My boyfriend, thinks that I lie to him when I say Im with my brother...Just because most of my friends are boys, Im cheating...I just get along easier with boys cause I think girls dont cause nothing but drama....so I dont have time for it....Plus he shouldnt be asking the questions I should...Hes the one that cheated on me six time and got three kids from my ex-best friend...did I mention that he had them while we are going out. what should I do? Should I move on or convince him that Im not cheating......holla at ya gurl
2006-10-11 09:36:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep your friends the worst mistake i did was stop talking to my male friends even though i married my b/f,i still miss talking to them and get along better with males too he just didn't understand how i can keep male Friends and not sleep with them and all his so-called female friends he would sleep with but that was before me trust me keep your male friends only if they are just that
2006-10-11 09:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to convince him, more than likely he is cheating on you again, and is trying to flip the script. I know its easy for us to say dump him, but you have to look at the bigger picture he has cheated on you 6 times he is very insecure and he thinks you are going to pay him back , I would let him go because he is obviously no good for you and you deserve better. he made three kids so you know that means he doesn't use any type of protection, you are lucky all you are getting is accused of cheating instead of catching some disease from his nasty butt.
2006-10-11 09:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Teaza19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't much you can do to convince that you are not cheating on him besides actually not cheating on him and try to assure him that you are not. It is quite obvious he has a lot of trust issues. If you are doing everything right and he still thinks you are a cheater, try threaten to break up. If that doesn't work, actually do break up with him.
If he doesn't trust you, then what is the point in having any type of relationship with him?
2006-10-11 09:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on the toddler information :) i'm sorry to take heed to approximately all the family individuals subjects you're having. Your husbands brother is far out of line. you are able to purely administration to a undeniable degree what others say or due. Ex: Lawsuit (slander) or a restraining order (he's stalking you via following you). i've got self assurance your husband has to intrude and have a coronary heart-to-coronary heart talk along with his brother. Your husband is a extra physically powerful effect than you. If the debate would not artwork then you definately and your husband could could disassociate yourselves from him. you mustn't could look over your shoulder at each turn thinking if his stalker little brother is following you. feels like his little brother needs to get a life-time of his very own and stay out of your marriage. ultimate of success!
2016-12-13 06:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer. Guys make the best friends, there is nothing wrong with that. He is the one who cheated and has no right to accuse you of anything! Trust me, if you stay with him, you are allowing him to torture you because he is the one who is unfaithful. Get on with your life, you deserve much more than heartache, and this is about all you can expect from this guy!
2006-10-11 09:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should do both, let him know that ur not cheating, and then end it. What u should say is: "Look i had enough of u, always accusing me of cheating, and as u can see i don't have kids, unlike u. So since u always accusing me of cheating on u, i'm leaving u 4 good."
2006-10-11 09:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with him? It is the cheaters that are least trusting, and since you do have a lot of friends that are guys, do you think that your guyfriends wouldn't jump on the first chance to get down with you? i am dissappointed by how many women don't see through the whole friend game.
2006-10-11 09:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything you can do to convice him you are not cheating. this is really a trust issue and it sounds like neither of you really trusts the other. If you can't rebuild that trust then you need to end the relationship.
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2006-10-11 09:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, if you're not cheating, you don't need to try to convince him of anything. not your job. my sister has friends that are almost all guys. it's always been that way for her. she just gets along better with guys. and second of all, if he has cheated on you six times, and has all these illegitimate kids, which im sure he totally supports (haha), WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH THIS GUY???? you can do better for sure. good luck. move on with YOUR life. PLEASE.
2006-10-11 09:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋