Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

im with my first everything and we have been apart for almost 10 yrs now well we started talking again like a month ago and he is telling me that he is in love with me all over again andwants to marry me andtake my daughter into his family meanwhile he is still marries to someone else and has 2 children with her.. i need some good advice... yes i love him to and c myself with him like that but i niot rushing into anything so fast like he wants to

2006-10-10 16:38:49 · 4 answers · asked by AMYJO @ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I heard that if a person gets nervous around you for no apparent reason and/or when a person looks at you in a certain way, you can tell that s/he is interested in you. Is this true?

2006-10-10 16:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5 in Singles & Dating

i want two boyfriends

2006-10-10 16:38:30 · 2 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair with a man from work and am now pregnant. i know it is his. i am married to a man i love, and want to be with him 4ever, i just made a really stupid mistake when i had this one and only affair. the man i had an affair with looks very similar to my hubby, and doesnt want anything to do with the child, he just wants to forget the whole thing.

should i have the child and not tell my hubby and just let him think its his? i do not believe in abortion.

has this happened to any other women in here and what did you do?

2006-10-10 16:38:27 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1 in Weddings

I don't want things to end up akward and i'm not having s*x because I'm saving for marraige, but I don't want him to think he has done anything wrong or that I don't love him. please help

2006-10-10 16:38:16 · 18 answers · asked by Melvina 2 in Singles & Dating

I had an affair with a man from work and am now pregnant. i know it is his. i am married to a man i love, and want to be with him 4ever, i just made a really stupid mistake when i had this one and only affair. the man i had an affair with looks very similar to my hubby, and doesnt want anything to do with the child, he just wants to forget the whole thing.

should i have the child and not tell my hubby and just let him think its his? i do not believe in abortion.

has this happened to any other women in here and what did you do?

2006-10-10 16:38:13 · 25 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I have this cousin from Hawaii that is visiting and she bosses me around. I can't stand it. She is mean to me and is nice to my other two cousins from Hawaii that live with me now. What do I do about it?

2006-10-10 16:38:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-10 16:37:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i had an affair with a man from work and am now pregnant. i know it is his. i am married to a man i love, and want to be with him 4ever, i just made a really stupid mistake when i had this one and only affair. the man i had an affair with looks very similar to my hubby, and doesnt want anything to do with the child, he just wants to forget the whole thing.

should i have the child and not tell my hubby and just let him think its his? i do not believe in abortion.

has this happened to any other women in here and what did you do?

2006-10-10 16:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend been together for a year and 2 months earlier in the relationship he cheated but cried to come back to me and yes he really cried it's been about 6 or 7 months since then but I don't know if I trust him but were always together and he give me wahat I want and need do you think he's for real this time

2006-10-10 16:37:34 · 5 answers · asked by nekke3 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think?
there has be something wrong with me, obviously.

i don't want to go out specifically looking for a girl, but it seems like there aren't many options available to meet girls randomly, aside from going to noisy places with some friends of mine.
i hate noisy places. i'm a bit shy.

i'm doomed.

2006-10-10 16:37:23 · 32 answers · asked by bad_ambassador 3 in Singles & Dating

since i am in love it a girl and she's not but rather love someone else and keeps playing me around like a dull, how can i get her off my head?

2006-10-10 16:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by mystry 2 in Singles & Dating

i had an affair with a man from work and am now pregnant. i know it is his. i am married to a man i love, and want to be with him 4ever, i just made a really stupid mistake when i had this one and only affair. the man i had an affair with looks very similar to my hubby, and doesnt want anything to do with the child, he just wants to forget the whole thing.

should i have the child and not tell my hubby and just let him think its his? i do not believe in abortion.

has this happened to any other women in here and what did you do?

2006-10-10 16:37:06 · 13 answers · asked by amy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My finacee got arrested unexpectly and it's hard being without him; however, i know that he keeps telling me lies and i want to wait till his 60 days are up to talk to him about it in person but i know hes gonna try to lie about it (say that he never said it or say he said something else) I also know that he really loves me because he damn near begged me for weeks to be with him and after getting to know him a little better i finally agreed. Should i stay with him? what would you do?

2006-10-10 16:36:35 · 5 answers · asked by truepoisonwontkill 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am being forced to move into a rented bedroom, and the interest on the arrears means I will never catch up. My ex has a college degree, types 90wpm, and speaks 3 languages. She's taken a lame job, way under her potential. She now lives with my ex-friend, and is pulling in 3 incomes. (Hers, His, and big chunk of mine.) we have 50/50 custody. She did not put me through college, on the contrary, I was the one to help her as she went from job to job. I don't have the money for another round of lawyering. How is this fair? And for years? How do I fight this? DCSS just seems intent on collecting money. And my lawyer is lame, and now I owe him as well. Any fathers in Ventura that have dealt with this? Any advocates? Ideas? (serious only, please).
Thanks!

2006-10-10 16:35:39 · 4 answers · asked by Sad-Dad 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend that I have known for two years and we get along awesomely. One day, I discovered that I liked her ex-boyfriend and I immediately told her because I thought it was the right thing to do. She was happy about it and told me that she would do whatever it took to get us together. Then one day, she told me that she talked to him (even when I told her not to because I wanted to do it myself) and that he said he liked me as a friend, but wanted to get to know me. I'm a little shy, so it's hard for me to be confident and flirtatious. A week later, a close friend of hers informed me that this friend of mine actually DIDN'T talk to him and was GOING BACK OUT WITH HIM! I'm angry with her, but haven't confronted her because she's been gone for a few days. Tomorrow, I'll see her, but I'm not sure how to handle the situation. NONE of my friends have EVER backstabbed me before. A little advice and guidance would be great right now.

Thanks.

2006-10-10 16:35:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me, my man and 2 of my other female friends were out when my 2 friends started making out with each other. My boyfreinds apt. was around the corner so we all went there to "sober up" when one thing led to another and we were all going at it. my boyfriend took me to the bedroom but my friends came in shortly after. we all started messin around again but my bf wasnt trying to sleep with them, just me. when i pulled myself away so he could have his way with me he couldnt get it up. he said he just felt really under pressure and wasnt turned on by the situation. i beleive him but just wanna know if its true that not all guys wanna be with more than one girl at a time. I'm not bi-sexual by any means and dont make this kind of a thing a habit. actually it was a first for me and I really didnt want my man screwing someone else, no matter who they are. do you think maybe he sensed this and that's why he didnt do it?

2006-10-10 16:35:04 · 10 answers · asked by sarah p 1 in Singles & Dating

We noticed another person's name on the back of a relative's tombstone. After inquiring with the funeral home, we found out that our dearly departed had sold the back of the tombstone to some other person no longer of this world. Has anyone ever heard of someone doing this? Just curious. Thanks.

2006-10-10 16:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by PeteInNashville 3 in Family

he started awhile ago weve been going out for awhile we were walking he was staring at me and was like baby your beautiful i dont know how to answer that but just smile.. i hate looking stupid like i am hi what should i say?

2006-10-10 16:34:06 · 30 answers · asked by stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have liked this dude for some time now. and now i got an email from one of my friends saying that he TOLD her that i like him cuz he knows i do. and a bunch of people know and their making a freakin deal out of it. and now im REALLY pissed at him. cuz he jsut thinks hes SO superior and crap with him syaing "you have bad aim" and all this "im stronger than you crap" that he does sometimes. and i have a feeling im jsut a little trophyt that he tell his freinds goin "yep, she digs me" and so i wanna give him an earful cuz apparently, im just a joke. and i dont appreaciate it and so i need sone help. what are some good things to say when i blast his ear off? like some good come bak-like phrases that convey my pissedoff ness. i have some in mind. i jsut want him to know that he should know better not to treat me like a little pet or trophy or whatever

2006-10-10 16:32:48 · 10 answers · asked by The Ren 3 in Singles & Dating

Say some guy took complete advantage of you in a moment of weakness. You didnt like it what so ever and cried afterward. If you wanted to make yourself think it meant something would u do it again? Are there any possible reasons you would let him do it again? Anything?

2006-10-10 16:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by 2nice 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like a lot of bi women out here latey, are they the majority?

2006-10-10 16:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I talk to him on the phone and he doesn't even respond to my questions , almost like he is preoccupied with something ( I have no idea what.) And then he goes "la da da de da "and it irritates me to no end.We have nothing to talk about.We had sex and it sucked . I just am not into him in that way I just want to be friends with him.Should I break it off?How do I do it?

2006-10-10 16:30:59 · 35 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 16:30:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 28 and still dress tomboyish like I did growing up. My mother would love to have grand children from me. She has never asked me my sexual orientation but now is the time for me to tell her but I just don't know how. I am not scared of my parents or anything but I have been very private of my life. I would love to tell them now so when and if I find a right partner I do not spring it on them.

2006-10-10 16:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by tknlsbn 1 in Family

i mean what do u want 2 ask them the first thing or tell them i would tell my Fiance i love him very much

2006-10-10 16:29:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 16:29:06 · 30 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Marriage & Divorce

for all my life i have hid my emotions, just until resently they started to stir up for no reason at all. but now i feel so alone and i cant get rid of it, it feels like im burning a hole in my gut. i dont know whats going on; but i basicly feel like im standing alone.

2006-10-10 16:28:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's easy to tell if a guy likes a girl
1) he will focus all his attention on her
2) He will try to make her laugh
3) He tries to spend all his time on her
4) The guy gives the girl gifts and coughs up money so the girl can buy something.

It is easy to identify if a guy likes a girl, but since girls are a whole lot more complicated. I can't figure out if she is sharing the same feelings as I have or not.
Ever since about Mid may to Mid June, my friend, Natalie, has been acting strangely around me. We spent the schoolyear just as good friends.
I really didn't give her special attention. I just let her borrow my jacket on the cold days and bought her a drink after a hot day.
I didn't notice how I felt about her until after I paid for her ticket and mine to a school dance. I want to know if she shares the same feelings as I do for her. I don't want to just go up and ask her out because that may harm the strong friendly bond I have with her already. Please help

2006-10-10 16:28:47 · 10 answers · asked by Tai Mai Shu 4 in Singles & Dating

Keep in mind, that I have been broken up with this individual for about 3 years now. However, I feel like we were and still are soul mates.... Am I crazy for thinking or feeling this way??? And he has gone on and married another woman..But if so, why do I know when something is not right with him and we are no longer togather? Even though I have moved on, I just don't feel complete...And I know he feels the same way. Like, when we are in each others presence, we have this connection, this bond, that has not been broken yet...And we will talk with our eyes. But given the situation there's nothing we can do. So why do I feel so strongly about this? What should I do?

2006-10-10 16:28:04 · 12 answers · asked by denise 2 in Singles & Dating