Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

my bf is a bit younger than me (11 yrs to be exact). our relationship has been good and i've been with him for 2-1/2 years. Lately our communication level has dropped, i'm basically afraid to ask him a few things regarding some "rumors" i've heard. he tends to snap at me when i do ask questions like that, so i keep it to myself. but i don't want to anymore. any suggestions on how i can talk to him without him getting mad or me seeming like i'm accusing him of something. some things i know for a fact are true.

2006-10-10 04:18:31 · 2 answers · asked by Gemini 2 in Singles & Dating

to be in a relationship in the summer or the winter?
I think its nice to be with someone in the winter. Someone to snuggle up to in the winter nites!xxx

2006-10-10 04:18:11 · 30 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a very very very close FRIEND of her than any other, but I am in a confusion as whether to say my love or not.She knows that I am a Good Boy
even though HOWWW to make her UNDERSTAND
We both are of the same age [studying] , We both are Good Classical DANCERS
But the boy whom she loves is five years elder to her working in an Office
PLEASE UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION, THINK n GIVE A good IDEA!!!

2006-10-10 04:17:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:17:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's a boring queistion but i am bored know, so...

2006-10-10 04:14:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have lied to my best friend.

2006-10-10 04:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda F 1 in Friends

I've been browsing along this single/dating collumn and i've been seeing girls saying "How come "All" guys are jerks? or Biitches or so and so"

I mean seriously have you met all guys? have you met me? have you met my dad? have you met Ojaba Johana on Africa? i donmt think so. So why on earth does "One" guy make you think "ALL" guys are jerks?

2006-10-10 04:13:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a girl intentionaly raises her voic, just enough for the guy to hear her clearly as if alledgely attempting the guy to get jealous?? Does this mean she wants the guy to "make his move on her already, so that he wont get left out" kind of thing?
OR is it just an EGO BOOST for her?

i was really amused because i didn't really feel any amount of jealousy.... it was obvious at my point of view that thier conversation was intentional for me to hear because when i moved away to do something (in the classroom), thier voices
sounds turned down, and turned back a little loud when i came back... i was not the only person in our classroom... we were a crowd full...

i'm 21, she's 18

2006-10-10 04:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by Squall_22 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:11:56 · 4 answers · asked by Budy G 1 in Singles & Dating

RECENTLY MY BEST FRIEND CAME TO ME ABOUT A PROBLEM SHE'S HAVING WITH HER MAN. LATELY HE'S BEING A REAL ***HOLE. HE VERY MEAN TO HER AND WHEN HIS FAMILY MEMBERS ARE AROUND SHE FEEL'S AS IF HE SHOW'S OFF IN FRONT OF THEM ,TALKING ABOUT HER, PUTTING HER DOWN TALKING ABOUT OTHER GIRL'S IN HER FACE.HE'LL HANG OUT ON HER ALL NIGHT AND AFTER NO FAMILY IS AROUND HE WANT'S THINGS TO GO BACK TO NORMAL.IF HE WANTS TO HANG OUT HE WILL AND MESS ALL OF HIS MONEY UP,HE WON'T HELP HER WITH ANY OF THE BILL'S AND NOW THEIR LIGHT'S ARE OFF,AND HE'S RUNNING AROUND PARTYING LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED.SHE CALLED ME AND TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS FED UP AND WHILE HE WAS AT WORK THIS WEEK SHE WAS GOING TO PACK UP *EVERYTHING* AND LEAVEBEFORE HE GOT OFF FROM WORK. SHE ASKED ME IF SHE WAS DOING THE RIGHT THING I SAID YES. WAS I WRONG?THEY HAVE KID'S SHE SUPPORT'S THEM AND HIS OTHER KID'S AND NOT TO MENTION SHE SUPPORT'S HIS LITTLE COUSIN AND MOTHER WHO BOTH HAVE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES. SHE SHOULD LEAVE AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!

2006-10-10 04:11:21 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. Bossy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 04:10:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-10 04:08:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:08:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is he pretending?

2006-10-10 04:08:07 · 16 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Singles & Dating

i want 2 get a black light and hav a dance competition but i dont know wut else 2 do

2006-10-10 04:07:15 · 11 answers · asked by angelskies537 2 in Friends

How come after breaking up my ex- treats me still so gentle than when we were just frds? Is that because he feel guilty or what?

2006-10-10 04:07:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello!
I'm an Italian girl. I'm 15 und my hobbys are reading, listen music, language know and new friends meet!...if someboby what to know me....can you please leave your Msn Messenger contact?
thank you.!!

2006-10-10 04:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by Lilly91 2 in Friends

I recently told my husband I want him out of the house. We have been together for 14 years the last 5 of which I thought he was sober. A recent death in his estranged family drove him to start drinking again. He is once again on a self distructive path that I refuse to go down again. He has never been able to provide for us financially (we have 3 kids) but I felt he made up for that by helping a lot around the house, making dinner, volunteering for activities with the kids. But now I don't think that's enough. How can I stay with a man that I no longer trust or respect? He has worked the past 5 years trying to get that back and I'm not willing to try again. I'm not sure what my question is and maybe I'm just looking for reassurance that I'm doing the right thing. It's not a matter any more of if I need him. I don't think I want him. I feel guilty because I have been his only safety net. I feel guilty. I don't want him to spiral out of control. What do I do now?

2006-10-10 04:06:23 · 17 answers · asked by Mom first 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he has a yahoo e mail adress and there is nothing more i know about him.. how can i find who he is??

2006-10-10 04:06:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

boyfriend or just friend? call history or texts?

2006-10-10 04:05:51 · 20 answers · asked by Elle's Mommy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I try to be nice and do nice things for her but she just cant stop being a bi--ch to me... what do I do....I CANT STAND IT ANYMORE

2006-10-10 04:04:57 · 25 answers · asked by bungalo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He has always expressed how much he wants to marry me, I have been engaged to him several times & almost made it down the aisle once, but, he has had a drug problem & been in jail twice over the course of our relationship. I have tried to move on several times over the yrs, but we always get back 2gether. We have a 13 yr old daughter. For 3 yrs he has been stable, good job, home, etc... but with his new independent life he was taking me for granted. Just recently, I thought I was pregnant & it opened both of our eyes to thinking about our future 2gether. Now he wants to get married and move in with me & be a family. I know he is the one for me, I love this man unconditionally. I have always been afraid of marriage because of my parents relationship (very cold). But my question is after 15 yrs of hoping this man would grow up, my wish has come true.I know I am going to be with him for another 15 yrs so we should get married right?or should I just let him move in? I am so confused

2006-10-10 04:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by sweetie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello!
I'm an Italian girl. I'm 15 und my hobbys are read, listen music, language know and new friends meet!...if someboby what to know me....can you please leave your Msn Messenger contact?
thank you.!!

2006-10-10 04:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lilly91 2 in Friends

2006-10-10 04:03:48 · 14 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Pub Buddy was thinking today on his way to work: It’s no secret your favorite Pub buddy is getting up there in age……Is it time to stop my partying/sex crazed/motorbike riding/walking around with no shirt on days? Or should Pub Buddy keep on trucking!!

2006-10-10 04:03:31 · 10 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a girl and it has been 3 years.She knows I love her but you know when I talk to her, she just says "Let's just be friends", and I ask no more coz I kinda afraid that she'd get angry with me or somewhat??? with too many ????? She is not in my class, she is like 1 month older than me but 1 grade younger.Another problem is teasing. My friends and her friends tease us so I can't talk very well to her at school.She doesnt have an email. Phone...when I call, I become nervous and have no words to say.I am thinkin if she might think that I am a jerk.She is also busy.I hardly catch her on phone. And this is second term, after this year I am movin to another school. I think I am outta my mind.How can I get closer to her?What shall I do? What would u do if u were me?OK, whether u advice or not, thank you.

2006-10-10 04:03:00 · 3 answers · asked by Neo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:02:20 · 14 answers · asked by zach j 1 in Singles & Dating

or somebody stop the wedding. just want 2 know if that stuff happens only on tv or in the movies

2006-10-10 04:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by bciara666 1 in Weddings

My husband and I have been maried for 5 years and we have a 2 year old son. We recently split and my mother took me into her home. Our son lives with me and his father comes and visit and takes him to spend the night every so often. My son is extremly attached to his father and cries for him all the time. I feel very guilty that I dont spend as much time with my son as I should. I have a full time job to support for him and I also attend college. I believe that my son needs me more then anything at this time and I think that the best thing for me to do is to quit school and spend time with him to show him that I am there for him. For the past 9 months that we have split I've also been thinking of getting back with my husband just because my son needs the both of us together; dispite that I have no love for him any more. What should I do?

2006-10-10 04:00:47 · 16 answers · asked by b_chika 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he likes me and he will think about it but it has been weeks and now he want to even talk to me and I'm afraid to ask him out again. he looks at me all the time like he wants me to say something but he want talk to me.

2006-10-10 04:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating