Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

2006-10-10 04:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by Carlo Duran 1 in Friends

About 1 ago, my husband & I had some problems wherewe were living and had to move into my mother in law's house. We have 3 younger kids & the house is quite crowded. It is a rental & when we moved, she said that we would only have to pay the overage on the bills as we were saving to buy/rent somewhere else. She is on a commission based job and has not made a sale since Feb. After the 3rd month, we started paying all the bills except the rent as she was not bringing home $. For the past 3 months, we started paying rent too. We buy all the food & I do all the cooking. She cleans. My problem- she is maxed on her credit cards, can't pay any bills, buy food for house, etc. But, she recently had a birthday & was given a few hundred dollars. Her son is coming into town with his family & we are all going to Disneyland together. My mother in law is going to use what little she has to go too. I am frustrated as I think she should save the $ or help w/bills. Am I being unreasonable?

2006-10-10 04:55:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Your Pub Buddy has a meeting this afternoon with a person at work…Now earlier today I saw the person, but one of her buttons on her shirt was undone….Pub Buddy is hoping someone catches this before I go to the meeting with her…If not should your favorite buddy tell her?...Or should I risk getting a hard on and walking out the meeting with a flag pole??? If I tell her that would imply I was looking (which of course the Pub Buddy will do!!)

2006-10-10 04:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2 in Singles & Dating

Should

a) Hit her

b) Kick her

2006-10-10 04:55:11 · 15 answers · asked by pop 4 in Family

I have been w/my bf for almost a year. We have been friends for over 2. We live together, have dog, & have basically started a life together, etc. We ALWAYS get asked when we are going to get married.

The other day he sent an email out to his friends saying he had something HUGE going on Sunday that he can't wait to tell them about. Everyone assumed he was going to propose. He wasn't. He was launching his online comic. He told me that people were thinking he was going to propose and thought it was HILARIOUS; thinking I would have the same reaction. I didn't. It upset me.

We have had discussions about marriage, and he is a bit of a commit-o-phobe. His mom & step-dad have both been married 3 times, and his dad cheated on his mom (& left him & her 2 days before x-mas). I have the nuclear family. My parents have been married 25 years.

Am I right in being upset? From my perspective it felt like he was laughing at me. He apologized, but I don't think he gets it. What should I do?

2006-10-10 04:54:56 · 31 answers · asked by Laura 4 in Weddings

I have known the guy I am currently dating for a little over 2 years. Because of somethings, we haven't gotten together till just recently. We have been dating for about 3 weeks. Normally I get a call in the morning and a call at night, but this didn't start happening till we started dating. Up till this point he normally just drops off the planet and never calls. Sometimes I call just to mix it up a little bit. He says he loves me (I love him too) and thinks this will be a long term thing. I've met both his parents, his friends, and his sisters. He says everyone likes me and that I make him happy. I called last night and he was at his sisters house. He didn't call me after I called him. Should I be worried or am i just being stupid? Should I call him and see whats up or let him call me?

2006-10-10 04:54:55 · 9 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Singles & Dating

out. I don't know what to do. I'm planning this big birthday party for her with her best friend, and she knows something is up. What do I do?

2006-10-10 04:54:33 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When parents remarry, should a step-mother pay child support for her husband's child? I know that legally, she doesn't, but what is your opinion on this? The step-mother also has a child from a previous marriage to support, and the new couple has a child together. Child support is deducted from the father's pay check, but anything extra the mother asks for, should it be given if the father has another child in the home to support? I would like to read your thoughts.

2006-10-10 04:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by jeffandchristymoss@verizon.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Smell of the perfume? or smell of the body? i mean when you are near your girlfriend.

2006-10-10 04:54:11 · 4 answers · asked by MissRussia 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 04:53:32 · 22 answers · asked by Baby 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 04:53:26 · 40 answers · asked by Eleonora v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i know that my boyfriend and i should not get married, it would not last long. we have been together for so long. i don't know what to do without him. i guess i got used to him being around .please help me out here.

2006-10-10 04:53:24 · 11 answers · asked by moon dancer 3 in Weddings

I was with this man for 5years and we got married in London 3years ago.He's english and I'm turkish.He constantly delayed our wedding ceremony in Turkey for years. I have introduced him to my family, to my relatives, friends ..But he didn't even let anyone know about our marriage from his community. Last year, we came to Turkey and set up a new business.Last summer we were looking for wedding places.And he suddenly left me just 2 days after we looked for another wedding place. He has also transferred the money we had for our business.I had to go through with our business while I was going through a terrible emotional break down.I was worried about him, if he was ok.I didn't know anything about where he was. I called his family and they treated me like a **** and told me nothing. He screwed my life, wasted my 5 years. I was humiliated in front of my family and my relatives..He showed no respect for my culture.If want to divorce him, what would be my financial rights? He is in prague now

2006-10-10 04:53:02 · 1 answers · asked by snm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Good idea/bad idea???
I dont think their a good idea.

2006-10-10 04:53:02 · 43 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok.. well, im going out with this girl ive been seeing a few times... keep in mind that im not the kind of guy who forces a move, infact i usually prefer the woman to start with a little somthing then take it from there.. But with this girl i need to start everything every time... She holds back from what she feels alot, because i know the way she really feels (shes told me).. I dont understand why she just hasnt jumped rite at me, she wants me to make the first move.. Well, im at the point where next time i see her im going to... why is it that some girls seem to do this? like hold back.. If you wanted somone to kiss you, makeout or whatever, why hold back? Is it more fun to be surprised by the guy? i dont get it , seems a bit odd.. ? maybe its only her?

2006-10-10 04:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by re33b9 2 in Singles & Dating

Im wondering if i should get back with my ex because she went home to smoke pot and drugs have screwed my life over in many ways i asked her not to and she knows why and yet she still went against me i love her and im wondering if should give it a try or is it just pointless

2006-10-10 04:52:17 · 7 answers · asked by angel_maddox 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf, Chad's been oversea for business.
On fri night, i went partying with my Japanese friends who came all the way from Tokyo to visit me. It was her birthday, so i brought her to this club where i was sure she'd love it! Guess what, i met chad's friend in that club. i was a little surprised seeing him. he joined us and the night went great untill, suddenly, he told me that Chad wanted him to come to take care of me. What the hell was that?
What kind of immature person is Chad?

How about his idiot friend who ended up telling me everything?

2006-10-10 04:52:12 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:52:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"I'm gonna tell you right now..."
And then never says anything else. it is so annoying!!!!!!
Why does he do that?
UUUGGGGHHH!!!!!

2006-10-10 04:51:56 · 3 answers · asked by tbaby 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 04:51:00 · 11 answers · asked by Baby 5 in Family

Okay for a few months our relationship did get boring and our sexlife was zero for a couple months, but that was all her. I treated her like a queen but we had some problems that could have easily been resolved. She left one weekend with her family and came back to me COLD. She denies she cheated on me but I know for certain she did. I work with this guy also so it makes all the worst plus this guy is married and is seriously an ignorant not as attractive guy as me. So she leaves me for a guy who can only provide her with a trailer and goverment cheese - That confuses me but she is easily influenced but her family and they pushed her away from for this guy cause he is friends with her brother in law. I'm hurt and it sucks because I was going to marry her, we have lived together for 2 1/2 years so you know there is a history there. I want to settle the score but should I. I'm afraid if I fight him I will seriously hurt this guy but I am also afraid if I don't do it now it will just buil

2006-10-10 04:50:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need to subpoena some records to for my case.

2006-10-10 04:50:29 · 2 answers · asked by mekco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife said she wans a divorce because she is not in love with me anymore. The one thing i dont understand is that she still wants to be freinds and has stated multiple times that she doesnt want to lose me sexually. She made it perfectly clear to me she is in love with my anatomy and performance and has told me..you are by far the best at that and you can have this whenever you want including if she is with someone else but i dont want you anymore. I cant really understand this. Am i crazy or is she?

2006-10-10 04:48:47 · 32 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was pimping my little sister out, mainly to a bunch of co-workers and some friends. She's in high school, so it's not like it's REALLY nasty. But, anyway, she stopped turning in the money over the weekend. Now I would feel bad about slapping her around like I used to my g/f, I mean she IS my sister and all. So should we talk this out and try to come to a compromise, or should I get my stepmom involved ? I would hate to go there, because I still owe her money from the last BJ she gave me..

Don't come at me like 'EWWWW' or 'that's gross'.
I'm looking for answers here.
If you're not part of the solution, then you're part of the problem.

2006-10-10 04:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by thatotherguy 2 in Singles & Dating

Last week I found out his password at his e-mail,so like curious person I started reading his mail. In recived mails I didn't see anything unusual,but in his sent mails I saw that he was mailing a women. Saying that he wants a relationship or even mariage. I talked to him and he said it was just for fun. She is married just looking for a lover. He says he loves me. And if he waren't in love with me he wouldn't stay with me.

2006-10-10 04:47:49 · 8 answers · asked by adrianasilviapp 1 in Singles & Dating

I just dont understand why It happens like that, I feel so atracted to American girls but why does that happen?

2006-10-10 04:47:30 · 13 answers · asked by Tackito 2 in Singles & Dating

You can take the girl out of China, but you can't take China out of the girl...

When they smile, it's fake, it's not genuine...

Emotions are manufactured...

Always "saving face" means the word "sorry" is not in their vocabulary

Communist's are not interested in what you feel or what you think. If you learn ANYTHING about what communists are taught, the individual means NOTHING...

There not interested in politics, issues of the day, anmd could give a rats *** about anyone outside their immediate family.

They don't integrate or learn any aspect of what it is to be an American. This aspect is not interesting to them, anymore than an immigrant wants nothing more now than to identify with their own group, and blows off the rest.

After being with a woman with all of the above "virtues", is it like lifting a piano off my chest to leave her....

Do you think she'll wonder why?

2006-10-10 04:47:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lena has been my best friend for 8 years and now i can't stand her. She lives out of state temporarly while going to school. she is always wanting me to come get her and it's a nine hour round trip. I always have to pay for gas, her cigarettes, and food for her. Then she is always asking me to buy her other stuff. She never seems gratefull either. She is really bossy too. I don't know what has happened to her. Why she has changed so much. I just don't want to hurt her but i can't stand her anymore. She is so rude to me and my friends, family , and boyfriend. Help me please!

2006-10-10 04:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by i_see_purple_frogs 1 in Friends

My friend is becoming more popular and I'm happy about that its just that with that populatity she keeps pushing me aside like I dont exist.I will talk to her when others are around and she dosent even listen to me, But when we are alone she acts like I'm her best friend again. We've been best friends for about 3-4 years, and I dont know what to do. I dont want to end our friendship and I dont want to hurt her either by saying something mean. But i'm getting tired of it! HELP!

2006-10-10 04:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-10 04:45:27 · 13 answers · asked by adam peter 1 in Friends