2006-10-10 16:29:06 · 30 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't care what my husband's weight is as long as he is healthy. I would not trade him for anything! He is the person I married no matter what! How shallow some people are! I am blessed with a good man and he will always look good to me. People are more than what their weight is! They are more than what they look like! Anyway, my husband is kind of chubby and I think he is real cute! We have been married ten years and he looks better all of the time!
2006-10-10 16:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely stay if my spouse gained or lost weight. I am not into looks as much as most women are. In fact, when I married my ex, he was about 175 pounds, 5 feet 10, really sexy. Over the years, especially once he quit cigarettes, he gained a lot of weight and ended up being about 250 pounds, if not more. I didn't mind.
To me, a relationship based on looks isn't a real relationship. If you truly love someone, you will stay with them no matter what they look like--fat, thin, sexy, ugly, whatever. Looks are NOT everything, just like money isn't either.
I am now with a guy that has always tried to gain weight (he is always between 175 and 180, 6 feet tall). He has tried everything, but his metabolism won't let him gain. I don't care. It is his personality, how he treats me, etc, that attracts me to him, NOT his looks/weight.
2006-10-10 23:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. Actually I am the one in my relationship that has gained some weight, but I just had a baby recently. If my hubby gained some weight I wouldn't mind. If it started affecting his health I might ask him to do something about it.. but it would have nothing to do with looks.
2006-10-10 23:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by cj2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Positive.
2006-10-11 08:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter for me .. of course i will stay with him .. if he gains weight or not.he gains weight is because hes probably happy about his life and eating more.. its not about looks but rather personality... when u love a perosn very much inside is what counts..
the sad part is that this kind of thing do happen and its not a stupid question like some people mite say ...
example .. my own dad himself keep pressuring my mom to lost weight .. yes i know its healthy .. but she like what less 50kg.. he will just pin point at her if she gain a little bit of weight,.. i ever overhead him saying to my mom," lose weight or i will never go out with u " ..
since i am overweight. he has been critising me about my appearance..i dont think im that ugly but he keep saying with my weight i will never find a husband or partner or even say yah one day my husband will leave me because i'm fat n ugly..
sad to say even my own dad is very2 shallow..
2006-10-11 00:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. Anyone that would leave is shallow and doesn't really love their partner. The same people would leave when their partner became old, developed wrinkles, white hair, became bald, etc. Superficial. Just looking for a trophy spouse.
2006-10-10 23:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you dont marry someone purely for their looks. But if my husband started putting on weight I would suggest that we exercise together therefore we spend more time together plus lose weight. If they started losing weight I would suggest they do weight training while I also do some form of light exercise. Teamwork
2006-10-10 23:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely. I don't think anyone loses a lot of weight after marriage unless they're sick. Gaining weight on the other hand...
2006-10-10 23:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jp83 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I married my husband because he is my best friend, and quite handsome, but also because he knows me inside and out. He knows when to take my hand to give me that extra boost of confidence. He knows when to give me a slight push to help be accomplish my goals. He knows how to comfort me when I am crying. He knows how to have fun with me. He is a wonderful father to our daughter. He in my eyes is perfect. I could never imagine leaving him just because of weight. I married him because of the way he makes me feel, the way he treats me, the way he says I love you. That would never change if he gained weight.
2006-10-12 10:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by piano4thesoul 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I take care of myself. I work reasonably hard to stay fit. I would expect the same out of anyone I marry.
To be fair, I would make my stance on that clear before I ever popped the question.
2006-10-10 23:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋