Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

with a handsome and successful man files for a divorce to be with another man even though her parents take the husband's side and she risks losing the children, what would be the possible reason if any? Would any of you do this for any man?

2006-10-10 04:32:07 · 13 answers · asked by Eddie J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 04:31:33 · 3 answers · asked by The Phoenix Wears Armani 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been w/my bf for almost a year. We have been friends for over 2. We live together, have dog, & have basically started a life together, etc. We ALWAYS get asked when we are going to get married.

The other day he sent an email out to his friends saying he had something HUGE going on Sunday that he can't wait to tell them about. Everyone assumed he was going to propose. He wasn't. He was launching his online comic. He told me that people were thinking he was going to propose and thought it was HILARIOUS; thinking I would have the same reaction. I didn't. It upset me.

We have had discussions about marriage, and he is a bit of a commit-o-phobe. His mom & step-dad have both been married 3 times, and his dad cheated on his mom (& left him & her 2 days before x-mas). I have the nuclear family. My parents have been married 25 years.

Am I right in being upset? From my perspective it felt like he was laughing at me. He apologized, but I don't think he gets it. What should I do?

2006-10-10 04:30:23 · 8 answers · asked by Laura 4 in Singles & Dating

to make a long story short...I had a miscarriage (I didn't know i was pregnant) I told the guy that I have been dating for a couple of months now. (to me the miscarriage was a blessing in disguise) He stopped calling me and I did not call him for the sheer reason I did not want him to feel like I was cornering him or something. 2 1/2 weeks later he left me three messages to forgive him, don't hate him, he thinks he loves me, he's happy with me, he doesn't know why he "disappeared" like that, etc,,,
I like this guy alot and I feel so confused because he was just about out of my system and now it's full blown again. I called him but he hasn't returned my call and I think that he left these messages because he was feeling lonely and feeling bad.Does he really feel this way or was having a few drinks and it got to him? See? I just don't know...it's making me nuts!!!

2006-10-10 04:29:35 · 7 answers · asked by tonaloha 2 in Singles & Dating

It isn't hard to do some quick sums. (eg £5 a week X 52 weeks.)
Only the greedy & gullible do it now. I gave it up ages ago , when I was only getting the odd tenner every 6 months. Financially , it just doesn't pay for itself , think about it??. It's on par with the 'donkeys' at Redcar. People will always be disappointed in the end , that's human nature , to go on a high , just to crash again.

2006-10-10 04:28:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just broke up with my boyfriend 29/09/06 and last friday i met this guy, he is sweet, tall, ambitious and very funny, but i am worried that it might be infatuation, but i don't think that's it.

2006-10-10 04:28:27 · 6 answers · asked by ducky 2 in Singles & Dating

What would be a good way to let her know without fighting that we need to fix our problems and it takes two I cant do it myself.

2006-10-10 04:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by bungalo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2 things, When you dress to show cleavage.
A: do you want us (men) to look?
B Is it ok to look and show we look away when you notice us looking?

2006-10-10 04:26:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:25:55 · 41 answers · asked by Jimmy Mac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 04:25:36 · 19 answers · asked by Jaygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:24:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's kinda nonsense, but I am thinkin. OK, there is a girl of ur dream, and one day she told you that she accepted ur love, I mean she loves u. What would you do? Will u go to the movies together? Will u kiss her? just thinkin. My girl will never love me so i m just happy if she's happy whether with me or without me.

2006-10-10 04:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by Neo 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to know what guys like about girls! looks only not personality! i have that! like hair length and color, perfume, every thing a girl can do with her self to make you want her!! i need a change to make my love life better i mean its good but IM afraid of my man getting bored so i wanna change things around! any advise you can give feel free!!

2006-10-10 04:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and be alone in a house without parents supervision?

2006-10-10 04:23:07 · 26 answers · asked by coffeemate 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if the person you have been involved with for six years and you loved with all your heart makes you feel less of a person, just because of a "mental/thoughts" issue i'm currently dealing with from my past? Mind you, its regarding my parents, should I be looked as a bad person because of the way my parents were,are,is and will be for ever? I think its wrong for anyone to judge about anybody. God should be the only one to judge, why should I tolerate my partner making me feel this way? I've explained over and over to my partner how I find myself feeling and all my partner has to say to that is nothing. No consideration for how i feel, almost as if I have no say in anything, and what my partner says its what goes...anyways, what would you do if this was you? I find myself battleing myself inside, in deciding whether I should stay or If I should go. My mind says go, but my heart says stay, how do I handle a situation like that? Some positive advise would be great.

2006-10-10 04:23:01 · 13 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family

and be alone in a house without parents supervision?

2006-10-10 04:22:44 · 7 answers · asked by coffeemate 3 in Singles & Dating

i want a new ringtone..but i cant think of any good songs..and i dea..im into punk/country/alt.

2006-10-10 04:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and be alone in a house without parents supervision?

2006-10-10 04:22:16 · 12 answers · asked by coffeemate 3 in Singles & Dating

anything...

2006-10-10 04:22:15 · 13 answers · asked by nae 1 in Friends

2006-10-10 04:21:37 · 14 answers · asked by treez1976 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 04:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Win 4 in Family

I have to go to a military ball in mid-Nov. I just got back from Iraq and I should be going with my wife but since she was a cheating hooker the year I was in Iraq so I'll be going through the process of divorce by then. Im stationed at Ft Campbell KY which is near Nashville.

2006-10-10 04:21:19 · 7 answers · asked by ka1sersouze 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by Kelly J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 18 my dad got out of prison when i was 17 my mom did not want to pruse him for back child support. he has been out of my life for 10 years for abuseing me and my mom but he needs to pay back child support how do i go about getting him to do that. can some one help me or give me some advice

2006-10-10 04:20:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi i never had any bf at school or university though many proposed me... I wanted to concentrate only on my studies... All my friends had one and now they are sure they r going to get married... I havent found anyone yet... I am already 24... I dont find the person I want to meet. Was I stupid not to have a bf?

2006-10-10 04:20:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

4 Years ago my husband had a one night stand. I'm just now hearing about this. I have forgiven him and told him that we are to get marriage counseling. The problem I'm having is everytime I lie down on our bed to go to sleep I see my husband having relations with someone that's not me, how do i get it out of my head?

2006-10-10 04:19:39 · 15 answers · asked by mommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 04:19:00 · 18 answers · asked by Meg ♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 04:18:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jbooptoo 1 in Family

Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?
Also, when she isn't messing like this, she is more serious to me than others, she tells me if she is feeling bad.

Another thing related to mthis is that when we are around friends, she does this and we playfully mock each other, but when we are alone she is more sincere with me.

2006-10-10 04:18:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the option of moving and taking a great job opportunity that I've been dreaming of. I've been wanting to move to a different city for a couple years now, but nothing has ever worked out. Only problem is that I met this wonderful guy that lives where I currently reside and we've been dating for about a month. Things are going really well, no red flags, he has many of the qualities that I want in someone, but since it's still so new, I have no idea if it would work out or not. I'm 29 and I really, really want to get married. This guy could be that guy, but there's no way for me to know at this point. What would you do...stay or go?

2006-10-10 04:18:46 · 6 answers · asked by indie 2 in Singles & Dating