I just started college and I commute every day. My girlfriend and I are on a "break" right now which I'm coping with but obviously it's not easy. I think we really have a strong relationship and things will be fine with us but we'll see.
All my friends went to a community college and I don't really have time to see them anymore because when I'm not working on school work they're at their jobs.
I come home at night and am just bored when I'm not working on something. I really feel like something needs to change.
2006-10-08 08:26:30 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have a good word with yourself because if you get really depressed it,s not easy to get rid of,try doing something different but force yourself to do it,
2006-10-08 08:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by jackie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are going through what a lot of people go through when they first start college. It is hard when you get separated from all of the people you once hung out with because they have all gone their separate ways.
Perhaps you should try to get into some extra curricular at your college or find some volunteer work that interests you. Both will help you to find some people that share interests with you that can be part of your "adult friends". I graduated from high school ten years ago and I only have one friend from then that I see still and not that often really. Now I have more friends that I share more interests with. It isn't an easy transition, but a necessary one. You will go through it again when you leave college and get out into the "real world".
Hang in there!
2006-10-08 08:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by annika_grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. You feel like no one cares, and you really have no one to talk to. You are young, and you need to see whats out there for you. Being on a break with your girlfriend can be hard, but why wait to see if she will come back to you. Go meet other people. You need other friends that you can hang out with when your other friends aren't there. Go on with your life, because i don't believe in waiting on a relationship to fall back in place. Do other things to keep your mind focus. There are a lot of other women out there who aren't looking for relationships, only a male friend to hang out with, and talk to. Don't sit around the house and do nothing, because that can make a person stressed an depressed. Because when you are home and alone, you probably are thinking about the good times you and your girlfriend had. Wishing that she was there with you. Go out for a walk, join a gym, you may find you a friend in there. Don't sit around feeling sorry, do something about. When you find yourself daydreaming about life, find a party to go to, go to a club, you may run into an old friend. Hopes this helps!!
2006-10-08 08:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by Beyonce2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if this lady locum has assumed he's just asking for time off & isn't really sick. Your hubby should get better treatment from his real doctor. The problem is that doctors are trained to treat bodies & don't know anything more about minds & the symptoms of stress than the average joe in the street. He'd be better off walking into the psychology department of your nearest hospital & asking to see someone. They usually want a referral from a doctor, but most times they'll see somebody who self-refers for the first time.
2016-03-28 01:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for walks at night. That should take care of the "stress, depression and boredom." It really does help!! It'll clear your mind, too. I'm sure things will be fine with you and you're girlfriend, but maybe going out together more with her will help. To dinner or the movies when you're not studying. Things will get better. It just takes time. Hang in there!
2006-10-08 08:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried working out? I know that when I am stress I work out to release the stress. You could try a Tai Chi class. Just do stuff to get your mind off the stuff that is stressing you out and take it one day at a time. Life can't be handled all at once. Deal with the day to day things till you can cope with the rest.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-08 08:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you shouldnt worry that much things will get better. If you can't see your friends that often then try an do somthing with them. Call them and ask if they want to do somthing. If that doesnt work then try and find some more friends and start over again. Dont worry you will be ok.
2006-10-08 08:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jesse M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, sounds lke my life. I started at varsity in january and my life was just like that until i relised i had to make more friends who were in the same position as me and not keep the old ones from high school cos interests change and so do we. maybe you'll meet a nice girl too
2006-10-08 08:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some new friends that are in the same boat as you.
2006-10-08 08:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by dextersadventures 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try meeting friend anywhere it cud even be on yeahoo messenger jus find someone to tlk to
2006-10-08 08:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by pretty_hot105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋