A few years ago a girl i dated for 2 weeks confided that she was falling in love with me we saw each other once a week usually Sundays. One night after drinking she said she had a reputation for being a sl*t and i was too good for her. Later she became pregnant and told me in a letter she knew it was mine and asked my help to pay for an abortion i had been giving her food and money to help her out because her job didn't pay enough so i gave her more and drove her to the clinic where i found out she had been there 4 times before i let her sleep off the sedation at my house. Pretty soon she started college and i'd see her maybe two times a month. On my birthday i asked her if she'd like to get together but she didn't really say i then figured out it was over. That was 5 years ago. I've seen her twice since at clubs and once at a store and i ignore her but people tell me she stares at me constantly. What's up with that? It's way creepy. I've got a great wife now i moved on why can't she?
2006-10-02 10:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by sprydle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay now for the clarification. This all happened awhile back but i've been asked to DJ again at some local places and was wondering if i run into her again should i continue to ignore her, tell her to stop or what???
2006-10-02 10:43:30 · update #1
this woman sounds like she's had a terrible life (maybe of her own choices, but still) and you were nice to her.... maybe the only one ever to be nice to her... can you really blame her for holding onto her experience with you? it sounds like the nature of your relationship with her in the past was pretty much a booty call but sometimes to women we get emotional and think there's something there that really isn't... I would feel sorry for her. if you've really moved on then what do you care if you see her rarely and she stares at you?
2006-10-02 10:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does it even bother you? If she hasnt moved on, that's her problem. She's probably jealous of your wife or the life she would've had with you since you've had a good past. She IS bad news I must agree, sorry. Dont give yourself a problem. Stick to your wife.
2006-10-02 17:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by JRS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my son I would say that this woman is BAD NEWS and stay far far away from her!
You say you have a good wife and your life is good. Really you should not even care if she stares or not.
2006-10-02 17:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her. if she looks like she's stalking you file a report. sooner or later she'll get the message. she probably just remembers you and lusts after you and wants you to be the one to connect eyes and restart the relationship again. don't blow a good thing.
2006-10-02 17:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by debarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its best to talk to her and find out whats goijg on. But make sure that your wife knowns what your doing. Don't keep any from her. I think its better make sure that that you and her known where you too stand.
2006-10-02 17:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee I dont know, haven't you figured out since the time you met her that the girl is tapped.
2006-10-02 17:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Murfdigidy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should avoid the places where you will see her. Forget her. She is bad news.
2006-10-02 17:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the baby may or not be yours u got a wife and u love her so mpve on with your ex and she may love u cause u were her first love
2006-10-02 20:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by To Tall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like you've moved completely on....sounds like she took you big time though...its probably wasn't your baby and more than likely she didn't know whose it was and you were nice to her and took care of her and she took you....now move on....
2006-10-02 17:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably wants to exaplin to you why she never called..lol
dont let her ruin ur marriage..please! ITS NOT worth it...
2006-10-02 17:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋