Disclaimer: I will be using the term women but only mean women in general, not all women.
Okay guys, every single day I come across questions asking if a girl likes you, if a girl this, if a girl that, what should you do, what can you do. I'm going to let you all in on a secret. It's one word that will change your entire path in life. It's considered by many to be the sexiest thing a man can wear. What is this magical word?
Confidence.
Pure and simple. Show your confidence. Be a MAN. Show her no fear. Look at her in the eyes when talking to her. Learn about her. Take it all in as if you were memorizing the stats of your favorite team. Amazing things will happen, I promise. If you spend half as much time paying attention to her and what she has to say as you do thinking about getting your groove on, your "problems" are over.
Women DO want the nice guy, trust me. But they also want a MAN. Someone that will not let anything keep them down, much less being intimidated.
2006-10-02 06:28:30 · 45 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you finally DO get that date with Ms. Perfect (cause you won't settle for anything less, you stud), show a little effort went into planning the evening. Take a freakin shower, wash and COMB your hair. Dress nice. And show up with a single (not a bouquet) flower. Not a rose, too cliche. Try to mix it up a bit.
Listen to her. It's just that simple.
Now, I'm not the best looking man in the world, I know this. I have a nice place, an okay paying job, an older car. That doesn't matter. What I lack in some things, I make SURE I excel in others. And you know what, I still get the girl if she gets my attention.
And don't confuse confidence with arrogance. It's a fine line, and when you figure out that line you'll know how not to cross it.
Good luck gentlemen.
2006-10-02 06:31:43 · update #1
well thank you ross effing jeffries
but once again this is one hundred percent crap from a guy who thinks he knows how to get women
women DO NOT want a nice guy, they want a son of a b i t c h who will use their p u s s i e s up and then leave
2006-10-02 06:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
I will confirm the confidence. I met a guy online who had a really nice pic and loved to voice chat. now, I could have lived with the chicken with a cold voice but the only thing that killed the whole thing was he wasn't confident.
I noticed one other thing too. Guys seem to totally dig the conficend thing too. isnt' that right matt? ever since I boosted my confidence I've been getting alot more attetion from the gentlemen. crazy, aint it? the hair, the nails, the makeup? I'm starting to think it's all a scam. cause the guys dont' even notice. they do notice confidence though. so ladies just go out there with a killer smile and just be yourselves and walk out like you own the place! If a guy likes you he'll track you down and ask for your numer or email address. anything else is just conversation.
on the nice guy thing. OH YYEAH! I definitly want the nice guy. those are the guys I won't be having to bail out of jail!!!!
2006-10-05 06:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also, us girls don't want a guy who is clingy, I know guys always say that about girls but I have found out that a lot of guys are just too clingy and trust us (unless given resons not to) I know for a fact that when a guy is too clingy it's a turn off and when a guy questions everything that I do I get a little upset.. One thing to always make sure of is never get too cocky.. I hate that.. I know a lot of other women that do too.. be strong and keep in good spirits about things and you can't go wrong.. If you want to go to my profile and e mail me you can and ask me some questions too, I can tell you some of what you need to know.
2006-10-03 04:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by kalynn h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have been raised by a lot of women or are the smartest man in the world because that is so true. Maybe you should give the men some more tips.
2006-10-02 06:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Betty Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have confidence, because you are such a cutie.
I do like that attribute in a man. No woman want's a weak man. In/Out of bed. It is just not a turn on. I want a man that knows what he is doing(even if he doesn't) and shows confidence in himself.
2006-10-06 03:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Boo Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like men women do need someone that knows what they want as well as dont be affraid to let out whats kept in the mind. Very true on your opinion good to hear someone wise.
2006-10-02 06:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THANK YOU!
Yes, you are 100% Right. Confidence is very powerful and sexy on a man. But woman..Please...do the same.
You are there to enjoy each other. You have nothing to worry about by being shy..He already likes you so stop acting stupid...
Hats off to you!
Pass it on!
2006-10-02 06:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about time that a man knew excatly what he was talking about! I completly agree with you. Men need to be men, because if the women is wearing the pants in is such a turn off!
2006-10-02 06:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dunno about the stud bit, but you know his advice is not all that bad.
No one likes to be with an undecided, emotionally insecure, immature, self absorbed fool.
Well, not normal people anyway, maybe control freaks and the like, but I think most women want a partner, not a dog to follow them round and beg for treats, bark for attention and cower ever time you turn round.
2006-10-02 06:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just came across this Q and i have to admit also,there is nothing like a man who is totaly CONFIDENT ,a real man who can look you in the eyes and who really wants to know the woman for the woman she is
2006-10-03 18:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good advice, the problem is "men" are hard to find. Confidence is a huge turn on. But like I said before, men are hard to find.
2006-10-02 06:32:18 · answer #11 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋