Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

Okay so heres the thing.... theres this guy i have liked for a year and a half. K? And i dont mean just like, i mean stalk and obsess over as well. Anyways, today he asked someone else out,[and was rejected by the way.] and though im glad she said no im still upset. because, would you be too if out of nowhere the reality that your crush clearly isnt interested hit you? I seriously saw this comming. I really did. I had heard rumors he had a crush on her, but i thought just rumors what do they know? i was wrong. Is this a reason to give up all hopes on him? I dont know. See, he fits all the requirments. What do ya do when he is the one for you, but you so clearly arent the one for him? i am so lost and i need help. and one other thing, i want to love him, but i feel that emotion slowly slipping away from him. I need so much help. Please!

2006-10-11 09:42:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, here we go!? there is this guy who is some what of a co-worker here @ the hospital w/ me he is in the construction business and we obviously are doing construction here. When i first meet him, i thought that he was cute, to later find out that he was married and has 2 kids, ( i am 21 and he is 27). For some reason though he always flirts, and always makes comments to me that not just any guy friend would do, its a flirting way. or maybe that is just the way i take it.. Its hard to find someone at my age right now i guess, i just dont know how, i am not a huge lets to go to the bars girl. i work a lot and screwed up hours too. I just want a nice, genuine guy who has a decent job, and that i can have fun with, laugh a little you know!!!!!!!!!!!! please just someone help me out, i hate feelnig like i odnt know what is going on or what to do!!!!!! what would you do if u were in my shoes?

2006-10-11 09:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by ME :) 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been devoriced for 30 years, yet she keeps calling my mother starting trouble and gets her very up set in the mean time.

2006-10-11 09:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by zipper 7 in Singles & Dating

i cnt talk 2 my mum because iv split them up before and she cnt see what it does 2 me the other nite i sat on ma wall for bout 4 hour by ma self

2006-10-11 09:42:29 · 2 answers · asked by Jessica m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 09:42:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Heh, yeah, Im russian and Im married to a black man, and I love his family, and me and my black neighbors are very cool, but I really wanna find a black girl to have fun with. All black girls I met seemed so cold.. Why is it so?

2006-10-11 09:41:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-11 09:41:22 · 9 answers · asked by Hipira 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

to go to the all night flea market? I want to go at 2 or 3am, but she says no way. What's her problem? It would be fun.

2006-10-11 09:40:46 · 30 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 09:40:43 · 8 answers · asked by MaryJane 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, my b/f and I have been together for 6 months now. We moved way too fast. He had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship and I had been engaged a year before him and I met. I was past all my issues, but he left her after not being happy for 2 years and immediately dated me. I know it's too fast. We both know it, but we're trying to work through this. We both do not trust each other!!!! I have my doubts about him and he's got his about me. I know that's normal in a relationship but what can we do to get past this and trust each other!!! Everytime we fight it's about trust! I HATE THIS!!!!!

2006-10-11 09:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating

this guy makes fun of me all the time but he also tells me that nothing will ever happen between us. every one thinks that he is in love with me but is just blind. i dont think he is in love with me. but he always tells me never to fall in love with him..or is he just trying to tell himself not to fall for me ?????? is that y he always makes fun of me?

2006-10-11 09:39:57 · 2 answers · asked by juju 1 in Friends

I was just getting ready to agree with LOVE LOVE about the spammer d a (this time) s d last time. It is obviously an ad in disguise and I've had enough of those from everywhere else. Thats why I came here.

2006-10-11 09:39:40 · 5 answers · asked by newtolincoln 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 09:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Family

Earlier i posted a question about parents getting divorced, i hope they do. I feel like killing myself because of my dad. He is always going in my room when i am in school and when i ask him why, he makes up really really bad excuses, today after coming home, i asked and he like always wanted to hit me with the belt just for asking and he said, " what, can't i go into your room" he's always doing this to me, he's always following me he wont let me ever go out with friends , he's always making me go with him he goes in my room and talks to me like i am an animal. He is very violant and i m tired of him going in my room everyday and getting away with it. Everytime i suggest an idea or something or dont talk back, he gets violant and says " you dont ****** tell me what to do" he makes me get on my knees and say what ever he wants to hear. He lets my little sister in my room and she makes a huge mess , then he makes ME clean it up and curses at me. i cant stand it someone please please

2006-10-11 09:39:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I said i would go to a wedding of someone I hardly know - this means I give up my Saturday with my husband to spend a whole day with a group of people I do not know. What can I say to get out of the wedding, bearing in mind they have paid for my seat/food etc.

2006-10-11 09:39:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 09:39:09 · 1 answers · asked by under looked 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been involved for a month now with a guy who i was previously just friends with. i always had a sercret crush on him and so when we had sex we decided to enter into a realtionship.
the problem is this he liked another friend of ours and i think he still does, it makes me jealous when he takes time out to be aaround her. what do i do, he says its me he wants but i'm feeling jealous.
this girl and i are also friends. i really do like him and wants it to work. how do i know that its me he really wants?

2006-10-11 09:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by tweetie_bee 2 in Singles & Dating

I was curious as to why there is an overabundance of brides but not grooms? I found this site. This can't be for real. Check it out. Lots of hotties. haha
http://www.mailorderhusbands.net/

2006-10-11 09:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by Aidge 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Its for my wedding.

2006-10-11 09:37:09 · 4 answers · asked by Jane S 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend, thinks that I lie to him when I say Im with my brother...Just because most of my friends are boys, Im cheating...I just get along easier with boys cause I think girls dont cause nothing but drama....so I dont have time for it....Plus he shouldnt be asking the questions I should...Hes the one that cheated on me six time and got three kids from my ex-best friend...did I mention that he had them while we are going out. what should I do? Should I move on or convince him that Im not cheating......holla at ya gurl

2006-10-11 09:36:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do so many people insist on having a mega wedding when they need to focus their attention on the relationship ahead. A wedding is only one day but a marriage is a lifetime (well, for about 50% of the population). Mega weddings just seem so vain.

2006-10-11 09:35:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I just found out that my boyfriend of over two years has been talking to this girl online, and saying very dirty things to her, one of my friends says its not cheating and he thinks the same what do you think?

2006-10-11 09:35:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No that I am NOT going around and telling people- YOU MUST buy me a Christmas present from here.... but my mom was saying she had no clue what to get us for Christmas since we live together and already started decorating and planning out the house. I told her- she could look at my register and get something from there if it's easier. So my mom thought that was a great idea. Now we have a secret Santa thing we have to do with my FI family and you have to write what you want on a slip of paper. ALL of them always end up buying gift cards anyways so I was going tell them to also look at the regestry for ideas.
Is this OK- since it will be helping us get things we need and make life easier for our family or is it enter the "tacky bride" zone?

2006-10-11 09:34:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-11 09:34:31 · 15 answers · asked by answers 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 09:33:17 · 16 answers · asked by Pretty_Boy 2 in Friends

2006-10-11 09:33:07 · 7 answers · asked by fajardonicole 1 in Singles & Dating

im 5'4 and i weight about 140lbs. is that good?

2006-10-11 09:33:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious, have you ever called out someone elses name when you were in the middle of love making?.....other than the person you were with...oops!

2006-10-11 09:33:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and this boy dated on and off for about a year. he broke up with me three times and this time its terrible. (im 15) im always looking around to see him in the hallways, my self esteem is low, i say i hate him but i dont know if i mean it cause im always looknig for him..its always him who comes back and im afraid if he tries to tlak to me again i'll lose it and end up back with him again how can i get over this quickly so that if he comes bakc i can stay away from him instead of being manipulated back into this situation?

2006-10-11 09:32:27 · 11 answers · asked by hugznkizzez101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm sorry to rant on about this but I'm really getting sick of it! Every question I look in there is this spam answer that says Love is the answer to everything blah blah blah and then they say go to this site to meet local singles in your area! They say this in EVERY question. They have multiple user accounts too! Just watch them come on and answer this question too! Who thinks Yahoo needs to do something about this? I know I do!

2006-10-11 09:32:05 · 28 answers · asked by ♥Love Love♥ 4 in Singles & Dating