Family & Relationships - 2 October 2006

A few years ago a girl i dated for 2 weeks confided that she was falling in love with me we saw each other once a week usually Sundays. One night after drinking she said she had a reputation for being a sl*t and i was too good for her. Later she became pregnant and told me in a letter she knew it was mine and asked my help to pay for an abortion i had been giving her food and money to help her out because her job didn't pay enough so i gave her more and drove her to the clinic where i found out she had been there 4 times before i let her sleep off the sedation at my house. Pretty soon she started college and i'd see her maybe two times a month. On my birthday i asked her if she'd like to get together but she didn't really say i then figured out it was over. That was 5 years ago. I've seen her twice since at clubs and once at a store and i ignore her but people tell me she stares at me constantly. What's up with that? It's way creepy. I've got a great wife now i moved on why can't she?

2006-10-02 10:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by sprydle 5 in Singles & Dating

What does it feel like to go from hot stud to middle aged, fat and slightly bald...
I'm not being mean... I'm just wondering who's "inside".
Is it still the young stud with all the cofidence? Or is the person inside bald and fat now...?
Your body moved on... did your mind follow?

I guess the same applies to "hot babe" to "middle aged soccer mom". Who's inside?

2006-10-02 10:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Sienna Baker 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-02 10:22:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old and last week my bf was ot of condoms so we used saran wrap can i be pregnant i am due this week for my period?Also i am on the pill but it has not been a whole month using it yet will it still work?

2006-10-02 10:21:09 · 16 answers · asked by Julie w 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been on a few dates recently with a divorced woman that i've known for years as a pretty good friend. She is my hairdresser in fact, which complicates things.

Anyway, the last few times I've asked her out, she agrees but then cancels at the last minute. So the other day I asked her for the second time about this trend and said "Hey if you don't want to get together just tell me and that's cool." She said, "No, its not that I don't want to, I'm just very busy." Well she is busy at work, I know that for a fact, and she has kids at home. But still I don't feel like I am a priority to her at all - I think she's either playing me or maybe trying not to hurt me - even though she is. What I don't understand is that she is such a nice person otherwise.

So, is she leading me on? Why not just tell me that she doesnt want to go out on dates but just be friends?

How should I confront her about this? I don't want to sound like a selfish jerk, but I gotta know where I stand with her.

2006-10-02 10:21:02 · 16 answers · asked by CKApple 2 in Singles & Dating

do you cook for him, iron his clothes, make sure he has clean underwear?

2006-10-02 10:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by Christina G. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. SO i used to like this guy and at first, let's call him james. so james and i were pretty good friends and he didn't know i liked him.but then a few weeks later, he finds out and starts igoring me.and he still is and that was a year ago.anyways, i like james's best friend, let's call him kenny. kenny and i are great friends and i don't want our friendship to be like james.also, kenny might like his ex gf whose is a very good friend of mine.so what do i do in this little problem?
HELP!
signed,
ehhh. im clueless.

2006-10-02 10:20:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've known him since forever,these last 4 months he has been looking at me in a strange manner.i sent'm a msg asking if he had feelings 4 me,he didnt answer.i saw him after a few days & he was still looking.i sent him another msg asking him y he looks in this way.he also didnt answer so i asked y.he said it's so hard coz i'm like his little sister &that he's trying to act normally.???and what do i do when i c him next?

2006-10-02 10:19:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hear this all the time, but someone told me that it is a very misleading statistic. Do 50% of all marriages really end in divorce.

2006-10-02 10:19:49 · 18 answers · asked by NoDoubt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It has been for me and of course it has had its trials and tribulations from which one cannot help but learn and grow. All things considerd it has been a good day for me, especially because I gained 10 points for top answer.

2006-10-02 10:19:23 · 1 answers · asked by jimmyfish 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf has been smiling alot lately and normaly he tries to put on a false tough guy act.every one know hes a big softie but he doesnt act like it much.one time i saw him smiling at me and i asked him what ? and he said he just saw me and felt like smiling.hes been playing his flute alot he looks like and angel when he does but it alway seems to make him sad and thats been getting him happy all of a sudden.
but im not used to seeing him smile so much its just kinda wierd. and im woundering whats going on.

2006-10-02 10:19:12 · 12 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-02 10:19:09 · 5 answers · asked by xOxMonicaoXo 1 in Singles & Dating

1 My husband and I divorced over religious differences.
He thought he was God and I didn't.
2 I don't suffer from insanity; I enjoy every minute of it.
3 Some people are alive only because it's illegal to kill them. 4.. I used to have a handle on life, but it broke.
5 Don't take life too seriously; No one gets out alive.
6 You're just jealous because the voices only talk to me
7 Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder.
8 NyQuil, the stuffy, sneezy, why-the-heck-is-the-room-spinning medicine.
12 God must love stupid people; He made so many.
13 The gene pool could use a little chlorine.
14 Consciousness: That annoying time between naps.
15 Ever stop to think, and forget to start again?
16 Wrinkled Was Not One of the Things I Wanted to Be When I Grew up.
17 Stupidity is not a handicap. Park elsewhere!
20They call it PMS because Mad Cow Disease was alreeady taken.
21Ham and eggs…A day's work for a chicken, a lifetime commitment for a pig

2006-10-02 10:19:08 · 11 answers · asked by barkel76 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well i liked this one guy.we started talking.and we liked each other.but then he moved to high school.we lost contact .and know im in high school.but he has a girlfriend.we started talking and it brought back so many memories.im starting to like im again.but i dont know wut to do.help!

2006-10-02 10:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why is it that we can talk to a stranger on a chat room for hours but if a guy tries to talk to you on a night out yeah he might be after one thing but what if he want a relationship with you? get to know you? why do you shoot him down quicker than you can do a shot of sambuka

2006-10-02 10:17:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i like this guy but he has a girl. he made out with me at our school's homecoming game last friday. his girl's best freind saw us talking and is now out to get me. what do i do??????????????????

2006-10-02 10:17:12 · 7 answers · asked by (((uniquely.me))) 2 in Singles & Dating

ok one of my best friends is named sam (a guy). we have been really cool with each other for about 5 weeks.. and now im starting to notice some feelings i have for him. hes atheletic and handsome.. smart and funny.. i dont see any flaws really. sometimes he acts like he likes me back by looking at me wierd or such. but i dont know for sure. and i want to tell him my feelings without the chances of ruining our blossoming friendship.. what should i do?

2006-10-02 10:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He promised me he would never ask. But now he keeps wanting to marry me. I have a failed marriage that I am over, but feel that getting married again is not my goal. I feel that if you want to be with me... be with me without the paperwork... we should know our committment level...

He keeps talking about weddings.

Ack.

It's cute though. I'm getting nervous that he is going to propose.

****.

2006-10-02 10:16:41 · 18 answers · asked by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

silk or cotton if the first two....

2006-10-02 10:16:21 · 21 answers · asked by oh...lola 1 in Singles & Dating

Shes lives with a man and her new lover lives with her partner.
I feel fine about this the sexuality isnt a problem, but what advice do I give her about this "affair" business.
Im worried shes playing with fire.

2006-10-02 10:15:47 · 10 answers · asked by pixilated 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

You are a 14 year old teenage girl in high school {you are NOT a child}
You have done nothing and yet your mother takes away the telephone and the television so you have nothing to do all day but sit there like your in a prison! is that right?

{i asked this before but i swore and people started going crazy...}

2006-10-02 10:15:43 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Just Love It♥ 2 in Family

where do YOU turn when there's no one else?

2006-10-02 10:15:39 · 4 answers · asked by basketball_dancediva 2 in Friends

How can I make my guy of 6 months fall head over heels for me? His ex wife burned him very badly and he is SO hesitant to commit. We have a great relationship, but he holds back when it comes to the future. We have both said we love each other and met the parents, but at the same time he is scared to bring me around too much. What can I do to reassure him that I would never do that to him...he means the world to me and I want him to feel the same for me!!

2006-10-02 10:15:39 · 10 answers · asked by babe 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so he clicked on this add on a website he found and he won free gas for a year. Has anyone else heard of anyone winning something like this? I signed up to try and win that and also for an iPod, lets hope I win. You guys need to try and tell me if you have any luck. I guess this guy updates his site with free offers everyday.

http://www.freesnatcher.com/free-gas-for-a-year/

2006-10-02 10:15:30 · 1 answers · asked by sean 1 in Friends

I'm not gay or anything. The thought of being with a guy in that way disgusts me. I've had g/fs and all that. But I find that I just don't care all that much for seeing a woman naked. Other guy's stare at women's chests while I don't even bother. I stare at their feet instead. Seeing pictures of naked women seems wierd to be. I've been raised to not have sex until marriage. That could have something to do with it. Whats going on? Is there ANYONE else who feels this way or similar?

2006-10-02 10:14:37 · 15 answers · asked by Nick N. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is not my problem its my friends and she asking for advice from me . help me pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

2006-10-02 10:14:35 · 36 answers · asked by Cloudz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when did anyones life begin to be their own? If its not a friend in need its a family member sick, if its not a tummy upset its a dieting problem. If its not a boyfriend or a lover then its, simple ur pissed..When do i get so cosumed by society and become an instant piss head over night. I dont need counsellling i dont think, and im sure as hell not sure if this is related to the idiot i dumped but then again.. can i blame him for everything?

2006-10-02 10:14:28 · 19 answers · asked by Lady Love 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which do you prefer...men? women?

2006-10-02 10:14:28 · 19 answers · asked by oh...lola 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy likes me and I like him but when we're around other people together, he is so shy he can barely talk to me. How do I get him more comfortable?

2006-10-02 10:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you stop yourself from doing?

2006-10-02 10:13:06 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Other - Family & Relationships