2006-10-02 06:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by happy2be 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is looking for you to say "go for it" that way she has a fall guy.
Just tell her that he needs to talk to her husband and either work it out, get counceling or a divorce.
If she can't or won't talk to her hubby then she either needs to go to couceling herself or just up and leave and divorce him.
Its not fair to you to always hear about their dirt and expect you to just agree. thats not a real friend.
2006-10-02 06:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would want to know why she would cheat on her husband. If she isn't getting what she needs from her husband, then why doesnt she turn to him, rather than away from him?
I also believe that it is wrong for her to involve you in her marital issues. She is violating the intimacy of the marriage by doing that. She need to turn to her husband, her chosen life partner, and tell him what it would take to fulfill her.
She has no business reinventing herself to some other guy. She took vows. She should make an effort to fix what's wrong and show some integrity.
You should tell her that she needs to put more effort into her owm marriage, and quit involving you. There is nothing you can do to fix things for her. You should tell her that you disapprove of cheating, and if she is no longer seriously motivated by her vows, then she should seek a divorce.
Maybe if she thought about you losing respect for her, she might think twice about the pain she is about to cause to her husband and herself (and kids, if there are any).
2006-10-02 14:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... if you cheat with this women that is cheating on her husband... It will come back to you in its own time. =) Cheating I dont care if you are doing it to someone you love or someone else is cheating on someone they love with you... Its a big no no... and will bite you in the *** later.
2006-10-02 13:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.just make sure she aint the kind of chick who's gonna get guilty and tell her husband later.u dont want a shotgun up your rear end
2006-10-02 13:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by SINISTER MEMPHISTO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice her NOT to do it! Cheating is not the answer....everyone will get hurt in the end....everyone!
2006-10-02 13:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her who she has in mind. Firce the issue, you always get n answer. You may also want to ask why.
2006-10-02 13:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by williejuly1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her good luck and drop it.
2006-10-02 13:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
might just need a friend to vent to,
2006-10-02 13:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋