My finacee got arrested unexpectly and it's hard being without him; however, i know that he keeps telling me lies and i want to wait till his 60 days are up to talk to him about it in person but i know hes gonna try to lie about it (say that he never said it or say he said something else) I also know that he really loves me because he damn near begged me for weeks to be with him and after getting to know him a little better i finally agreed. Should i stay with him? what would you do?
2006-10-10 16:36:35 · 5 answers · asked by truepoisonwontkill 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to him when he gets out, ask him about the things you know about, ask him to be honest. If he's not honest & all you get is lies, leave him, if he lies about some things how many other things are lies.
2006-10-10 16:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he will not lie to you or hide anything from you. You really need to think over carefully whether you can still trust him in future.
Personally I feel that you should not stay with someone who is not honest. I believe that if he can lie to once he will do it the second time and carry on with it until one day you are not able to tolerate it
The decision to stay with him actually depends on you. Whatever we can do here is to advice you based on our opinions. So think carefully before you made the decision
2006-10-11 07:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should leave him for the time being.Let him be alone for sometime if he really turn over a new leaf give him a chance to come back to u if not just end all the relationship.
2006-10-11 01:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by wow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay with any man who is not honest. If he really loves you, he should not lie, to lie is to cover his guilt, why do you allow yourself to belief that he loves you when is is a great liar?
Gal, will you be able to tolerate this when years go by and you slowly find that you actually dunno this guy cos his is never truthful !
2006-10-11 02:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think he can trust?
2006-10-11 04:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋