Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

Tell me a story about something that really boiled you over!

2006-10-04 07:49:59 · 19 answers · asked by Needstoknow 2 in Family

What kind of a guy would rather go home to sleep (by himself I am assuming) than stay at his girlfriend's house and sleep with her (and maybe get some _ _ _)? He says it's because he has to get up and go to work early, but what the heck, what kind of guy ever gives up the chance to have _ _ _? Especially a 24 year old? The book, He's Just Not That Into You has a whole chapter on this subject... in my mind, if a guy is "into you" he will take any opportunity to get busy... right?

2006-10-04 07:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by laurarochelle2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 years old and I am with a 19 year old boy...yeah I no it is a long story. Ok but his mom doesn’t know anything about my age and mom my knows nothing about us. We have been together since July 7th and I met him in March and we are in love. Things even get better because he is about to live walking distance from my grandmothers house compared to his 10 minute drive. Just give me some advice because its still something that isn’t right and he is not a rapist.

2006-10-04 07:49:34 · 8 answers · asked by I_Taste_Like_Candi 2 in Singles & Dating

how would you feel about that person. What if he conversates only with people that talk to him first,? does that make him boring or a drag or overly shy?

2006-10-04 07:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...i flirt with everyone but for me it's not serious dude i even flirt with woman...it's fun and it doesnt go any further! well my friend's husband came up to me and was like "i tihnk ur hot in that dress" and i said "why thank you! u dont look as bad" and i winked at him...but i do that to even his wife, and he does that also in front of his wife...we're all friends! but the other night, we were all clubbing but my friend couldnt come...hubby got drunk, grabbed my *** and tried to kiss me. i pushed him away! but someone saw it and thought something was actually happening and told her...now she's saying that i want to take her man! and what's worse is he told her that he has feelings for me and wants me! i have no feelings for him! and now i'm scared of loosing my friend over this...what can i do to calm her down???

2006-10-04 07:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it you?

2006-10-04 07:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the middle of my back is sooo itchy but i just cant reach it!!!
any suggestions?

2006-10-04 07:48:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Its like that 2pac/snoop song "no matter where i go, i see the same hos" Do you smuts have nothing better to do than answer my questions with "eww, grow up, get a life, ur sick" ?? If you think im wasting my time with dumb questions, you are wasting just as much time with dumb answers. Get off my nuts, you question groupies!!

2006-10-04 07:47:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last nite i was awoken 2 the sounds of moaning and grunting. I went 2 the kitchen and caught my dog riding my cat..could she get pregnant?

2006-10-04 07:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by carol c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 07:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by bunty 1 in Family

I think women would enjoy showing a man of my extreme charm and obvious intelligence that if I allowed them into my life they could clean like no ones business..I find it very attractive to watch women clean while I watch football, I think there is a primal need for women to clean a mans house on a first date..It's like men like to show women we can protect them, they like to show us they know how to use a vacuum and an iron..I'm sure if we run out of beer she would be extremely happy to walk to the beer store in the rain /snow /wind to show how much she appreciates the way I allow her to express her primal needs...Of course it's the first date so I would allow her to pick up a pizza on her beer travel also..and I might even chip in of half...I think she will be extremely happy with our first date and will be sending me flowers and tickets to the game to my office the next day..After I allow her to kiss me goodnight, is it ok to tell her to take the bus home ? or should I get a taxi ?

2006-10-04 07:46:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While im not thin as a rail I am by no means huge. I have a pretty average weight for my height and my only problem is I am not toned. I am trying to get in the habit of going to the gym but sometimes time gets away from me. My problem is my bf. When we have sex or afterwards he will point out the little extra roll I have on the side or my "love handles". He also points out my stretch marks and I told him that even skinny women have those and when I say that he will tell me that the skinny women he has dated don't have those. Then he is always saying you need to work on your body baby. He is slender and well built and sometimes I just feel like I am not good enough for him. Its like why would someone like that even be with me? I try to laugh it off¬ be bothered by it but I cant help it. Sex is supposed to be an intimate time not a time when you point out your partners body flaws. I cant believe I was considering babies with him. What do I do? Work out more???? I'm trying

2006-10-04 07:46:02 · 25 answers · asked by Shannon83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well this might sound weird but all my friends r funny ,but i'm not! and i want 2 make them lol 2..........don't make fun of me........but can you tell me some jokes?

2006-10-04 07:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by mariah!:) 2 in Friends

I was just wondering is there anyway to go from being just bestfriends to having a relationship?
What if you came out and told this person how you felt about them, and their response to that was: "I don't want to ruin what we have now, cause if we change the relationship we could never go back to what we now have; I love what we have and I don't want to loose you as my bestfriend."
You can't change how you feel about someone just like that, but you have to respect what they feel. So what do I do? Please help...any advice would be great.

Thanks.

2006-10-04 07:45:49 · 5 answers · asked by myzznetta 1 in Friends

My wife and I haven't had intercourse in 2 and a half weeks. She was having trouble with her birth control pills and the doctor said not to have sex until she can get checked out. (She is going to her appt. today).

Last week she pleased me orally and thats all I got for over 2 weeks, I have asked her a few times in the past 4 days for her to give me some oral again and she got mad last night at me.

She told me that she was not interested in doing anything sexual at all until she finds out what is wrong with her and doesn't want to be pressured anymore. She said she wasn't in the mood and I need to take care of myself.

I didn't think I was being that big of a jerk. Was I being unfair for her to help me out?

2006-10-04 07:45:27 · 19 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE A ENGAMENT RING AND 2 WEDDING BANDS THAT WAS BOUGHT AND CANT RETURN THEM TO THE STORE BOUGHT YEAR AGO WOULD LIKE TO SELL THEM OR FIND SOME STORE CLOSE BY LIKE POND SHOP AROUND COLDWATER MICHIGAN THANKS

2006-10-04 07:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by missy_200625 1 in Weddings

2006-10-04 07:45:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I like but unfortunately she was in a relationship already. It was no surprise since she is so perfect. Fast-forward two years to now, they broke up. I can not believe it! Lucky me. I am so curious why they broke up so my question is, should I ask her what happened or will this only upset her and make her think of him again? On the other hand, if I find out what went wrong maybe I can learn something for my quest to woo her...haha. Please let me know what you think?

2006-10-04 07:44:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Husband feels he is entitled to be supported while he pursues his music career. Is controlling and sometimes verbally abusive. I hate confrontation but have 2 daughters to think of besides myself. My "DreamMan" has turned out to be a nightmare.

2006-10-04 07:44:39 · 15 answers · asked by waitingtoexhale 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, at my boarding school the guys call in the middle of the night and constantly knock on my door in daylight hours. They won't leave our rooms and we have a 10 pm curfew. I'm afraid that we're all going to get caught and get detentions for this. Even though they're the ones who won't leave no matter how hard me and my roomates try, we will be in blame for it as well as the boys. What should me and my friends do/say to make them listen to us??

2006-10-04 07:43:51 · 14 answers · asked by Abigail S 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 07:43:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were together for nearly 18months. she ended it but i found out a few days later that she had cheated with one of my "friends". she says she is really sorry for hurting me but doesnt want to get back together. any thoughts would be greatly apprieciated.

2006-10-04 07:43:34 · 25 answers · asked by welshlad84 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I just got back with my ex a couple days ago on my birthday and I went to myspace to check out his page or whatever, and I clicked on one of his friends which was a girl and on her comment box my supposedly boyfriend says to her that he misses her and he still wants to be with her. Now I'm thinkin to myself, okay what is that about. And check this he wrote that to her the same day we got back together. And after tellin me all this bull about he wanted me to come back to him and all that he was tellin another girl the same thing almost. So what should I do? I'm really heated about this!

2006-10-04 07:43:31 · 26 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

He is 50 and i am 41.he doesnt have children he isnt seeing any one or talking to anyone about any of his feelings, he does have a secret....he is in debt does that help anyone and hid the letters cos they are coming in now. Does he hate himself and not me? he also emails me every day.

2006-10-04 07:43:06 · 8 answers · asked by Angelica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The father of my son and I broke up after this past christmas because he was cheating on me. We are unmarried, but lease a house together. I gave him the opprotunity to leave, but he stayed. I left and he had the girl he was cheating on my with staying there for days at a time.
He stopped seeing her and I moved back in in March, because our house IS 1/2 mine, our son had his room there and I was due in April.
I have tried hard to forgive him, and he is a wonderful father now that our son is born. I still think of what he did, and how he chose her over us... I also think of what might have happened if I just stayed away... Does anyone have some advice about what to do? He is a wonderful father to William but our relationship is still broken, what can we do to make it better?

2006-10-04 07:42:42 · 7 answers · asked by allisonbowler 1 in Singles & Dating

I get hit on a lot by my husbands "friends". My husband and I rarely are intiment, and although I have not cheated, the urge is definatly there. WIth so many opportunities available, how do I resist?

2006-10-04 07:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by tear streaked angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I liked this boy a lot he was so nice to me but all my friends told me i was going out with a geek and told me he was ugly so i broke up whith him do you think that was right ? help me

2006-10-04 07:42:13 · 12 answers · asked by mary c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend 18 months, it wasn't the love at first site, but grew into it, he is the only man i 've had a deep soulmate type relationship with, i feel he truely wants to know everything about me, and is always there to comfort me on life chanllenges. I am heart broken now because i have chosen to end it. reason is, he is very irresponsible with money, borrows my money, makes up stories of
credit theft, etc, when really its his overspending that gets him in trouble,. i have not loaned him money or bailed him out for 9 months now, but we have a phone bill together that is always a struggle to collect his share, I feel theres a due date for both of us not just me. his credit is terrible, almost had a foreclosure in the past, 2 bankruptcies.
i won't let him live with me, but he was here the majority of the time, but not helping with groceries, etc.
I'm sick heartbrokern without him, should i put up with it for love or follow my head and get out.

2006-10-04 07:41:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 07:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why does it cheer me up to buy new clothes when im feeling down?

2006-10-04 07:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Other - Family & Relationships