Keep in mind, that I have been broken up with this individual for about 3 years now. However, I feel like we were and still are soul mates.... Am I crazy for thinking or feeling this way??? And he has gone on and married another woman..But if so, why do I know when something is not right with him and we are no longer togather? Even though I have moved on, I just don't feel complete...And I know he feels the same way. Like, when we are in each others presence, we have this connection, this bond, that has not been broken yet...And we will talk with our eyes. But given the situation there's nothing we can do. So why do I feel so strongly about this? What should I do?
2006-10-10 16:28:04 · 12 answers · asked by denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is more than one person made for you in the universe. You're not crazy; there are many people who could fit the bill. The person, place and time must all be right for things to move forward. Perhaps the man was right but the time was wrong. This doesn't mean that he'll be ready for you later. It means that you were a perfect match that wasn't meant to be. Good luck and keep looking.
2006-10-10 16:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Travbot the Observer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everything is life, especially relationships is about the right people in the right place at the right time. If something is off either nothing will happen or things will not happen the way they should. Also there is the possibility that you might be soul siblings. I talk with my eyes with my friend Zel and we each feel more complete when together, but we're not lesbian.
Anyway, if you know he feels the same way then you must have talked about this, but for whatever reason he still married her. Get on with life (I know, easier said than done) and maybe things will change later on.
2006-10-10 16:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Katra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship ended 3 years ago and you're running on fumes from that old fire that you are keeping alive.... that's not moving on.
Avoid the old flame --- and clear out the memory banks by not dwelling on the past, anytime these memories come up - mentally delete them one by one....that way you are feeding off of them... the only way to break a habit is to ween yourself off of that person or thing that has you bound. Find something that requires your attention and affections.... ever thought of working with babies or young children? or volunteering at the hospital ? Put your affections to work in a positive way that also benefits others who are in need or suffering... and you will reap richly from the experience!
2006-10-10 16:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation. Move on. This happened to me almost ten years ago, he's still married, has three children, and i would say happy. But we are still best friends, always have been and always will be.
2006-10-10 16:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by tray69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Denise, stay away from a married man. He married his wife - not you, for a reason and you should respect that. If he is meant to be yours your paths will cross at a more suitable time, in the mean time date other guys and try not to see him as often/
2006-10-10 16:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT VERY NORMAL TO STILL HAVE STRONG FEELING FOR
SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVED FOR 3 YEARS. AND YOU
MAY FEEL THAT YOU ARE SOUL MATES BUT HE HAS MOVED
ON AND YOU NEED TO DO THE SAME. THE LONGER YOU
PINNED ON THE PAST, YOU WILL NEVER FIND YOUR SOUL
MATE IN THE PRESENT. SO THAT YOU CAN HAVE A FUTURE.
2006-10-10 16:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't crazy. If this man is really your God-chosen soul mate, then the relationship he is in now will not work out for him. And when it is finally over he will be yours.
2006-10-10 16:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by jesus_freako_13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can you do is the question. Absolutely nothing and move along, dear. Go and learn to love yourself before you try to love someone else.
2006-10-10 16:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by willibwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do, he belongs to another now.
If he feels as strongly about this as you do, it's up to him to make the appropriate moves.
2006-10-10 16:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋