i have been involved for a month now with a guy who i was previously just friends with. i always had a sercret crush on him and so when we had sex we decided to enter into a realtionship.
the problem is this he liked another friend of ours and i think he still does, it makes me jealous when he takes time out to be aaround her. what do i do, he says its me he wants but i'm feeling jealous.
this girl and i are also friends. i really do like him and wants it to work. how do i know that its me he really wants?
2006-10-11 09:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by tweetie_bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-11 09:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question. As a matter of fact I wouldnt have even stayed in the relationship once he started hanging out with her. I'm the jealous type also, but you gotta have a little trust in the guy too. I would say until he acts up or starts acting funny don't ask any questions. If he says he likes you more than anything, then go with it. Trust him until he does something to mess it up. Starting from sex with a relationship isnt always the best thing to work a relationship around. If your boyfriend says he used to like her and he doesnt anymore then just go with the flow. Good Luck and I hope everything goes good.
2006-10-11 09:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibilty that your boyfriend is just friends with this girl. But if he is spending too much time with her, it definately does raises some cheating red flags.
On one hand, you do want to give each other a little space so you are not smothering each other. Let him have his time with the guys and you with your girls. On the other hand too much space can cause fissures.
The best you can really do is be the best girlfriend a guy could ever have. On the same token look for signs that he really still digs you. Is he acting distant or closer to you? Is other girls calling him up? If he isn't being fully devoted to you, then you need to move on. Unless you like being in a relationship where you are cheated on.
2006-10-11 09:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say talk to him and tell him how you feel about all this. If he realy likes you a lot and that you're the one he wants to be with then he would stop doing all the things you described.
Honestly if he says you're the one then he should not even be thinking of being with someone else....... unless his motivations are different.
If everything fails then talk to your another friend whom he likes and find the story out there, maybe he is two timing you and fooling both of you. Guys are sometimes crazy they will do anything to get a girl.
Talk to him dear and find out the truth. Keep us posted as to what happened
2006-10-11 09:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by bathams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a friend initially you've got to trust that he wouldn't do anything to jeopardise that. he may have previously liked this other girl but the fact that he's entered a relationship with you would indicate he likes you more. Just relax and enjoy it. They are both your friends why would they want to hurt you? xxx
2006-10-11 09:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by bamba_982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm male 36. Married.
I feel that you should stop this relationship.
As you may ended up hurt.
My advise: ONLY ONE OPTION!!!
Go for a man that loves you more than you love him.
Avoid the other way round.
You will save a lots of tears whenever you are alone or when you think of him.
2006-10-11 09:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by alan chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why women always feeling jealous? he is not ur husband
and why he takes times out to be aaround her?
2006-10-11 09:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 05:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by janski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes with you and says he likes you then believe that he does like you and wants to be with you, and that his friendship with this other girl is just that and nothing more. Hopefully things will work out for ya
2006-10-11 09:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by krisbohanon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he wants you then that should be good enough, trust is big in a relationship, and u should trust him. talk to ur friend, as she got in tensions? if not then its fine, let it go, concentrate on the two of you, not the third wheel.
2006-10-11 09:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by brian b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋