He and I have been in an online relationship for two years now and months back it has been crashing down. I tried to love him through a computer but it was not enough. I understand why he yells at me, I understand that I do not provide enough and I understand why says I am a "stupid stupid little girl". I am loyal to him only. Does he understand that? I love HIM only. He says I'm pretending. This is not a game, it never was. Why would tears be shed, screens punched right through, tantrums that would throw anyone onto the brink of insanity? If it was fake, why does it hurt so much? This is not puppy love, and passions dies. We know what each other needs. I do not think he knows how much we can hurt each other. Never apologies, never resolutions. It burns. It does.
2006-10-12 15:37:28 · 9 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trying to save u...
so save urself too...
get ur butt off the computer n find a better man.
he is just a virtual reality so move on..
good luck!
2006-10-12 15:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly how you feel, because I had a four years friendship with someone that I still care for, but I know I will not see him in real life, just with the camera , as he is in another country. Those web guys are seldom for us, they get power by hurting someone. Try to move on as I have. He will contact you again, but ignore him. My ex-friend is still on my messenger, I see when he comes on line, but I do not contact him, because he can be cruel sometimes, and that is not how I want my life to be.
Actually, your guy sounds like the same one I had, but I never told him I would always be there for him. The man sounds insecure, believe me, he is not hurting, you are. You deserve more than he can provide. It will be hard, but move on. I know many are amused that one can fall for someone on a computer, but you are not alone, it happens frequently,but most are shame to admit it.
2006-10-12 17:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ?? Online relationship for 2 yrs ?? Whats that ? That's not a relationship, its nothing but a game. If not to you, definitely to him. If HE is telling you that you are a fool and a stupid stupid girl, believe him. This is all he wants from you. Wake up.
2006-10-12 15:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 15:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go sweetie... I know it hurts but it just seems there were more feelings for him than there were for you...You can do beter..take a little time, re-evaluate the situation and dust yourself off ang get back in the game! Settle for no les that what you KNOW you deserve!!!
2006-10-12 15:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by heandI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is wrong with u?how can u love somebody that ur chatting with on the net u could be talking to ur next door neighbor?u wanted answers stay out of the chat rooms and get a life
2006-10-12 15:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to have a man who wants to protect you and love you...someone who would rather harm himself than hurt you. This isn't the guy. I'm sorry for your hurt, but move on.
2006-10-12 15:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by vgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think, when you are 80, this will hardly even seem significant.
2006-10-12 15:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wait anyway,yes your HIS fool.
2006-10-12 15:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋