okay after getting my lunch and left my lunch at the center of the table and told some guy to watch it for him. He agreed. I left to go register for the PSATs and also to nominate people for homecoming. when i returned my binder was messed up. My papers everywhere. Then this girl told me what happened. He and her friend had been pushing each other then by accident the girl tipped over my stuff. the girl did not even put it back on the table. My friends told me i should ask the girl who tipped it over to clean my binder and stuff. I didn't. I saw the girl and she sat at my table. i asked why she did it. she claimed it was an accident. I asked her how would she like it if i threw her stuff on the floor and did not pick it up. Then she lied to me and told me she picked my "sh8t" up, which was obviously a lie. I told her to treat me stuff with respect. she was pissed. My friends told me it wasn't a big deal. my other told the girl to ignore and that i was weird. any advice, tips, etc.
2006-10-10 18:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore this. There are other more important issues in life than who messed up your binder and why they didn't pick it up. You should show better manners than them and just ignore these idiots, shouldn't you be concentrating on your studies or something instead?!
2006-10-10 18:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get hyped up! jeese. people do stupid things, because people are stupid. and really, she is not worth your anger. if she doesn't have the tact and maturity to apologize and show her sincerity, then honestly, her apology is not worth it. it sucks that your stuff was ruined but this is life sis, you just gotta move on. but, your dear friends should have been more sensitive to your feelings at the time. i think that was a little rude of them to call you weird and dismiss what you felt at that moment. later is the time for advice, not at the occurrence. so really, she isn't worth the time of day if she treats people like that. so forget her, hopefully you are better than that, and that is all that really matters. good luck ^.^
2006-10-11 01:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by cheesegirl_42 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch out for your own stuff. vandalism will happen to you again in the future. unless she did it on purpose, leave her alone. a binder is only a couple bucks. a car or house damage can be $25,000.
2006-10-11 01:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by C J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your own responsibility to take care of your things. Don't expect others to take your responsibilities for you. Yes, it was rude and disrespectful of her to be so careless and thoughtless of her own actions but it would have turned out differently if you'd either taken your things with you or you stayed with your things. My advice is, learn your lesson and don't leave your things sitting around when you aren't there.
2006-10-11 01:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had talked to that girl on the matter. U know who did it & what actually happened. Forget about the matter and carry on. Don't let such matter bother u. U have much better things to do.
2006-10-11 01:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Renew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was on your shoes, I think I would have done the same thing. But next time, you keep an eye on your things and not just leave them to anybody.
2006-10-11 01:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some times in life you have to let some things go she may have been mad at the time let it go man
2006-10-11 01:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said what you had to say to her now let it go.
2006-10-11 01:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch your own stuff for now on
2006-10-11 01:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋