ok, here we go!? there is this guy who is some what of a co-worker here @ the hospital w/ me he is in the construction business and we obviously are doing construction here. When i first meet him, i thought that he was cute, to later find out that he was married and has 2 kids, ( i am 21 and he is 27). For some reason though he always flirts, and always makes comments to me that not just any guy friend would do, its a flirting way. or maybe that is just the way i take it.. Its hard to find someone at my age right now i guess, i just dont know how, i am not a huge lets to go to the bars girl. i work a lot and screwed up hours too. I just want a nice, genuine guy who has a decent job, and that i can have fun with, laugh a little you know!!!!!!!!!!!! please just someone help me out, i hate feelnig like i odnt know what is going on or what to do!!!!!! what would you do if u were in my shoes?
2006-10-11 09:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by ME :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, well i understand that he is married, and as soon as i found out i told him that i just want to be friends i could NEVER EVER do that to someone, ruin there marriage its not me at all. Also i want to clarify that i want to find a genuine guy, i never said that he was b/c after finding that out, how could u trust someone the same again? its like a complete lie put into your face!!! so for all u, who think i am such a bad person im not, i am not about ruining a marriage or anything of that sort, or screwing up a family forever!!! some people maybe all about that, or have the attitude who gives a crap i love him blah blah blah...that sure is NOT AT ALL ME
2006-10-11 11:10:47 · update #1
If you want a nice genuine guy this is not it. He is married with kids and flirting. He is not a nice guy. Just relax and when you least expect it you will meet someone. I am sure you have heard that before and don't believe it- i never did. But it is true.
2006-10-11 09:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by baileysmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been on both sides of that situation, and although the attention's nice, you really don't want the drama of the wife finding out if you did or didn't do something., developing feelings for a guy that has to sneak to call you, sneak to see you, and can't spend time with you on major holidays (that's a REALLY lonely feeling, especially if you have strong feelings for him).
Think about and ask why is he flirting. Ask what are his intentions and think about what you want out of a guy and a relationship.
You deserve better than 4 place. Good Luck!
2006-10-11 16:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him alone. Like u said he has 2 kids and wife. That's alot of baggage. You don't want to feel bad for the rest of ur life thinking u stole someone else husband. Don't be eager just wait the right guy will come along when the time is right. Maybe u are just taking his comments like flirting.
2006-10-11 16:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm thats weird bc i've been there but the guy didnt have kids.. But you know what you might like him here and there because you might feel lonely but dont ..bc that guiy has a family and you dont want to be a family ruiner..its wrong...put urslef in his wifes shoes how would you feel if your husband was doing that while your at home with the kids, cooking and cleaning.. i mean im only 18 years old and i know and i am not saying your dumb or something because stuff like that happen to alot of people.. but you dont wanna be in that situation.. and its not like hes gonna leave his wife, maybe he just wants something and you should know what i mean about that ......and i hope your not that type of girl to be doing that but thats your choice..you ask for someone to be in your shoes and thats how i see it.. i mean alot of girls want a nice genuine guy that has a decent job and thats funn but you cant go looking for it.. when its ready it'll come to you and you'll realize that patience is the keY........
hOpe i helped a lil bit
goOdluCk!
2006-10-11 16:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably not all that nice and genuine if he is out flirting around behind his wife's back. Anyway, would you really want a man who is sweet to your face, but hitting on other women behind your back? If he is doing it to her, he would do it to you too if you guys ever got together. You would never trust him.
2006-10-11 16:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nicegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never date someone at work fist of all, it can make it hard and ocward at work first of all. second don't mess with a family man, cause one day you might run into the wife, or ex-wife down the road, and it wont be pleasant. just let him flirt but dint let it go to far, if you want t to stop tell him! but keep it fun, keep it real, it is always good to have fun at work, but don't let it get to fare!
2006-10-11 16:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by brian b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number one, he is married and has 2 kids. and it is a known fact that construction workers like to hoop and holla and make passes at the girls. any girl. my advice is to keep looking, heck youre in a hospital, go for a doctor!!! good luck!!
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2006-10-11 16:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Flirting is natural, don't make it more than it is.
P.S. How is he a geniune guy if he is married with a kid?
2006-10-11 16:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to drop his socks and grab his cock because hes about to get fu cked you need a boyfriend you must be a hog women dont talk like that any more your a throwback
2006-10-11 16:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by joe l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋