My friends mother has always given me alot of attention.Wanting to cook for me and always have me over.She always asks me If I have a place of my own,and puts herself down,I think just to get me to tell her she looks great,but all this happens only when my friend has exited the room.One day when I was over,out of the blue,she turned to me and said,"You know matt,I'd do anything for you." smiles,then winks.Recently,She's been telling me she loves me whenever she see's me and the sight of me never fails to put a smile on her face,In fact,I don't think she has ever stopped smiling when I'm around.Sometimes I stop by to see how my friend is doing when I haven't been able to contact her and her mom goes from a uninterested "Who is it?" to a cheerful "Come on in sweety.".Whenever my friend asks for me to go over for dinner,Her mom always wears something very nice.Now,I find her very attractive both physically and personality wise,I need input.Am I overthinking nothing or should I go for it?
2006-10-08 08:29:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is sending you signals that you are reading correctly...if you like her, you should tell her that she is very attractive...she will probably do more to let you know (letting you "accidentally" see her boobs) or by brushing them up against you...she is probably checking you for an erection as well...I know I do when my son's friends come over..
2006-10-08 14:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by joyce smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, No...I wouldn't go for it. I am a mother with three grown children and I couldn't imagine doing that to my own daughter. Think how your friend would feel if she knew her mother was doing this. I would suggest that maybe you try to see your friend at other places and stop going by the house. I know of course your friend will asked you why you are not coming over anymore...and I am sure you can find an answer. This situation happened in our extended family and the girl was so devastated that she would have nothing to do with her mother after she found out what she had been doing. It truly is not worth it. Please think this through.
2006-10-08 15:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by arthurbel33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO this depends mostly on her marital status and your relative ages. If you're under 25 and she's more than 10 years older than you are, then getting involed with this woman would be a very BAD idea, also if she's married it would be a no go in my book. However, if she's single and you're both older (i.e. over 25) then I don't see any problem with having a fling, provided you're on the same page (i.e. you're both just looking to have some fun and not looking for a committed relationship) otherwise someone could get hurt.
2006-10-08 15:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by bookyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to put a wedge between you and your friend - go fot it - otherwise if you value your friend's friendship - back off and stop going over for dinner. she's in need of a man, she probably does this to other guys that come by - i am sure you are not the first.
2006-10-08 15:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need this question answered, you are not ready for an older woman. Older women are not confused like young women. They know exactly what they want and waste no time letting you know. I'd do her if I were you!
2006-10-08 15:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will probably never work ! Someone is going to be hurt seriously,
and it will most likely be your friend !
Back away from the MOM !!!
2006-10-08 15:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She' into you. If you like the idea, too, ask your friend how they feel about it. If they are okay with it, go for it. If not, stop going around the mom.
2006-10-08 15:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Roni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman wants you, no doubt. The thing is, if you go for it, you might loose your friend. Is it worth it? That's something you have to decide.
2006-10-08 15:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by dextersadventures 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it (unless you are dating the daughter). It sounds like the mother is giving you signals that she is interested.
2006-10-08 15:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by EB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say drama? Stay away from your friend's mother, because that's all it's bound to cause.
2006-10-08 15:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋