WELL I JUST FOUND OUT THAT SHE ALREADY MET SOMEONE OVER 3 WEEKS AGO AND SHE HAS BEEN LYING TO ME FOR EVER ABOUT EVERYTHING FROM NOT SMOKING CIGARETTES TO REASON'S WHY SHE WOULD CANCEL DATES THAT WE MADE. I CAN'T STAND BEING LIED TO. IT HURTS CAUSE THE TRUST YOU ONCE HAD IS TARNISHED. SHE ALSO TOLD ME THAT SHE WANTED TO FOCUS ON HER CAREER AND SHE NEEDED SPACE FROM ME BUT I JUST FOUND SHE HAS BEEN DATING SOME GUY OFTEN FOR THE LAST 3 WEEKS WHICH SHOWS ME THAT SHE HAS TIME, JUST NOT FOR ME. THIS IS REALLY COLD AND SHE TOLD ME SHE KISSED THIS GUY IN CONFUSION AND THAT SHE DOESN'T REALLY LIKE HIM BUT WHEN I ASKED TO SEE HER LAST FRIDAY SHE TOLD ME NO AND ON SATURDAY SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WENT ON ANOTHER DATE WITH DUDE WHICH KILLS ME CAUSE SHE CHOSE SOME STRANGER OVER ME. I THINK SHE IS USING ME AS A CUSHION IF THING'S DO NOT WORK OUT WITH DUDE. SHE STILL WANT'S TO TALK EVEN THOUGH SHE IS FULL OF DECEIT LYING TO ME FACE TO FACE.
2006-10-08 08:27:54 · 7 answers · asked by Nathann S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So are you still in a relationship with this female? She doesnt have time for you and she is seeing someone else. What else do you need for her to tell you? You deserve better. She is constantly lying to you and not thinking about your feelings. Right now she is only thinking of herself. Her main focus is not her career its this new man that she has found time for. I do think that she is trying to let you down easy thats why she lies. Dont continue to be a fool. There are plenty of woman looking for a good man like yourself.
2006-10-08 08:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by here2answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it really hurts when someone does that to a person, however i think you have a life which should go on whether she is there or not. You were together from last three years and if a person cant respect those three beautiful years then i dont think that person deserves your love. It will take time for you to come out of it and there will be times when you would feel like going back to her but I think you should be strong for sometime and I am sure you will see that your life will be more beautiful than what it was
2006-10-08 15:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by shirin f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to date some girls and see how it goes... but do not dump this gal now... i would say just keep her hanging for sometime till you find some other gals of your interest... And i know that you luv this girl too much to cheat but then she isnt a fairy either!
2006-10-08 15:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and get you somebody better and flaunt her in her face dont make it obveious.
2006-10-08 15:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by kady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends, if you want a girl walk out of your life just like that - your wish. but practically speaking, i would never end any relationship, let new ones arrive. hell with ethics for such girls, use them, as they want themselves to be
2006-10-08 15:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by priyankji 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fcuk that biatch....she cheated on you...dont talk to her..she is just using you..u better move on and u can do much better....if i were u ..i would do the same exactly thing to her...
2006-10-08 15:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by persian mafia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't seem worth your time. i know it's hard but people change. i don't think she deserves you if she's gonna use you like that
2006-10-08 15:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by KaraR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋