Is this right?

Question

You are a 14 year old teenage girl in high school {you are NOT a child}
You have done nothing and yet your mother takes away the telephone and the television so you have nothing to do all day but sit there like your in a prison! is that right?

{i asked this before but i swore and people started going crazy...}

Ok I guess i am a child but thats not the point, i did nuthin if she thinks i did sumthin wrong she should say something, instead of just taking things away.

When i said i wasent a child i meant im not three i can understand when she speaks to me so i dont understand y sho doesent do that.

Answer 1

Growing up, I had things very similar happen to me. Turns out my mother is bi-polar. She would get very depressed, and in my opinion, ground me so that I would spend time with her. I don't think she knew what she was doing, nor did I at the time, it made me resent her.
So my advice to you is give your mom a hug, tell her you love her and go do your own thing. But make sure she knows that you love her even when she seems a bit off her rocker. This method is difficult to do and it takes a lot of strength. You are not a child. You are a young woman. Good luck!

Answer 2

You say your mother took your TV and telephone for no reason. If she did, I do not understand her reason. But I doubt this is the case. The first thing you state is that you are "NOT" a child. That tells me that you are probably a strong willed young lady and probably have on occasion expressed that to your mother in one way or another. Your idea of nothing and your mother's idea of "nothing" are two different ideas. Since you are not a child think about the consequences for your actions.
Love, respect and listen to her advice, you might not take all of it, but at least someone is listening to you and loving you.

Answer 3

If without the telephone and the television you just sit there all day, you need some hobbies. Or do your homework. Your life sounds pretty sad if the telephone and the television are all you have to do with yourself.
PS yes, you are a child, and you will be for another 4 years.

Answer 4

You being a child IS the point.

Your mother is a valid authority figure over you and has your best interest at heart.

Whatever her reasons, honor her wishes. Keeping peace with your mother will be to your benefit in the future.

Answer 5

When you're a few years older, you'll realize that 14 year olds are still children. Until then, make some friends and go play outside.

Answer 6

if u are 14 and mommy dear took away those things and u state u didn't do anything wrong then maybe u need to go talk to mommy dear to find out what she thinks u did wrong---b/c there is obviously something wrong here

Answer 7

Frankly speaking, i strongly believe that is slavery. so use your head, find other things to comfort you. if your mother sees you being happy not having the TV of the T/phone she would probably ease off you. Reverse Phycology.

Answer 8

find your self a good book and just deal with what your moms dishes out there is nothing that you can do until you are on your own and I'm more then sure that something was done and she just ain't flip on you like that

Answer 9

I am sure you did something. Also 14 is definitely still a child. You might think you are old and mature, but you are not.

Answer 10

Depends on what "nothing" is. You are a child until 18, legally.