2006-10-10 04:25:36 · 19 answers · asked by Jaygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him...
jeez... if you don't trust someone, and they live far away, how can you be dating them?
get a life!
2006-10-10 04:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something that is earned. Long distance relationships can work but they take alot of trust and lots of visits.
I myself would not date someone in Atlanta because alot of men in Atlanta are either gay, bi, or tri!!!!! I wouldn't trust a man from Atlanta even if he was the last man on earth!!!!
2006-10-10 04:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by slow-n-sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man in Atlanta? You know what's going on. There's nothing that you can do to overcome distrust even if you were to move there. You are going to have to accept what he is doing and not worry about it. You two are not married or engaged so their is no sense of commitment. Satisfying his physical needs will not generally interfere with his relationship with you unless it's not serious. If you want to play the good woman and be true to him that's your decision but you are the one that will be alone not him. You should discuss the relationship with him instead of guessing and suspecting what's going on.
2006-10-10 04:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the long distance relationship or just accept what will be will be........I have never understood how people think that long distance relationships create a true relationship??? You really must know to really get to know someone & build trust is when you spend time with them regularly. How can there be any other way? Can you imagine being married & not living together, it could possibly work for some but not most.
2006-10-10 04:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise is, if u love someone its doesnt matter how far he go, he still in you, no matter what. The main thing is the trust,sometimes love does travel, but the trust is most important, if u cant trust him meaning the love is not there at all. YOu have to trust him to love him. Then the best answer is try to trust him, and you will fall in love later, get to know him, keep on email, and sms every hour juz to say u do miss him, by that u will know where is he, and what his doing at that time... learn to get to know him better, later will come the trust. My telling you tru my experience. My hubby far abt 200miles away frm me, we been contact very hour, he call me when his get up, when he taking his breakfast, lunch and dinner the last is when he wants to sleep.. so i do trust him, and so does he.
2006-10-10 04:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, break it off with this fellow...if you don't trust him, he probably doesn't trust you either for similar reasons...sometimes long distance relationships just don't work.
Then, start going out with someone in your area...you may likely have the same problem but at least it will be easier to deal with it in person. Hopefully, tho, you won't have to worry about being bothered with distrust...
Good luck
2006-10-10 04:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust him then go with your gut feeling and just not talk to this guy anymore and find someone that you do trust. Because if you don't trust him now then how are you going to trust him ever.
2006-10-10 04:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Robyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone closer to home..long distance relationships don't usually work out especially if you don't trust him!
2006-10-10 04:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your insecure about it, the LTR won't work. Find someone closer or learn to trust him
2006-10-10 04:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS HARD HOPEFULLY HIS NAME IS NOT KELLY I WOULD MAKE A SURPRISE TRIP ON THE WEEKEND LIKE I DID BE SURE TO TAKE A GIRL FRIEND THAT WILL PUT THE TRUTH RIGHT IN YOUR LAP WEEKENDS ARE WHEN THE DOGS PLAY IF IN FACT THAT HE IS AND IF HE ISN'T YOU WILL FIND OUT BEST OF LUCK TO YOU
2006-10-10 04:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by aprils 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋