im with my first everything and we have been apart for almost 10 yrs now well we started talking again like a month ago and he is telling me that he is in love with me all over again andwants to marry me andtake my daughter into his family meanwhile he is still marries to someone else and has 2 children with her.. i need some good advice... yes i love him to and c myself with him like that but i niot rushing into anything so fast like he wants to
2006-10-10 16:38:49 · 4 answers · asked by AMYJO @ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's still married.. you're right, don't rush into anything. At least untill he's divorced, it's a long process. Meanwhile you could try to get to know him more, 10 years is a long time, people change during those years. He needs to get to know your daughter too, and you his 2 children. You'll know if he's telling the truth when he says he's in love with you if you know him well. Now, you don't know if it's true or not because you don't know him anymore. I believe my bf when he says it because I know he wouldn't lie about it and he shows it. So you'll just know it's true too when you know him well.
2006-10-10 17:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cares about you, yet even as he says hes no longer feeling you it probable skill he would not like you or get alongside with you in a courting. I say stay acquaintances. He sounds slightly perplexing, yet being concerned non the a lot less. So yea. stay acquaintances, yet discover somone else to be your boyfriend.
2016-10-16 04:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still married please stay away from him until he makes his mind up that he is sure he does not love his wife any more. I know you love him but if he truly loves you he will do the right thing what ever it takes but cheating is not the answer. I know my husband cheated on my with his ex wife and they have 3 kids. Make sure you both know what you want and wait until their divorce if that is what happens.
2006-10-10 18:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by short but sentimental 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By his actions, he can say he loves you as much as possible, but he has to prove it.
2006-10-10 16:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋