Ok, I just asked this question. And alot of people gave me great answers, but I feel I should inlude a llil more! He knows how I feel, he knows I feel doubt about him loving me! But when I tell himm I feel he says that he does love me! He doesn't hold huge conversations about relationships, bc he is feed up w/ those covnersations! When we were going through our problems, thats all we would talk about! Now we are working things through! He says he still loves me, but is it possible he is just saying that? Would a man stay w/ someone bc they are comfortable, or if they truely didn't love someone would they go? By him staying and working things through, does that show he really loves me? It is just going totake time?
2006-10-12 15:42:40 · 5 answers · asked by jacquelineleeca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't
2006-10-12 15:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by bigt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married to my wife for more than a year now, dated for 3 yrs, and there have been times where she would ask me if I love her ... and it would be more than often. At times it was bothering me that she kept asking me and then I started to notice that saying that I love her wasn't enough, even though I do. It wasn't that I felt comfortable, it was that words can follow through only so much without expressing myself by spending time with her or talking about the things that she wanted to talk about. Time passes by for us guys ... we start to lose track about the effort we first put into the relationship and when the women start noticing something wrong then we sort of pull back thinking to ourselves, "Well you know that I love you, hon. Why do you even have to ask?" If he didn't love you, he would have left you a long time ago, and since he's staying it must mean something. It's not going to take time. Take it from a guy who's wife probably asked the same question as you .... "it's going to take lots of effort".
2006-10-12 16:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by PC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't KNOW.
you FEEL.
why doubt in the first place? you may be making it too hard for yourself and for him. stop thinking and start making him feel loved again. in times like these, prefer not to make your brain work so much. let it breathe. let your heart and intuition take charge for a while.
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2006-10-12 15:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by jedi_rei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open up your mouth and ask him.
2006-10-12 15:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he tells you personal stuff?
2006-10-12 15:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by video gamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋