I'm really feeling drawn to this guy in a lustful way. The thing is though that I am not physically attracted to him. He's the opposite of everything I usually like when it comes to looks on a man! And yet everytime our eyes meet there is this huge electricity between us. I'm not attracted and yet I am being sucked in....What is wrong with me?
2006-10-12 14:52:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not physically attracted to him!
2006-10-12 14:54:57 · update #1
nothing's wrong with you, you just have a chemistry with him. you say you're not attracted, but you are. You are drawn to him.
2006-10-12 14:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation.. There's this guy that i met about two years ago and when i first met him i wasn't attracted to him at all then i kept seeming him more often and i got to know him and i'm so attracted to him now and i'm so happy with him and i can just look in his eyes and melt it's the best feeling ever.... sometimes breaking out of the ordinary can be good for you
2006-10-12 15:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously in love with him though ur not physically into him but ur mind tells u so it is like a crush. U like this guy based on his personality or character and not his physical feature. Love does not always have to be a view but it can also be the mind that is telling us. You may not be flirtatious but the mind is telling you to feel that way and so sometimes it is not what we do it is what we think the mind is telling us to feel.
2006-10-12 15:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the thing is u have feelings and when this feeling gets out u cant stop it. like everything one says your heart wants someone to love so dont stop it from loving. who said your not physical attractive???? because who ever said that are jealous. dont listen to anyone no matter what ok. if you have that eye contact why dont u try talking to him?? you never know what can happen. anything can happen in this world. maybe he likes you and his to shy. guys get shy too. so try talking him
2006-10-12 15:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by cookielicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. Perhaps you are attracted to his demeaner or personality. You know what they say, opposites attract.
2006-10-12 14:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by superman01706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 03:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You are just connecting on a level that you can't identify right now. Distract yourself with talking to other friends.
2006-10-12 14:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have the same problem and i dont get it either. I even met this other guy who i seemed to get on better with and found cuter..much more my type, but yet i just wasnt interested and couldnt...and still cant ...get this other guy out of my head.
If you find out why, let me know lol
2006-10-12 14:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by ash1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. they say opposites attract. and sometimes it actually works! if you want i suggest you give him a try he might surprise you! if not at least you will get him out of your system.
2006-10-12 14:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you it could be any number of things that could be drwing you in men have ways of getting you interested in them even when your not attracted.
2006-10-12 14:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋