Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

nobody's perfect..my boyfriend cheated on me 4 months into the relationship. we split up but got back together and have been so strong since...we confide in each other and spend a lot of time together.. we are best friends now. our families have met each other and things have been great.
2 days ago, we both had plans of going out seperately with our own friends. he went out with a friend of his whom i don't particularly like(bad company) and i went out with one of my girlfriends.
i came back rather early and @ 6am, i gave him a call. he told me he was in an expensive hotel and that he and his friend shad booked 2 rooms after their nite out (one friend had come from out of town). i called the hotel to check out the story and thats where he was.
my hearts of hearts tells me nothin happend but because of last year, i can't help but feel that maybe he strayed again...
i don't know what to do. when confronted, he apologisd for not calling and promisd nothin happen. is he lying?

2006-10-02 06:33:19 · 20 answers · asked by robert 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's a personal question with a personal reason.Please answer modestly.

2006-10-02 06:32:44 · 16 answers · asked by Incredible Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 06:32:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me your real thoughts or situations? i wanna hear it both good and bad

2006-10-02 06:31:23 · 27 answers · asked by SunSet 2 in Singles & Dating

When a man loves a woman, the fact of fighting for her in my case seems to make things worst, weeks after I stop she seems to be showing signs she miss me. Is this a mind game?, she wants attention or someone to be after her for a lifetime?. Consider my question, has someone went back with him because he fought?, I think no woman out there would go with a guy because he has fought (and the relationship post-break up worked)

2006-10-02 06:31:10 · 15 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 06:30:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We started off as friends and we ended up starting to care for eachother. He never told me he wanted to be with me. I was friends with all of his friends before i knew him and all of them told me he liked me so i stuck around. He hooked up with three other girls while we were still talking. I was so hurt. After all this he told me sorry then he wanted to be with me. By this point i was frustrated and hurt so i told him i just wanted to be friends. We continued to be friends and my feelings for him are just growing. My mom tells me that since we werent together i have nothing to be upset about, but my freinds tell me to leave this whole situation alone and move on. I'm 19 and he's 20. We both have never been in a relationship and im so confused. I really need some kind of help. Even if its from complete strangers.

2006-10-02 06:28:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always wanted to have a lot of children,but how do i tell a guy that i want 6 kids with out scarying him.how would i go about talling him.I NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND BEFORE

2006-10-02 06:28:30 · 13 answers · asked by Me 6 in Singles & Dating

Disclaimer: I will be using the term women but only mean women in general, not all women.

Okay guys, every single day I come across questions asking if a girl likes you, if a girl this, if a girl that, what should you do, what can you do. I'm going to let you all in on a secret. It's one word that will change your entire path in life. It's considered by many to be the sexiest thing a man can wear. What is this magical word?

Confidence.

Pure and simple. Show your confidence. Be a MAN. Show her no fear. Look at her in the eyes when talking to her. Learn about her. Take it all in as if you were memorizing the stats of your favorite team. Amazing things will happen, I promise. If you spend half as much time paying attention to her and what she has to say as you do thinking about getting your groove on, your "problems" are over.

Women DO want the nice guy, trust me. But they also want a MAN. Someone that will not let anything keep them down, much less being intimidated.

2006-10-02 06:28:30 · 45 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 06:27:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 06:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by happy2be 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 06:27:26 · 7 answers · asked by Richard A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 06:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by Special 5 in Family

Today me and some friends are getting together to go to the movies, and my other friend wants to come to. But all the other people in my group dont want her to come, and to be honest, I dont think she would fit that well with my other friends. But she keeps asking things like, were are we meeting up, or what time? what do I do/tell her?

2006-10-02 06:26:23 · 18 answers · asked by furyfluf 1 in Friends

Have you ever met someone you had cybersex with? DId real-life live up to the online fantasy?

2006-10-02 06:26:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanted to go out with this guy, he is only a year younger than me, but my parents thought that was a problem. I'm 17 and he's 16. I think its a little unfair. Plus they r letting my older brother(20) date a girl who is 17. Y wont they let me date a younger guy? Is there something wrong with that?

2006-10-02 06:25:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been working for this company for about six months. The job itself is o.k. Extremely easy but I get paid decent. But truth is I am unhappy. I guess I am unhappy because of the way certain people are around here. Its like, they are just not my type of people. Its like I get told what to do from 3 different peopla and they are constantly contradicting themselved because of the battles they go through. So I am in the middle. I hate the commute, I am unhappy. But I know if I quit everybody is going to judge me because this is a good company to work for. I dont know what to do. Would it be wrong of me to quit, I just feel really unhappy.

2006-10-02 06:25:14 · 10 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Friends

My mum won't look out of our front room window. "People will think I'm peering at them".

2006-10-02 06:25:10 · 24 answers · asked by poppy vox 4 in Family

I am trying to plan a very romantic and intimate evening for my fiance' and I. He is a great guy. He just relocated to the city that I live in to be with me and his daughter. He just started a new job and he's been kinda stressed lately. I want to do something for him that is very romantic, but at the same time, shows him how much I love and appreciate all that he is doing for our family. I am trying to come up with something romantically creative that I can do tomorrow night at our house after we put the baby to bed. Any suggestions/ideas?

2006-10-02 06:25:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i think there r many problems in india nd just becos of these india suffering from many problem,could u pls telll me those problems?

2006-10-02 06:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family

i'm in love with a boy ... loll ..naturaly but the problem is that i don't know if he loves me :( he told me that he loves me but i didn't guess him ... because he is an amusing person .... he make many jokes and i was afraid 2 accept that he loves me ... now i love him and he isn't in love with me ... did i make a biiiiig mistake?:(((?

2006-10-02 06:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-02 06:23:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has cheated on me in the past and he has worked away for 6 years now and i dont have a clue if he has cheated on me while he is away..all i do know is that he is gone for 2 weeks to a month at a time and i get lonely ..he gets mad if i have a babysitter for our 2 wonderful children because he dont want me to get out with out my kids.. I have met this really nice guy that is very good to me but i have not crossed the line with him "let me remind you i have never cheated in my husband"!! I have known this guy for a year now and he has done nothing but be good to me and my kids.. My husband also knows this guy because i introduced my husband and this guy to each other before i started liking this very sweet man!! Now I am very confused and I don't want to hurt anyone...I do love my husband but the spark is gone and I can't trust him I have tried for 10 years now..I don't believe he is cheating on me all the time but I have no way of knowing..What should I do????

2006-10-02 06:22:40 · 26 answers · asked by browneye_ky_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and why would someone want to make it, uh***blush*** hard? I am referring to this persons question,
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsuLuBuEvQ7JQPOMTT0K_5pIzKIX?qid=20060927121028AAdexyh

only mature answers please.

2006-10-02 06:22:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To go out on a date and that is between the ages of 18 to 26 and that is looking for someone too. If there is a girl that wanting to go out on a date look me up at Michael75751@yahoo.com

2006-10-02 06:22:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 06:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by KT 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend's son is getting married in June.My friend wants to invite her brother and sister who have been estranged from the family for 2 years. Her son and fiance do not want to invite them. What is the proper etiquette in this situation?

2006-10-02 06:20:17 · 21 answers · asked by pedidoc43 3 in Weddings

I have been in a long term relationship that ended a few months ago and i have been going out but dont seem to know what to talk about and when i do i dont know how to take it to the next step give me some great flirting tips what do you like to hear from a guy what gets your attention

2006-10-02 06:20:10 · 11 answers · asked by JTHOM 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend was married for 2 yrs, and with this guy for 7 yrs..He told her he was not happy and filed for divorce, now I am involved with her and she is always emailing him and I cant seem to get her to see how it makes me feel. she always says they were good friends and she misses parts of him and I even saw an email where she says she wanted a second chance...Now she says she is not going to contact him anymore, but on occasions I ask her if she has talked to him and she says he emailed her or text her..Now I dont know if I can trust her talking to him because of what I saw on the email..

2006-10-02 06:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by Brian C 1 in Singles & Dating

i know my husband look at porn on the computer... we have a great sex life (always had) and we get along great. one day i checked the cookies folder and i see all the sites he goes to and when. He goes on when i'm either at work, or still sleeping in the morning. I confronted him a couple of times and he denied it, however i don't want to show him the "cookie" log because then he can go and delete them himself. What should I do, it disgusts me, and makes me feel "not sexy" knowing that he looks at these things. we have only been married a little over a year! he rarely goes out with freinds and i know he's not cheating on me. Should I just let it go? When i tried to talk to him about it we end up getting into a fight! please gimmie some advice....

2006-10-02 06:18:34 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce