I just found out that my boyfriend of over two years has been talking to this girl online, and saying very dirty things to her, one of my friends says its not cheating and he thinks the same what do you think?
2006-10-11 09:35:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is cheating
2006-10-11 09:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I wouldn't allow that to happen. If your boyfriend is going to that on there just think who easy it would be for him to actually do that in person and not online. Stuff like that will eventually lead to worse things. Anything that would make you uneasy you can call cheating. If he really loves you he will stop. How would he like it if you were the one doing that and he wasn't. I think that he would appreciate that too well. Just sit down have a talk with him about it. Let him know how you feel about him doing that and go from there.
2006-10-11 16:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just tell him how you have been talking real nasty to a couple of guys on-line and you can see why he likes it, they get off on it and you are getting a big kick out of them getting off to your chat... I will be he thinks different then... It is cheating and the only reason he says it is not, is because he is the one doing it. If you were doing it, then he would change his view in a hurry. Pretty soon the chat will not be enough and he will want to see pictures, then hear voices and then the real thing...Stop it now or it will get worse...
2006-10-11 16:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dirty thoughts equals cheating
2006-10-11 16:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't exactly call it cheating but he really needs to be put in his place and realize that what hes doing is wrong. Ask him how he would like it if it was the other way round and it was you doing the dirty talking he'l soon change is mind then.
2006-10-11 16:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your definition of cheating. I dontI think its cheating, but I think he's definitely disrespectful to you. All I can say is that if its hurting your feelings, he should stop. Doesn't matter what I or anyone else thinks. Don't let other people justify his actions. It all comes down to if it bothers you, he should stop. Some people have difference tolerance thresholds, but the only thing that matters is what YOU can tolerate. Personally, your bf needs to grow up.
2006-10-11 16:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its mental cheating even though its an online relationship. y is he saying dirty things to her when he should be respecting you?
2006-10-11 16:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lesser charge: Flirting, with the intent to cheat.
2006-10-11 16:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Phillip m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its cheating, ask him how would he feel if you were doing it? Even though it's online chat she is just as real as you and I. Just in another place...
2006-10-11 16:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Yolanda A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say its emotional cheating. he's sharing somthing with someone other than you. You are his girlfriend not the bimbo online. that's not fair to you.
2006-10-11 16:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋