Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

I have a small child: I attend school and I work some pretty odd hours: is there hope for me?

2006-10-08 08:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by Lea S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 08:38:49 · 14 answers · asked by Timothy a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Got fixed up on a date last night and today was informed that the man was a registered sex offender. I felt something in my gut when I was in his presence and did not feel comfortable. He was toooooo "friendly " and tried to make out with me even when my kids were present. I sent him home but something made me lie awake after he left and I could not put my finger on why? I want to see what his offenses are. I found his name on one web site but there should be a way to find additional information. There will not be a second date with this loser.

2006-10-08 08:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by justclicktherubyslippers 5 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday, some little punk 16 year old girl (who was waling across my work parking lot) spit in my face not once, but TWICE for honking at her to move out of the way!!! THEN she had the nerve to call ME a "pu$$y" of all things when I did nothing about it. ..But I was late and pulling in to work so what was I suppose to do about it??? To be honest, I'm a big guy, but I'm a little worried she might come in to my job again and I work alone behind a hotel desk. I had to give her $20 just to go away and leave me alone in the parking lot the last time because she would not even move out of the way!!!!!

2006-10-08 08:37:35 · 11 answers · asked by PJ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 08:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by drod92@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night, me and my girlfriend got into a serious argument..It was because she thought I didn't want to spend time with her (She had plans with me to go to the movies)..Now let me tell you guys something; me and her have been seeing each other for 9 months and we see each other like everyday..She gets mad at me which led to us cussing back and forth at each other. To make a long story short, When we stop argueing, we ended up going to the movies. After the movies, We had make up sex. But I got the vibe that she didn't want to have sex but she didn't for me just to shut me up..Now, all of this happened yesterday..Today (10/9), She hasn't called me all day..Usually she'd call me in the morning all the way up to the afternoon to check on me..I'm wondering if she's still mad because of that arguement that we had last night..I was under the impression that everything was straight after we went to the movies and had make up sex..Could I be wrong for assuming the problem has been solved?...

2006-10-08 08:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by Just_Asking 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't believe that...

They can for a short period of time... but if they don't realize it themselves that they need to change (and it's coming from the conscience) they won't change, they will revert back to who they are before...

How about you?
What do you think (from your experience)?

Can people change permanently for someone without self realization?

2006-10-08 08:35:33 · 21 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Singles & Dating

last night iwas at my new gf's alone alone with her....when i suddenly had to take a poop really bad. and i dont know abouy yall...but my turds are those HUGE @ss banana things. long story short...i clogged the doggone toilet. sh*t water everywhere . ruined the new bathroom they just had redone. anyways i couldn't fix the damn thing or stop the water...so i snuck out the back door and left. the phone rang three times last night when i got home. could it have been her??? what do i say now yall???

2006-10-08 08:35:16 · 22 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

i LOVE this guy and have no idea what to get him for christman(i am planning ahead).

2006-10-08 08:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by xobabidancerxo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what can i bite

2006-10-08 08:33:24 · 18 answers · asked by nikko 1 in Singles & Dating

I am about to rent out a room in our family home. We have 2 small kids and need the extra cash. Any advice? How can I check references? Should I get a deposit? How do I know the lodger is OK? Any help would be appreciated.

2006-10-08 08:32:16 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If it is not wrong getting a bf ib the net.............cane I get one.......who I can trust .....................

Anyone want a gf?.......................wanna chat wit tis frenly gal?

2006-10-08 08:31:11 · 7 answers · asked by Frendlygal 3 in Singles & Dating

he likes this girl that is a a** hole.i have been going out with him for months...should i brake up with him or say which one are you going to choose

2006-10-08 08:30:20 · 28 answers · asked by Shanta H 1 in Friends

My friends mother has always given me alot of attention.Wanting to cook for me and always have me over.She always asks me If I have a place of my own,and puts herself down,I think just to get me to tell her she looks great,but all this happens only when my friend has exited the room.One day when I was over,out of the blue,she turned to me and said,"You know matt,I'd do anything for you." smiles,then winks.Recently,She's been telling me she loves me whenever she see's me and the sight of me never fails to put a smile on her face,In fact,I don't think she has ever stopped smiling when I'm around.Sometimes I stop by to see how my friend is doing when I haven't been able to contact her and her mom goes from a uninterested "Who is it?" to a cheerful "Come on in sweety.".Whenever my friend asks for me to go over for dinner,Her mom always wears something very nice.Now,I find her very attractive both physically and personality wise,I need input.Am I overthinking nothing or should I go for it?

2006-10-08 08:29:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not present in US at the moment, but I need to obtain divorce papers from US court. I want to appoint my fiance to get those on my behalf. But I need to know how to write power of attorney executed on my behaf to my faince.

2006-10-08 08:28:57 · 2 answers · asked by oneapplause 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, if you're a guy you might not want to answer this.. unless you're really sweet! =] Anyway, there's this guy I really like but don't know if he likes me. Also one of my really good friends likes him and knows he doesn't like her and she said she'd be so mad if he liked me instead of her. [Now, Back to the Point..] So we went to a haunted house then walked to a restaurant across the street and we were hanging out and stuff and it was really cool. When my friend left I hugged him and the guy I like looked very sad. He secluded himself from the rest of the group and didn't say like anything before I left. What do I do? Should I confront him about it or let him come to me? HELP!

2006-10-08 08:28:56 · 26 answers · asked by HOW BOUT THEM DAWGS♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a great bf and his frend is freikin hot
heres the deal i luv my bf and kinda like his frend and on the weekends we go out on a golf course really late at nite and go launch balloons at the country club and the past couple of weekends we have just gone down and hung out and last night we were messing with my bf and i was all over his frend he was getting really pissed off it was funny but after i told him that i was jus playing with him he said it was ok but when we sat down i didnt want to sit on a wet bench so i sat on my bfs lap but his legs werent very comfy so i got up and sat on his frends lap(whos legs are more muscle so they were way more comfy)but anyways we started to play r u nervous(and if u dont no how to play im not gonna explain)and the frend almost won playing me but my bf didnt want to play so the point of this story is that i kinda like my bf's frend and he is more comfortable with me then my own boyfrend ill probly jus keep flirting tell he tells me to stop

2006-10-08 08:28:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is deployed right now and i have done something bad... we have been married for over 2 years and in that time we have had a gr8 marriage... he left just after we had our first baby... and he has been gone for 4 months...i have been having an affiar with a guy from work for the last month or so... and i have fallen in love with him... i have no intention of getting divorce or even telling my husband... and now i am worried of him finding out because i think i am pregnant.. please dont critisize me.. i know what i did was wrong but i need help preferably from people who have been in my shoe's or at least close to it... thanx!

2006-10-08 08:28:37 · 18 answers · asked by 01GR81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 08:28:07 · 41 answers · asked by looby 2 in Family

I have the biggest crush on a girl who works at a store. When I see her I always smile and say hi and ask her how she's doing but that's as far as the conversation goes because I can't really think of anything else to talk about. I think she might like me but I'm not sure. She smiles at me and talks to me a little but I'm not sure how she feels. How can I ask her out or get her number without everybody in the checkout line listening in???

2006-10-08 08:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by stercraze06 2 in Singles & Dating

the rent? i moved a close relative with me,( when i moved out of California),and my 3 small children , im a single mother, and he agreed to help me pay rent, he hasnt and he has been here for 9months, and i have been very upset so i stopped talking to him,,,am I wrong?

2006-10-08 08:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by Ari 2 in Family

WELL I JUST FOUND OUT THAT SHE ALREADY MET SOMEONE OVER 3 WEEKS AGO AND SHE HAS BEEN LYING TO ME FOR EVER ABOUT EVERYTHING FROM NOT SMOKING CIGARETTES TO REASON'S WHY SHE WOULD CANCEL DATES THAT WE MADE. I CAN'T STAND BEING LIED TO. IT HURTS CAUSE THE TRUST YOU ONCE HAD IS TARNISHED. SHE ALSO TOLD ME THAT SHE WANTED TO FOCUS ON HER CAREER AND SHE NEEDED SPACE FROM ME BUT I JUST FOUND SHE HAS BEEN DATING SOME GUY OFTEN FOR THE LAST 3 WEEKS WHICH SHOWS ME THAT SHE HAS TIME, JUST NOT FOR ME. THIS IS REALLY COLD AND SHE TOLD ME SHE KISSED THIS GUY IN CONFUSION AND THAT SHE DOESN'T REALLY LIKE HIM BUT WHEN I ASKED TO SEE HER LAST FRIDAY SHE TOLD ME NO AND ON SATURDAY SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WENT ON ANOTHER DATE WITH DUDE WHICH KILLS ME CAUSE SHE CHOSE SOME STRANGER OVER ME. I THINK SHE IS USING ME AS A CUSHION IF THING'S DO NOT WORK OUT WITH DUDE. SHE STILL WANT'S TO TALK EVEN THOUGH SHE IS FULL OF DECEIT LYING TO ME FACE TO FACE.

2006-10-08 08:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by Nathann S 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 08:27:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started college and I commute every day. My girlfriend and I are on a "break" right now which I'm coping with but obviously it's not easy. I think we really have a strong relationship and things will be fine with us but we'll see.

All my friends went to a community college and I don't really have time to see them anymore because when I'm not working on school work they're at their jobs.

I come home at night and am just bored when I'm not working on something. I really feel like something needs to change.

2006-10-08 08:26:30 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 28 year old woman who comes from a big family. All of us grew up in the projects, but I've always wanted more for myself. I had always been called a nerd because I always had my head in a book. I obviously had a diiferent outlook on life than the rest of my family, but I never held it against them. I wish I could say that they treated me with the same regard. I finally went on to college and graduated with honors and I now work at one of the biggest law firms in my state. I was the first in my family to go to college and no one in my family bothered to come to my graduation. I'm a black woman but my family always criticizes me and says that I think I'm white simply because I use proper grammar and I continuously strive to better myself. I have NEVER put any of them down for not graduating from high school or any of the other things they have done, yet I constantly feel like I was born into the wrong family. Should I talk to them about how I feel?

2006-10-08 08:25:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-08 08:23:55 · 5 answers · asked by Melly. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I are getting a divorce. He started a new bank account without telling me and has had his checks deposited to the other account. Should I get a lawyer now or should I hope that this is the ony secretive thing he has done? What would you do?

2006-10-08 08:23:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i hate my life

2006-10-08 08:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know right from wrong
wrong from right
but every time I try to do whats right it turns out wrong
Is it something wrong with me
or is it just that I gotta let go of all da feelings inside me thats keeping me from deciding what I gotta do to get by
Life is fading and its all my fault
I know wat to do to make stop
But just like me I know right from wrong
wrong from but never do whats right
It might sound crazy
trust me it is
but when sin takes over it is what it is
I can even stop it or go along with it
But being wrong feels right and that just might be the reason I can never do whats right

2006-10-08 08:21:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i could never find a girl who is right for me i dont know i think all the girls in my area i talk to are just hoes and some i have gotten to meet look and seem to be good but then i start hearing stories about people being with them so they turn out to be hoes too but i dont find out on my own cuz i try to not always look for them just to get laid i want to find a good girl who i can be with and isnt all used up but ok my question is why do i have such bad luck finding a good girl seems like there r no more girls that arnt bitchs

2006-10-08 08:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by cash_thug69 1 in Singles & Dating