I have been in a long term relationship that ended a few months ago and i have been going out but dont seem to know what to talk about and when i do i dont know how to take it to the next step give me some great flirting tips what do you like to hear from a guy what gets your attention
2006-10-02 06:20:10 · 11 answers · asked by JTHOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women like to feel like they have the mans total attention on them. They love to be flattered and complimented even if its on something simple like wow I love the color of your eyes.(and know what color the eyes are!) Make a lot of eye contact and smile. Do not do not do not talk about past relationships even if you are dissing your ex!
2006-10-02 06:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
#1 don't discuss your ex-girlfriend. If you were in a long term relationship you are likely at a loss for things to talk about or stories to tell that don't involve the other girl.
#2 Don't go out looking for a girl, that's a turn off because you come across as being a "tail" hunter. Instead....just go out with your friends and have a good time, making plenty of solo trips to the bar or separating yourself to have a few minutes alone at a quiet table.....that will make you more interesting. NOT looking is the surest way to be FOUND, You do not want to come across as a guy who's simply looking for a 'good night' or being deperate.
Good pick up lines.......there really arent' any, we've heard them all. But here's one that I've seen work. K....If you must approach a girl your attracted to just tell her that you noticed her from across the room and even though you'll likely never see her again....you just had to know her name. When she tells you, say "I knew it would be beautiful" Then smile and walk away. If she is even remotely interested she'll follow you around the room with her eyes. Just keep looking back at her and smile (not creepy, but warmly) If she separates from her group then she is making herself available for further talking. Move in slowly and address her by her name....proceed with caution though. Be very casual and FUN, but not sleazy. And don't forget.....NEVER mention the EX unless she asks you!
Happy Hunting!
2006-10-02 06:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pay attention to what she talks about and give her feed back
on the conversation and take her to romantic places that way you can whisper stuff in her ear (nothing offending ) you can also try sexy quotes from a song but respectfully though find out what kind of girl she is another thing you can flirt with your eyes like winking and stuff while your @ it you can that's OK I wont tell u that u r a beginner
2006-10-02 06:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were in a long term relationship yet have learned nothing?
be yourself and not what you think someone wants or needs you to be
honesty
honesty
honesty
that is what is needed in relationships
stop looking at it as THE date and just date till you find your match - again
best wishes!
2006-10-02 06:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it not going anywhere then you probably dont really like this person. I never had anyone myselve but i feel it should always feel like something new and if that never started, it not meant to be.
2006-10-02 06:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to talk about things that would naturally come from u. If you ask ppl wat to say, u wouldnt be urself. Just b urself and take things at a reasonable pace.
2006-10-02 06:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still not over your last relationship wait a moment
2006-10-02 06:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing he got from Yahoo answers.
Be yourself and pay attention to her. Ask her about her likes and dislikes. Just be sweet, but no lines please....
2006-10-02 06:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flattery gets you everywhere!
2006-10-02 06:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk from your heart....be honest...caring and loving....and romantic....bring some flowers...write a poem...Good luck
2006-10-02 06:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by angel_light 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋