when did anyones life begin to be their own? If its not a friend in need its a family member sick, if its not a tummy upset its a dieting problem. If its not a boyfriend or a lover then its, simple ur pissed..When do i get so cosumed by society and become an instant piss head over night. I dont need counsellling i dont think, and im sure as hell not sure if this is related to the idiot i dumped but then again.. can i blame him for everything?
2006-10-02 10:14:28 · 19 answers · asked by Lady Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he's an idiot then he's an idiot. Maybe he was always complaining about things and maybe that rubbed off on you. You may have absorbed some darkness from the guy. I know I did from my ex-demon, but I'm shedding that stuff and I know where I am and can deal with it properly.
Make sure you are putting the blame in the right places. If you have your faults....face them, and deal with them. That way you will grow and be better for a better person next time around.
But I don't think you can blame him for everything. That makes you sound petty and one of 'those' females'.
2006-10-02 10:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't its nothing to do with him. Its just that EVERYONE is going through this ****. When do any of us get a guilt free moment to do something for ourselves?
There is always someone we haven't got back to or should have seen because they are old/sick/just had a baby/ related to you etc... And its not even that we don't want to see these people, its just that time spent with them is less time doing what you would actually choose to do with your time if you had the guilt free choice!
Everyone could do with a bit of counselling, but you could get that from here in some ways.
The problem with getting pissed is that it leaves you with even less time and inclination to do all the things that you have to do to be a member of society. Now doesn't that sound fun! Problem is we all know what happens to people that think this way... They end up as tramps, swearing at strangers whilst pissed out of their heads on the street. So be careful!!
2006-10-02 10:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, take responsability for you own failures. Then at least you can move forward and do something about it instead of just getting pissed again and blaming him all over again or the next one who comes along. When do you start to stop blaming everyone else, grow up, and sort your own life out, for you. Its not him or society which has consumed you, you have thrown yourself to the lifestyle you have chosen from many that society has to offer. Dont blame everyone else, look in the mirror, your looking at the only person who can be responsable.
2006-10-02 10:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blame game doesn't fix anything. Move past blame and into acceptance of those things that you need to work on in your own life. Good luck.
2006-10-02 18:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not meant to blame others for our problems but we do. Do you think you have a problem and if you do you should get some help. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. If you wake up in the morning its a new day so ride the **** out and get on with enjoying life. AND DON'T GET TO DRUNK DOING IT.
2006-10-02 10:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by hatfieldnomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know that you can't! Everything you're talking about is just a part of life and your living it-it won't always be so bad, but its like the old saying-into everyones life a little rain must fall-and it sounds like you're having a thunderstorm right now-LOL!!!!
2006-10-02 10:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't blame him for everything...trust me i tried that once. You just have to learn to roll with the punches because on thing i have learned is that it is a neverending cycle and how you deal with it is all that matters!! Don't be so hard on yourself...everything will turn out okay.
2006-10-02 10:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by smilestoomuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm Im not sure what ur getting at,but sounds to me like you need some you time,just you forget everyone else,think about what u need,as for the idiot u dumped forget him,he was a idiot.
2006-10-02 10:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ru still drunk cus i havnt got a clue what ur saying! we are nearly always responsible for our own problems in life! FACE UP to them and sort it out and stop blaming!
2006-10-02 10:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by adriboff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, blame him!
Seriously though, don't you think it's nice that other people's problems affect you? It means you have someone you care about in your life and that they in turn care about you! That's a great thing to have, appreciate it! :o)
2006-10-02 10:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋