Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

i'm over at my ex's house and we have been fighting alot lately. i dont like staying alone so i told him that i'm going to come stay with him for the night, but it is really akward. i want to tell him i love him and everything is going to be ok, but i know it wont what should i do?

2006-10-10 18:14:03 · 8 answers · asked by SUNSHINE 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess only i can sort of answer this and it's kind of stupid to ask this to other people, but if this is the only place that gives me a forum to vent so be it. I dunno, but lately I have just been feeling sort of dazed, lost, confused, and find myself cotemplating on what the hell i'm doing with myself, what i want, and what i don't have. You could say it's an empty feeling, but it's not exactly like i'm depressed because it's not in the sad sense just more mellow and removed. First off, there's another girl who I really have a thing for etc etc and i want a shot with her etc, but with my track record i have sort of come to expect the worst, and while i'll try, i've come to accept the fact that i may never get the one i want. The other big thing is especially here at school is that people sort of see me as this sarcasticlly cynical funny guy and i'm treated like a character. it's great in a sense because i'm popular and all, but it's almost like, at the end of the day, i have no one

2006-10-10 18:14:01 · 5 answers · asked by ev 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend thinks that wen i want time to myself he thinks that we will break up and i'll go out with another guy...i love him so much it's just that we talk so much and i can't have time with my friends and now i just want to spend time by myself and not argue with him about this spending time alone thing...WAT SHOULD I DO i need help...

2006-10-10 18:13:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 18:12:45 · 17 answers · asked by nasir A 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated an abusive guy for two years. We've been apart for 6 months now. I haven't talked to him for 4 months but now I think about him all the time. I went through a phase when I didn't care about him or think about him that much but now he is constantly on my mind. Is there any hope that he will change??? Has anyone ever witnessed an abusive guy change for the better??

2006-10-10 18:08:36 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does the landlord have the power to do that if children under18 are living there?

2006-10-10 18:07:55 · 15 answers · asked by dasnatch20 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay after getting my lunch and left my lunch at the center of the table and told some guy to watch it for him. He agreed. I left to go register for the PSATs and also to nominate people for homecoming. when i returned my binder was messed up. My papers everywhere. Then this girl told me what happened. He and her friend had been pushing each other then by accident the girl tipped over my stuff. the girl did not even put it back on the table. My friends told me i should ask the girl who tipped it over to clean my binder and stuff. I didn't. I saw the girl and she sat at my table. i asked why she did it. she claimed it was an accident. I asked her how would she like it if i threw her stuff on the floor and did not pick it up. Then she lied to me and told me she picked my "sh8t" up, which was obviously a lie. I told her to treat me stuff with respect. she was pissed. My friends told me it wasn't a big deal. my other told the girl to ignore and that i was weird. any advice, tips, etc.

2006-10-10 18:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I wake up one morning and they were in bed 2gether. Today, I'm getting ready for bed he comes over,and asks if she is gonna leave the door open she says yeah. I pretend not to hear. He comes in and lays on her bed and goes to sleep, and doesn't say a word to me, She showers and just lays on top of him. Meanwhile I'm on the otherside of the room.
Now I have a major problem with this because out of respect she could have at least asked me.Neither he or she says anything. They just come in and fall asleep.
I have to be honest this is not the only reason but the fact that I have to sit here and watch the couple sleep in bed, I have to watch this a constant reminder of what I no longer have. I am sensitive to anything regarding couples CZ of all the things I can no longer do with my boyfriend hes been dead a year now.And Plz be sensitive to this issue cuz it is just like a grieving wife it hurts just the same,Plz what should I do?I feel like God is giving me pain, for prior happiness

2006-10-10 18:07:31 · 13 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Friends

I have been with my current girlfriend for a month, but we have been talking for about 2 months. there is somehting different about her and i know it. I know how i feel but i dont want o freak her out. Is it to early to tell her how i feel?

2006-10-10 18:06:37 · 12 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a girl and she is a bit overweight, and the question is... here words to me she has only had *** once or twice but she is still loose down there does that have anything to do with the fact that she’s overweight? And if she My friend is a girl and she is a bit overweight, and the question is... she has only had *** once or twice but she is still loose down there does that have anything to do with the fact that she’s overweight? if she were to slim down would it get tighter?

2006-10-10 18:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a baby but not a husband?

2006-10-10 18:05:59 · 16 answers · asked by Avia 3 in Family

my best friend found out a few months ago that her 15 year old daughter had sex. she was very hurt by this. i love her daughter as my own and she is very close to me and confides in me. well, she told me she had sex again last week (she told me the same day) and i have been thinking hard of should i tell her mom. well, i told her tonight and i feel like i am betraying the daughter. but i know it was probably the right thing to do. tell me do you think i did the right thing or should i not have betrayed her daughter?

2006-10-10 18:05:30 · 14 answers · asked by malibu29130 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

when it comes to relationships? With women openly cheating and divorce eventually becoming near 100%.

2006-10-10 18:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My parenting teacher said to don't get piñatas for my childrens bday parties her theory is that you buy ur childs favorite character piñata and then you have them slaughter it that is trauma tizing to the child but i love piñatas what do you think of her theory?

2006-10-10 18:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by lilyangelita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we don't talk,have nothing in common,i used to want her physically now to look at her disgust me.

2006-10-10 18:04:51 · 10 answers · asked by juscause 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey eveyrone. well im currently with my boyfriend and I really have jealousy issues! If he mentions one of his exes (even if he tells me they were mistakes or something like that) i will get kinda jealous. When im jealous..i tend to make up for it by making him jealous by saying I think a guy is cute or some new person I met. So i basicially make him jealous just as he made me jealous and he's been calling me out alot on that. and I dont blame him..but i just cant help it! even if he mentions someone thats cute...i will try to do the same thing in order to make me feel better knowing that he's jealous. I really need advice. can someone help me out? It's hard he said he would NEVEr cheat on me and he expects the same in return..but I just really need to get over these jealousy issues before they get to us and our relatilnship!
thanks
-Bruce

2006-10-10 18:04:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it acceptable for a married woman, that becomes pregnant as a result of an affair, to lead her spouse to believe that he is the father of the child? These women claim that they "don't believe in abortion" ..what about "not believing in adultery"?

If an affair is worth risking your marriage for, why not walk away from it and let the man you cheated with take care of the child conceived during your trysts?

2006-10-10 18:04:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a crush on this guy 4 ever but he is moving our relationship 2 fast!!!! & I don't like that? what should I do ?

2006-10-10 18:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Marlene 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been engaged to a man 13 yrs older than me for a year. We have been together for 1-1/2 years.

I was never in love with him, but after many failed relationships and painful ones, I decided no one would ever love me and treat me as well as him, and so I said yes.

We moved to another state together and are living and working together now. We get along great, have a wonderful friendship, but there is little to no attraction for me any more.

Our sex life is almost non existant (1x per month, and sometimes not even that often), because I just am never in the mood for him. I fantasize about other men sometimes, however, I can see him as the father of my future children.

I dont think I'm ready to settle down with him, & I'm not planning a wedding so I can prolong making a final life decision, but I don't wanna lose a great guy and regret it later. I am so torn, and have been in limbo almost since the day he proposed. Should I move on? Or should I try to work it out?

2006-10-10 18:04:11 · 23 answers · asked by Annonymous 2 in Weddings

i want to tell her to go to him and its over wit use

2006-10-10 18:03:25 · 4 answers · asked by Nick A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When everyone on here has forgotten how to use real words instead of accronyms, only two letters of a word, bad spelling, grammar that makes you think WTF are they drunk/high/in a coma, and ask questions that a three year old knows the answers to?

Instead of reporting me, try showing your, uh user name.

2006-10-10 18:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by Social_D 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

Please only answer if you are serious. No joke or wasteful answers please. Thanks for respecting.

My son and daughter in law have been married for over 3 years. Although I have done everything that I know of to get along with my daughter in law, she remains very snobby with me and she feels that she is "helping" me by telling me all of my faults. She has deeply hurt me many times in the past, however, she just doesn't care at all. She does act very cold most of the time.
What she has problems with me for are: the way I dress, the fact that I prefer my hair long, she does not like that I am a vegan, she has told me that I was not a good mother to my son in that I treated him like a baby...so much more. My son is my only son and he and I were very close until his marriage.
They have a son now, my adorable grandson, and I feel that she will eventually stop allowing us to see him. We are not allowed to babysit??? This is far too hurtful. Can anyone give me some advice? Thanks

2006-10-10 18:01:25 · 10 answers · asked by Goddess Kitty 3 in Family

Hes really funny. he was the one that started talking to me, and when im just stitting in class he makes me laugh. but i dont want to get hurt. i just know it wont work out between us, but im sprung.

2006-10-10 18:01:10 · 5 answers · asked by valblue09 1 in Friends

It is possible to love people and be detatched from them, but how? I get very attatched to people and seem to care about people a lot more than they care about me. This includes everyone from friends, aquaintances, family, everyone. I remember everyone's birthday, am considered the sweetie, go out of my way to do nice things for people (I love it!), but then I guess expect the same to come back around to me, maybe not in the same magnitude, but I can't escape the feeling that I just want too much from people. I seem to be maybe too needy or to wanting of something. I don't know what it is but I know I have been trying to figure out detatchment and right when I thought I had it down someone let me down even further than I expected.
How can I keep myself grounded and real? What is the appropriate way to care for someone?
I practice compassion and love for my fellow human being every day, but I get attatched to everyone. That's bad. Help.

2006-10-10 18:00:50 · 9 answers · asked by jlsherma1213 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just wondering and I am very bored

2006-10-10 18:00:35 · 4 answers · asked by green_eyed_sexy_bi*** 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 17:59:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I tried to get yahoo messenger on here and i dont no why i cant get it.It tells me to brows and when i do,i get stuck.And my friends that i added they can leave my messages but i cant view them.Even had a friend to get on my yahoo and she was able to see the messenger box of mine and was able to view it.Now how come i cant see my messenger box if she can??

2006-10-10 17:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by Angelica A 1 in Friends

hes rich and 17 and alot of girls dont like my because of me dateing him.

2006-10-10 17:59:10 · 11 answers · asked by stacy_diva_girl619 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 17:58:28 · 21 answers · asked by Ripple 1 in Family

2006-10-10 17:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by jon l 2 in Singles & Dating