I am 14 years old and I am with a 19 year old boy...yeah I no it is a long story. Ok but his mom doesn’t know anything about my age and mom my knows nothing about us. We have been together since July 7th and I met him in March and we are in love. Things even get better because he is about to live walking distance from my grandmothers house compared to his 10 minute drive. Just give me some advice because its still something that isn’t right and he is not a rapist.
2006-10-04 07:49:34 · 8 answers · asked by I_Taste_Like_Candi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first htings first.. Age is just a number I am a good example myself I am 24 and my bf is 34 we love each other and we have been dating for a long time... and with the age different.. if makes the relatioinship more exciting because one you is young to an other if one is actinglike a child other is matured.... you will have lots of fun in the future.. but take my advise and don't tell parents baout the age.. Well i did not until today my parents think that my bf is only about 3 years older than me... as long as you guys are happy together you don't have to explain things to any one else
2006-10-04 07:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ramya D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel something isn't right because you like him, but feel bad about deceiving your family, and I bet every minute you are with him, some part of your mind is worried about what would happen, or what is going to happen when your family finds out, so you can't really enjoy being with him. You should tell your family the truth so they don't find out though someone else, and see how they feel about it. Try and prove to them that he isn't a bad guy, and that you really like him. If they say no to dating him, then be friends for a couple years and then see what happens. In the meantime, find a nice 14 year old boy that will make your family proud. I hope I have helped!
2006-10-04 14:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by bcrazycaroline18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age does not matter i met my boyfriend when i was 15 and he was 19 i was 16 1 month later like but i still dont think age matters just follow your heart aslong as you are both happy together. congratulations in finding love. if you wanna talk about anything just contact me i am here to listen and help you x
2006-10-04 14:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by sensual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say, some of these answers are rediculous... especially from the women!!! THE GUY WILL GO TO JAIL!!!! DO ANY OF YOU UNDERSTAND THAT!!!! Age of consent in the US is 16... IT'S ILLEGAL FOR ANYONE UNDER 16 TO ENGAGE IN SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITHOUT PARENTAL CONSENT!!! Do any of you know that? Age doesn't make a difference when both parties are 18 and older... AGE IS EVERYTHING WHEN ONE IS UNDER 16!!!! AND YES!!!! HE IS A RAPIST IF YOU ARE UNDER 16!!! IT'S CALLED STATUTORY RAPE!!! YOU ARE NOT OLD ENOUGH TO LEGALLY GIVE SEXUAL CONSENT!!!!
2006-10-04 14:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all honey I think you are too young to be asking about love.
2006-10-04 14:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Shalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHOULDNT U BE READING A BOOK OR SUMTHING. MAYB PLAYING A SPORT. HE'S BEEN OUT THERE AND IF IT WAS LOVE HIS MOM WOULD KNOW ABOUT U. ALL HE WANT IS SUMTHING U WOULD NEVA GET BACK.
2006-10-04 14:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. But, just don't let him take advantage of you
2006-10-04 14:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there nothing whong on wht u r doin....its fine
u r just too afraid of things aroud u...just chill
2006-10-04 14:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋