Hi i never had any bf at school or university though many proposed me... I wanted to concentrate only on my studies... All my friends had one and now they are sure they r going to get married... I havent found anyone yet... I am already 24... I dont find the person I want to meet. Was I stupid not to have a bf?
2006-10-10 04:20:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are probably the smartest one out of your friends. Education will last you a life time...and boys...they come and go. You meet someone, don't worry. Just go have fun and time will tell.
2006-10-10 04:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by voandginger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little picky and scared. Liten up don't worry about the past there's nothing you can do about it now anyway you were right to concentrate on your work. Wait until your ready for a relationship, you'll know when it's time. There's nothing wrong with finding the right person that's what were all looking for. You don't have to be a certain age to be married your still young make that money for your future and when you fall in love with that right guy worry about marriage when you get to that point. Dating is fun not a chore.
2006-10-10 11:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman please... There´s nothing wrong about being selective when finding a BF, but in your case, it is about time (there are good men out there you know?). Remember that life is not only studies and work, and even when i am sure you took the right choices you must accept that life is about balance, about big and little things that fill your time with. Big things like your career, friendship, love and your family, and small things like your hobbies and a sunny day make your life complete. There´s also nothing wrong about choosing the wrong guy and be broken hearted one in a while, that´s the way you learn to appreciate the right guy when he suddenly appears in your live. Human relations are complicated, but not impossible, start with some of the guys around you, is anyone handsome/classy enough for a princess like you? if so, try to flirt a little, make him start to show interest in you and try to keep him that way, do not call him so often, but do make him call you. You do not need to show desperate, just make sure he got the bait. (and please don´t go to bed with him in the first date, if you do it, he´ll dump you no matter what anyone says).
2006-10-10 11:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by farreiro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not stupid. You were prioritized. Smart. Alot more of us should have been that way and we'd probably have a lot more in life. there is plenty of time to enjoy yourself. Just be safe about it and date you'll find Mr. right after you date a few or more.
2006-10-10 11:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you weren't you worry in not getting a bf..were just trying to make a life for you...that way you won't have to depend on a man good for you...don't worry you'll find someone when the time is right...don't concentration on looking for one cause they never come when you want them to...so just continue to do you and mr. right will come along when you least expect it
2006-10-10 11:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by crazybabyphatgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it's not all that big of a deal. Be happy with who you are and if someone is worth being with you, you'll find that person.
Do not take it personally or think that you are less of a person.
Trust me, 95% of people in relationships are actually more miserable. It's a scientific fact.
2006-10-10 11:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is important is ur carrier and u r not stupidand i think tht mayb u r too insecure..well as u say tht most of ur fren r goin to get married and they might not of think the long terms like r they really commited with each other.getting married early is not easy unless u find a rich guy tht can support u.as 4 me i think wat matter most is my carrier and marriage is second .if u achieved ur carrier im supposed tht u wont regret it one day.just keep my words.
anyway hav a nice day.
2006-10-10 11:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~electra~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got marry 2 years ago and I'm 40 and she is 28. you got time, money and not bind to your hormone. Go enjoy dating and have fun. Don't make it sound like homework.
2006-10-10 11:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You took care of the most important person you! Now look for that special someone, someone that will love you and treat you well. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-10 11:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows that you take care of yourself. You will now have to play catchup though.
2006-10-10 11:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋