Shes lives with a man and her new lover lives with her partner.
I feel fine about this the sexuality isnt a problem, but what advice do I give her about this "affair" business.
Im worried shes playing with fire.
2006-10-02 10:15:47 · 10 answers · asked by pixilated 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her to knock it off. She has a child that she needs to worry about. Sexuality isn't a problem but setting a bad example for your child is. If she wants to be with a woman thats fine tell her to find one aht isn't taken and she needs to deal with her living situation also. Tell her to put her kid first instead of herself.
2006-10-02 10:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by smilestoomuch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is PLAYING with Fire.
Most men dont want to find out their "woman" want another woman it hurts their ego BADLY trust me
Secondly.... Maybe she should think about how the other woman, that lady might be crazy. Thats no good. The only thing you can really say to a person who is in that situation is to BE CAREFUL and dont get hurt. Some women actually go their whole lives knowing they want to be with a woman but never do because society thinks its wrong. I think if shes that brave to say it then she deserves the happiness.
2006-10-02 17:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Some1Special 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that she as to be honest... first off with herself and then to her significant other... Hopefully she's not married to the guy... and they can have an amiable break-up...
As far as the lover... That lover needs to make a decision too. She can't control what her lover will decide, but if she is left alone...there are plenty of wonderful lesbians out there that would love to have a new love in their life....
To thine ownself be true.... tell her that!
2006-10-02 17:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell that b($ch to quit watching Will & Grace reruns.
If you buy into all the Hollywood crap Coming Out is the 'in' thing to do. You're friend sounds like a real basket case who is easily influenced by the media.
2006-10-02 17:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by midwestbruin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is cheating with another woman that lives in a alternative lifestyle?? well sweety it is really none of your business. your friend will have to experience this choice she has made all on her own.. She has confided with you, all you can do is support any decision she may make and be their if she falls. Thats what friends are for..
2006-10-02 17:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same advice you'd give a hetro friend with an added warning about possibly getting some unwanted publicity about her sexuality.Cheating is cheating is cheating!
2006-10-02 20:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by wecair2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think, she should come out to the father.
As long as the child is taken care of by both of them it should be okay.
Its not right to hide her life.
2006-10-02 17:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Drea M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she needs to decide what she wants.
and she needs to tell her new lover partner what
does she wants as far as relationships...
2006-10-02 17:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by bebe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is !! she needs to get her priorities straight!!!
2006-10-02 17:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she will get burned
2006-10-02 17:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋