I have known the guy I am currently dating for a little over 2 years. Because of somethings, we haven't gotten together till just recently. We have been dating for about 3 weeks. Normally I get a call in the morning and a call at night, but this didn't start happening till we started dating. Up till this point he normally just drops off the planet and never calls. Sometimes I call just to mix it up a little bit. He says he loves me (I love him too) and thinks this will be a long term thing. I've met both his parents, his friends, and his sisters. He says everyone likes me and that I make him happy. I called last night and he was at his sisters house. He didn't call me after I called him. Should I be worried or am i just being stupid? Should I call him and see whats up or let him call me?
2006-10-10 04:54:55 · 9 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to calm down. There are many reasons for a non-returned phone call, or a missed call. Just relax, go about your day, and when you make contact, you can ask him. But don't get up in the air about it, this should not make such an impact on you.
2006-10-10 04:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do't get obsessive it will cause him to run away further. Keep busy and don't let it effect you, you might end up doing something like blame him for somthing he hasn't done. It can ruin the trust you two have. If anything Text him and tell him you 'missed his voice', but don't get snappy on him and a text message if you want him to miss you type something like. 'Wearing no panties'.
2006-10-10 05:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasn't phoned you he's obviously needing a bit of space. maybe something has happened maybe it hasn't, maybe something has happened to someone in his family and he ahsnt got round to phoning you yet. If You are really worried phone him...im sure he wont mind. he might have just fallen asleep which my boyfriend does very often when he says he'll phone you. And as for this "sometimes i call just to mix it up a bit", thats just stupid...if you love him you should phone him too. maybe he's just waiting to see if you will call, its not fair on him having to phone you all the time, i myself have had this happen to me with my boyfriend (of five years, now my fianceé) where he would barely EVER phone me and if he did it would be to ask me to CALL.HIM.BACK!! it pissed me off, so i left it a couple of days before calling him, to see if he would call me. and surprise surprise, he call me to ask me to call him. and i didnt, and we had a conversation on his phone bill for a change, albeit an argument, but still it was on his bill. =D
2006-10-10 05:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by karyn n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God's sake it's only a couple of days. Get a hold of yourself woman.
2006-10-10 04:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by The Golden Child 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I have been together 5 1/2yrs and sometimes we go a week w/out speaking. We both have lives. When we do speak or see eachother, we actually have things to talk about.
Your being a bit insecure. Sounds like you need to have more of a life outside of this guy.
2006-10-10 05:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by tarita 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to give him some time. He might be busy with something, but never has the time to tell you. But if a long time goes by this way, I guess it's best to confront him directly.
2006-10-10 05:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by dryad_of_nature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like you are really insecure. Just relax and let things settle in naturally. If he is comfortable calling once a week, just roll with it. If he starts calling 12 times a day, call the police.
2006-10-10 04:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worrying too much. If it's been a few days, maybe.......
2006-10-10 04:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being pathetically insecure and don't worry...he's dating you and two other chicks as well. He will settle with one of you three once he figures out who is the better lay.
2006-10-10 05:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋