i don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend thinks that wen i want time to myself he thinks that we will break up and i'll go out with another guy...i love him so much it's just that we talk so much and i can't have time with my friends and now i just want to spend time by myself and not argue with him about this spending time alone thing...WAT SHOULD I DO i need help...
2006-10-10 18:13:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't be with a controlling guy like that...He has issues with it, he needs to learn to deal with it...
2006-10-10 18:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like your boyfriend is the protective and jealous type. The only reason he acts like this its because he is in love with you too or should I say way too in love. In simple words I think he is tryin to protect the relationship but also by being too over protective, feelings can be damaged. All I could say is if this keeps up, one day you will have enough of it and eventully distance yourself awary from you so my best advice to give is that you talk about this with him throughly and make sure he understands you and that he TRUST you because without trust, nothing will work out.
2006-10-10 18:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by jason w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him straight out that you need some time for yourself .. to feel your own space .. and to have time with your friends. If he can't handle you not being with him all the time .. then he is very insecure .. and that is a bad sign in a guy for a relationship. You may have to move on to another guy. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-10 18:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him thats not it you just wanna spend time with your friends a little and be by yourself that you still love him just you need a few hours by yourself at least.
2006-10-10 18:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great that u guys communicate considering soo many relationships dont.....anyways let him know what on your mind. telll him that u juss need a day or too to steady ur mind. and let him know that you love him and that your not breaking up. but the important thing is you guys should talk to one another about this.
GoOd LuCk~
2006-10-10 18:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~*LoSt*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl yeah u luv him alot but if he continous like that he is never gonna change and u r never gonna heve time 4 ureself talk to him if it doesnt work out it not worth it!!!!!
2006-10-10 18:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Marlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should show him this. Too much togetherness can ruin an otherwise good relationship. You need time with your friends and he should be with his friends sometimes too.
2006-10-10 18:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about how important that is to you.
2006-10-10 18:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a drive,or go see a friend.Tell him you're leaving weather he likes it or not!!!!!
2006-10-10 18:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go away until you call him
2006-10-10 18:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋