when someone is having an extra maritial affair ..what next to be done?

Answer 1

If your spouse is having the affair you need to pray for guidance as to what to do.
If you are having the affair you need to repent before God and sit down and talk with your spouse. Maybe you can work it out. Find out where you went wrong. If given another chance...you both will have to be patient and understanding as you rebuild that trust that was once there.

Answer 2

To me this question seems very vague. I need more information. If you want me to tell you it is wrong. Yes, it is very very wrong to have an extra marital affair. Marriage vows are sacred between two people and it is very wrong when the vows are broken.

You asked what next to be done? All I can suggest is find a lawyer or a good marriage counselor, but first follow your heart and do what it says.

If it is you, I am very sorry you have someone in your life who cheated on you. Good Luck.

Answer 3

First of all, ask yourself if there is something that you did or didn't do to cause the affair. Like sleeping in separate bedrooms or spending to much time with your friends, etc.
There is no excuse for infidelity, but, it happens. And some times it's no-one's fault.
If you haven't done anything to cause this, there is no reason to stay with a cheater. There are too many good people out there that can make you happy.

Answer 4

Really do something different for that person. They seem to have lost the magic with you. Really krank it on so you get them back. Otherwise, that person is just gone. If he's a guy, and he wants to be with someone younger (the affair), why not get a naughy schoolgirl costume to show him you are really young??

Just do something different to get him back, or her back whoever it is. If it's a girl, buy her candies, go to a nice restaurant, go to some stupid ballet, or something boring like. She would love it. Picnics might be exciting for both of you.

Answer 5

If you are the one cheating, stop! If you are the one being cheated on, invest in a phone recorder. The conversations you might pick up are cannot be used in court, but it will keep him from trying to talk his way out of it. Oh, and get a lawyer. If there is anything you want from the home that he/she may fight you over, try sneaking it out before the papaers get served.

Answer 6

the involved party - needs to stop, make right with their spouse or partner, move on from there

the injured partner/spouse - needs realize but for the grace of God, there could go any of us......talk it out, forgive, try to forget, move on from there

Affairee - realize you are just something being used
rarely do you "win" other than the booby prize, if you
know what I mean
really look at this and see if this is really the best you
can do with your life and if this is what you call a
relationship
realize you are just what you allowed yourself to be...
find a way to better your life and to find real love


Proceed with caution, whatever your position, for you are talking about matters of the heart - they generally affect more than just yourself!

Answer 7

If you are guilty... you'll regret it for the rest of your life!
If the other party is guilty... keep on living! It may be hard to see right now, but time heals all wounds.

Answer 8

here are two things not to do. Don't be the one to drop the bomb on the spouse, and never ever ever confess if you expect your marriage to last.

If you know the person, you need to talk to them and let them know that you know and that they need to handle the situation.

Answer 9

Call the spouses and tell them what you have done--ruined a wonderful marriage.

Answer 10

If you're doing it. stop it. It only brings on sadness and loss for the family. If it's someone you know, tell them to stop it. No one wins in that situation. <*)))><