2006-10-02 06:23:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im am a jealous person, all i can say is that its a desperate emotion. it defys sense or logic and doesnt mean a lack of trust in others but rather a lack of confidence in ones self.
it is possible to get help for these emotions without getting too invasive and preachy.
the first step, as always, is admitting you've got a problem. it is very important to have a lot of support and reassurance though. then you can get more help over the net by way of books and councilors and stuff.
2006-10-02 06:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes. And I'm jealous, too. A little bit of jealousy didn't ever hurt a relationship. It's like you give a new taste to an unsalty soup. You flavour and spice the life together. Nice, hmm?
2006-10-02 06:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bloke used to be very jealous but I've managed to calm him quite a bit. I told him that If he wanted to get jealous and scared and generally make himself feel bad - he could! But he shouldnt expect me to feel bad for him on account of his own insecurities. I said that he was welcome to join me in the "real" world whenever he was ready. Also I told him that I dislike him when he is jealous and would be more likely to find someone else when I'm angry with him so he better keep me sweet! Xx
2006-10-02 06:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, but it is not how other people approach you, it's how you handle a situation on your own. if a guy(or girl) comes on to you, and you like it, or give it hope, than he should be jealous. but if you pay it absolutely no attention, then he should be able to trust you.
there is no way to control what people say to you or how they stare you down, only how you react to the gesture.
2006-10-02 06:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No but I'm jealous of him, he looks far better in a basque than I do...sorry darling your secret's out!
2006-10-02 06:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kate J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 23years know and the wife and i are very onest with each othere we do both seam difrent in actually agreing with each other but we trust each othere as well from the heart
2006-10-02 06:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by michael l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,he trusts me a 100%,and vice versa.
2006-10-02 06:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes he can be depends on the situation, but he never has fists flying or gets angry, he will tell me afterwards he didnt like me talking to such and such a person but he trusts me to deal with a situation.
2006-10-02 07:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by EMMA O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes but i'm fairly jealous when he pays more attention to other people even when there not girls
2006-10-02 06:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when i make her jealous..
2006-10-02 06:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by martinsbits2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋