Well, my b/f and I have been together for 6 months now. We moved way too fast. He had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship and I had been engaged a year before him and I met. I was past all my issues, but he left her after not being happy for 2 years and immediately dated me. I know it's too fast. We both know it, but we're trying to work through this. We both do not trust each other!!!! I have my doubts about him and he's got his about me. I know that's normal in a relationship but what can we do to get past this and trust each other!!! Everytime we fight it's about trust! I HATE THIS!!!!!
2006-10-11 09:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk & communication is key
2006-10-11 09:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by lickablecake123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After dating for 6 months, you should know by now that you just aren't compatible. Fighting all the time, having doubts, moving too fast, being stuck in the past, mistrust-- hello? Any more clues needed? What's there to "work through"? There's nothing to work through. You're not married! You dated, it's not working-- so move on and either wait until you're over your issues, or find someone who doesn't have so much emotional baggage and is healthy enough to build a real relationship.
2006-10-11 16:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you have to come to terms with the fact that there is something fundamentally wrong with the two of you being together. Especially considering that you don't find each other as complementary as you aught to.
Anyway, you are the best person that can assess the situation and determine whether or not you want to go ahead with the relationship. But be warned that continuing in a relationship in which you feel inadequately appreciated and dissatisfied is a waste of time and effort.
Try not to waste time on a fruitless venture
2006-10-11 16:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by topgun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.... um my guy just did something like yall did to your old loves and left me to just jump into a relationship like that same day... he probably was seein her before he left me too. I think that trust is going to be a HUGE issue because how will you or he be able to know if you are happy or if your wanting to see some else? I know that I wish my man would have told me he wasn't happy and just left me so I could find someone who I could be happy with and would be happy with me... you need to start over fresh and with a new guy, don't tell him about your past, you want to have total trust.. but remember that you have to be trustworthy too! You should never lead a man on or hurt a man to feel good... if you want something else, then leave and don't CHEAT!!!
2006-10-11 16:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Prettyeyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great!
2006-10-11 16:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by mark f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋