Well, I have this cousin from Hawaii that is visiting and she bosses me around. I can't stand it. She is mean to me and is nice to my other two cousins from Hawaii that live with me now. What do I do about it?
2006-10-10 16:38:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
One more thing, she is nice to my other cousins and is mean to me. I don't know why. Her and my two cousins living with me are rude also, but none of the three of them care that I am offended.
2006-10-10 16:51:27 · update #1
When they make a rude comment just tell them sorry but I am a person and until I am treated like one I have nothing to say and then walk away. Don't let them see you get upset as this will make them continue instead stand up for yourself and just be blunt with them. After they are ignored enough they will either be a little nicer or stay away.
2006-10-10 16:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they act like that walk away from them and tell them you will be around when they act right, ignore them and do your own thing.[i know it hurts and it is hard to deal with] [they like picking on you and think it is funny, if you can don't let them know they are pushing your buttons, hopefully they will grow up and be good relatives.....
2006-10-10 18:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if they'd like to play an interactive game?! Then tell them ALL to "Go outside & play hide & go F--- yourself"!
That ought to get the stick out of their a---s! ;-)
Stand up for yourself honey, you'll be glad you did!
2006-10-10 17:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say forget her and go do your own thing. people only do what you allow them to do. show her that her rudeness is just stupidity. kindness hurts worse than anything
2006-10-10 16:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, if she still continues being mean then don't see her again.
2006-10-10 16:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they live with you, or with you and your parents?....if with parents, tell your mother/father this has to stop....directly tell your cousin she ain't your boss, this is your house!....If it doesn't work nicely, then tell her plain as day to go f*** herself!!!...this is YOUR house!!!!!!
2006-10-10 17:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voice your concerns..maybe she is not aware she is doing this to u
2006-10-10 16:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by M V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her!
2006-10-10 16:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by 2Good4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋