Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

I have three kids and I am in the middle of a devorce. I have no problem turning heads or getting asked out. I an 31 and still look great in a bikini. Everyone thinks that I am younger than I am, they say the oldest I look is 24. I don't have any strecth marks from pregnancy and my breast are double D's and are still firm.

So why is it that I haven't been asked out but an awesome guy yet. Is it because I have three kids or what?The good looking ones so far are losers and the half way decent ones(that i wish I could fall for) are doing nothing for me. Is it me? My husband is a loser and I dont want another. Do I have a block up or something . I need to know if the reason I can't find a guy is my fault.

Oh , and by the way, I am ready to move on , I do not love my husband and we have been broke up for a long time. This devorce is just taking forever.

2006-10-02 10:12:58 · 20 answers · asked by poobear 3 in Singles & Dating

I am so upset. My wife hates my family and it is hard for me to deal with. I know my family can be a little odd and are a bit akward in dealing with people. My wife feels that they are constantly insulting her. My mom and dad try to be good in laws and help us out whenever we need it, and are overall very nice. The problem is that they seem to be very socially akward. My mom will occasionally say things that my wife takes as a huge personal insult. My mom means well, but my wife has a huge chip on her shoulder. To me, it is just my mom being annoying like she has all my life so I just ignore her and often don't even notice the things my wife gets so furious about. She expects me to call my mom and yell over stupid stuff, like she would hers. Her whole family is like that and they are always fighting about something. My family is a little more mellow and I never even saw my parents fight my whole life, so there is a big difference in perspectives that I have trouble dealing with.

2006-10-02 10:12:57 · 17 answers · asked by Alex C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is desperate to have children,but i am lead-free.....This is my second marriage we spoke about having children b4 we got married and i said i would love children knowing full well that i was a jaffa.............my 1st marriage ended cause of this....Should i "come" clean and tell her the truth or wait until we go for tests and pretend i didn;t know although this information is on my medical records

2006-10-02 10:12:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married 16 years have 2 kids 13 and 4....she says she doesn't feel Like I am the husband I used to be....But I try harder than ever to keep her Happy.....

2006-10-02 10:12:22 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When do you start feeling comfortable with your significant other being in the bathroom when you're using it? Like you're using it and they just feel comfortable walking in on you? Since i'm very modest I doubt i'll ever feel comfortable with that...but maybe for married people it's different. Guess it just depends on comfort level.

2006-10-02 10:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Shannon83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there's this boy in my 1st and 2nd period
and I've been saying hi for like 2 days and some times he says hi and sometimes he says hi and sometimes he just looks the other way what the **** is up with that

2006-10-02 10:10:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which do men prefer? Which do women prefer?

2006-10-02 10:08:59 · 28 answers · asked by oh...lola 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years now and we have two beautiful little girls together. When we first met everything was great of course. Now our relationship is on the rocks. I have a hard time trusting him. The reason for that is everytime we get in a big fight he leaves and he trys to retaliate against me by our argument by talking to girls it happened twice to my knowledge. The first time I was supposed to go to a club with him and his friends cause we were celebrating his friends birthday and we got into a huge argument so I didn't go but, he did. And the next day I checked his phone and I found a girls number in his phone and I called her and she told me they just danced but, nothing happened. So I confronted him about it he denied it at first then later told me the truth about it. But, I am really concerned I love this man so much when he leaves me for one single second I can't breathe. The 2nd time is his ex hit him up on myspace and he responded back to her

2006-10-02 10:08:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend knows i like this guy and so shes trying to help us get together...TOO MUCH! like stalking him! I dont want to get him too embarrased but i also dont want my to hurt my friends feelings by telling her to back off. HELP!!!

2006-10-02 10:08:37 · 3 answers · asked by Caroline H 2 in Singles & Dating

I've got a date in a couple of days with this guy i met at work. He sent me a txt saying how if i wanted to chance my mind he'd understand. I asked him why he said that and he said because he's an older man etc. I then said 'i like older guys'. I kinda wish i never said that now because i felt it was a stupid thing to say,do you think it was stupid?

2006-10-02 10:07:54 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 10:07:53 · 1 answers · asked by ibetyouwantmeat45 2 in Singles & Dating

if im watching the game its, yap yap yap- drvings its yap yap yap-why want they shut the@@@@up, and jerk me off!and make sure my supper is ready when i get home from work!

2006-10-02 10:07:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 10:07:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 10:07:33 · 5 answers · asked by over_boost47302 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 10:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kristina E 1 in Friends

My guy-friend is going through a divorce (separated 7 months). He has a lot on his plate with his kids, work & school. He knows that I am interested in him, however, I am willing to wait and when he is ready - we have agreed to go on a date.

Sometimes, he has a hard time opening up to me. I understand. Once he does tell me something that is bothering him, we are able to calmly talk about it. I can sense his relief. He says his ex would usually scream & yell when it came to him talking about how he feels. I am not that type of person.

I know I have to be patient. Anytime I have asked him where I stand he is always quick to say "We are JUST friends..." which...ya know, okay, that's fine. But I can't help but think he might feel more and is just scared. So, I stopped asking.

Anyway, to my question, I have never been through a divorce nor do I have children, do you guys think that if I continue to be understanding when it comes to his concerns that he will be more willing to open up to me?

2006-10-02 10:06:35 · 14 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 10:05:42 · 33 answers · asked by Peyton J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 10:05:29 · 17 answers · asked by Paka 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok- Im 9.5 weeks pregnant and need to spice up my sex life. My boyfriend (the father of my child) is perfectly happy with just the same thing over and over but I feel in my heart there is alot to do to spice it up to make him happier. He isnt small (size wise) so anything is possible but I need tips.

2006-10-02 10:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by plaster_employment 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 - she was married to my dad for 25 years. He left her and she is now becoming a beautifully independent woman. She is marrying her college sweetheart this winter and I want to get them something "special" and not on their registery. Any thoughts? I love them both and want it to be more than a note or letter. Something thoughtful and well organized. A scrapbook is already being made by his daughter. I would gladly devote time and energy to create something wonderful....but can't think of a place to start!??!?!?!

2006-10-02 10:05:06 · 6 answers · asked by LBM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Front row?

2006-10-02 10:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he smells really bad and he pays no attention to me and he NEVER visits!!!!!!!!!!! he also is a bad dancer idk what to do. should i keep him as a friend?

2006-10-02 10:03:50 · 4 answers · asked by [TGS] 1 in Friends

does anyone share the same feeling when your gf constantly rejects your offers of a great sexy nite in, and comes up with every excuse in the book to say no, and no i aint spineless i just love her and want the best for her and to make her happy we have been together and lived together for yrs!, thanks for the input

2006-10-02 10:03:39 · 11 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

trying to get prego and I never have been before should i start a family? how healty do you have to be to become prego?

2006-10-02 10:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-02 10:01:42 · 9 answers · asked by RRR H 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my bf and I had a great time last night I cooked and took it to his place we eat, sleept watch TV, and we went out and eat ice cream, and it was time for me to go home because I had to get ready for school so he took me to my care and said bye, so I called him when I got home just talking and lounging and he start telling me about how him and his friend was thinking about opening a club and serve drinks, and THIS IS WHAT I SAID, I SAID drinks that is not a good idea u are not 21 yet, and he said no I am not talking about me my X is 24 so he can get the drinks and I am going to be 21 in like 3 month anyway so I said AND AGAIN I SAID o ok that is good he is going to do it, I was just worried about u getting basted and u are under age that is all. And he said u always have to say something negative u heart my feelings and he go so mad, so I said u know what for get I said that is because I care about u and I said I have to go bye, and I called him back after like 3o minutes and he said he didn’t want to talk to me at that moment so he will call me before he goes to bed and he said bye and he hung up?? And he didn’t call me today all day; he didn’t even call me to wish me good luck on my exam. What is wrong with??? Tell me the truth guys did I do SOMETHING WRONG?? And if he call what should I say please guys help me?? Thank u

2006-10-02 10:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm supposed to be married next year..but more times than not I find myself starting to resent my fiance. he is so short tempered all of the time. He will yell at me over stupid things that are other peoples fault and he belittles me.

For example-today he had me call his doctor and request records, they told me they wouldn't talk to me and they could only talk to him so he talked to them and they said they would call him back in an hour when the records were ready. after a few hours they never called him back so he told me to call-sure enough they were rude as hell to me and said they wouldnt talk to me. He got MAD and said "Jesus.C. see why i want to kill myself, you cant even take care of one simple thing. blah blah.."

I am looking for a way to confront him, a way where he will actually listen to me and here where I am coming from.
he is so damn rude and cranky and I am starting to get really unhappy. But he can never see when he is wrong.how to I confront him, will he change

2006-10-02 10:01:26 · 13 answers · asked by my alias 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a high school student in grade ten. Somewhat recently it has seemed that my life is so completely empty. Day after day I go to school where I work for seemingly no reason. I have good friends, though not many. I do very well in school, I'm somewhat athletic, and I'm relatively good looking. But I just don't know what I'm doing here, or what I should be working towards. It seems impossible that I could find a girlfriend, due to the fact that I am not at all outgoing, and am a bad conversationalist. I'm not even sure what type of advice I'm looking for, but I feel as though I need some sort of guidance.

2006-10-02 10:00:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do I do? I'm really shy. How do I make sure it's real love and not just infatuation or illusion?!

2006-10-02 09:59:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay there is this hot guy in my middle school he is in 8th grade and i am in 6th. i am not a shy gal at all so today. my friend and her friend were walkin and she said were is melissa when u need to show her someone. and he starts to laugh. and her friend goes who. and she points to him and he laughs somemore. and so i walk and a yell ur hot to him.and just turns blank. and he was with his gurl friend and i didnt no that. so my friend brooke is telling me i should go up to him and give him a hug right in front of his gf. should i. do u think she will beat the crap out of me. i dont even no him that well but. plz help

2006-10-02 09:59:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating