I have had a crush on this guy 4 ever but he is moving our relationship 2 fast!!!! & I don't like that? what should I do ?
2006-10-10 18:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Marlene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to slow down. if he don't understand that then mabye he has other motives and he isn't worth your time
2006-10-10 18:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have GOT to make him understand that he's gotta slow down. If he's moving things along so fast that you're uncomfortable, then there is a real problem there.
Talk to him honestly. If he gets offended, or he doesn't seem to care (or he promises to slow down but forgets the next time he wants to do something), call him on it. If he can't respect what you're feeling, maybe you should consider that he's a better crush than he is a boyfriend.
You have to tell him.
2006-10-10 18:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow it down and dont let him control the situation. he knows u like him and he is at an advantage point. at the starting point of a relationship, it is always the woman who should take the steering wheel and control where the relationship is going. if u felt like something is wrong somewhere, stop and think with ur head and not with ur heart.
2006-10-10 18:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try and talk to him and explian everything. You shouldn't feel so uncomfortable in your OWN relationship. He needs to know and if he doesn't listen to you or wants to do things your way than he's just a selfish man who only thinks of himself( which you should leave him...unless you think otherwise).
2006-10-10 18:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by fairytale_dreamer22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is decide whether or not you want a relationship with him.
2006-10-10 18:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, if he doesn't understand you, then you are just one night stand. Hope things work out.
2006-10-10 18:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by ana3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to distant yourself from him a little bit giving yourself some room to breathe. also you can tell him directly.
2006-10-10 18:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by jason w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL HIM THAT THE REALTIONSHIP IS GOING
TO FAST. AND WE NEED TO SLOW DOWN.
2006-10-10 18:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't break anyone's heart
make him realize
but slowly
2006-10-10 18:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋