006-10-12 22:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am almost 26 & I'm still living with my parents
2006-10-12 22:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, as long as you get along with your mother
2006-10-12 22:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't it turn you off?
2006-10-12 22:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, he'll know that even if you won't do his laundry and cook for him, your Mom probably will.
2006-10-12 22:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋