is it ok to want to have two boyfriends?

Question

i want two boyfriends

Answer 1

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Having 2 b/f or g/f can almost be summed up in one word "messy". Guys are almost like 5 years old to begin with. Having them share a Tonka toy totally equal every time is not going to happen. There are a million things that can go wrong with this senario.

Say one is a better dancer and there is a dance coming up. But the poorer dancing b/f ask you go go. But you know the better dancing b/f will ask but he just had not got to it. How do you get out of going with one to go with the other and keep the peace?

What if one was the better kisser. The other dosen't seen toknow what he was doing. When he tries to kiss you do you kiss him equal to the better kisser and as long? Or do you find ways to avoid that. And if you did, do you think that fact will go unnoticed?

Your birthday. One gives you a gift that really touched your heart and the other a gift you really could not use or did not care for. Do you say so, risk looking like you favor one over the other, or do you lie about the gift and say you loved it as much?

Put yourself in the place you want them to be in? One of a pair. If you wanted a b/f to come over for Thanksgiving but he choose to go to the other g/f house. Do you feel it is because the other g/f had special relatives from out of town, or that he liked her more? That thought might eat at you every day. Of if he allowed her to kiss him more. I but you would not like it.

And what if you should get pregnant. Do you think everyone will be on the same page with that? If you decided to keep it with the father, the other one might feel left out. He might feel angry because the babay will be keeping him from enjoying your body.

In short, too, too many messes. You will have enough to clean up in isle 5 without adding to it.

Answer 2

yes. its fine to want 2 boyfriends. but having 2 of them is the problem. if that is way you want to go then you should find 2 guys who dont mind sharing.