he says he likes me and he will think about it but it has been weeks and now he want to even talk to me and I'm afraid to ask him out again. he looks at me all the time like he wants me to say something but he want talk to me.
2006-10-10 04:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, guys can be shy. Believe me on that. He is very likely too nervous to bring up the subject or discuss it.
2006-10-10 04:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that he probably has your friendship on the top of his mind. As much as he cares about you he is probably afraid of what taking your relationship to the next level may do to your friendship. Males really value females as friends because it lacks the pressure to impress. They enjoy your company without the pressure to fulfill your needs that a relationship entails. Since he has not answered you probably means he wants to remain friends but doesn't want to hurt someone he cares about. You will probably have to take the next step even though you feel he should. Explain to him that you understand that asking him out made him uncomfortable but you don't want it to affect your friendship and that you understand if he is hesistant. Take it one step at a time. He will eventually come around.
2006-10-10 04:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by lorettataylor0329 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to you but I don't think he is into it. Though it is totally wimpy it can be harder to let down a friend gently, or to find any kind of words to reject them. I think you should find a time to sit down with him and sort through the awkwardness together, if you are best friends you must know how to talk to each other.
2006-10-10 04:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by ATL chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like you that way and is afraid to hurt your feelings ? He wants to keep the friendship still, but not sure how?
2006-10-10 04:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he likes you and doesn't know how to express it to you or he's uncomfortable around you because he doesn't have feelings for you. You're going to have to ask him about it before things get too awkward between you guys.
2006-10-10 04:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because you put him in a very weird position...he see's you as a friend and nothing more...its gonna take time 4 him to see as anything other than dat....he has a greater chance of fallin 4 a complete stranger who sez she likes him
2006-10-10 04:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by dante_cyberdemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isay move on you already have your answer
2006-10-10 04:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋