Good idea/bad idea???
I dont think their a good idea.
2006-10-10 04:53:02 · 43 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is good to see that romance is not dead in the valleys and foothills of Wales.
I've been holding out for something more than just "sex" for 4 years now.
Actually re-reading the above makes me think twice, 4 years is a helluva long time.
I mean Christ - I'm 26 - I should be having the best sex of my life, not worrying about peoples "feelings".
Sod it, I've had an epiphany; life is about experiences, you only get to live once and you should grab as much fun as you can while you can.
Your 24, you should be doing it like a bunny every chance you get, you're young and beautiful, enjoy your body and don't worry about emotions - cause even feeling depressed is better than feeling nothing :-)
2006-10-10 08:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior Hamster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a bad experience with one. I know not to let feelings get in the way of the situation and everything works out fine. Its when you start spending way to much time with the other person that things start getting weird. If you want the other person to just be there for some fun every once in a while, make sure that they know it in the begining so they don't assume things later on.
2006-10-10 04:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one and I think it's a fabulous thing. He is one of my best friends - and that's mutual too! - and we trust each other. I am single, as is he, and neither of us want to get involved, but we still have needs. It's not a regular thing, we speak on the phone weekly or every other day and see each other every week or fortnight. We do not "indulge" every time we spend time together either as we are friends and we do friend things!
In the long run, I can't tell yo how it will go, but it has been going on for about a year and a half already, and we are still firm friends.
2006-10-10 05:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Marlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had fck buddies in the past and for a while it suited me - no strings sex with someone you know and trust. Better than picking someone up in a club. It's great fun if you don't let yourself get emotionally attached and it did work for me. However, after a while it can be extremely superficial and unfulfilling and now I'd actually rather be on my own and wait for real quality sex with someone I love than bother with fck buddies.
2006-10-10 04:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it. But then I am a man lol. But for every male fcuk buddie there is a femail one, True.
2006-10-10 05:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by iain xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, I do think it's a bad idea too. I don't think I could seperate the emotions. If there was a way to do that with no downfalls like pregnancy or no bad emotions, I would.
2006-10-10 04:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good idea - as long as you are both careful. Wouldn't want to end up with an STI from a bit of fun.
2006-10-10 04:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by thebigtombs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. It may be fun at the start, but after a while it always goes bad.
2006-10-10 04:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by jwb674 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm beginning to think they are a really good idea. I haven't ever had one but think maybe one day.
The NSA (no strings attached ) idea,... Sure I can understand that.
My vote is for yes
2006-10-10 05:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have had several 'buddies' myself over the years - - - they are AWESOME as long as neither party starts 'falling' for the other one or wanting more. I'm not into commitment so it works great!
2006-10-10 04:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by cheezehead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋