does anyone share the same feeling when your gf constantly rejects your offers of a great sexy nite in, and comes up with every excuse in the book to say no, and no i aint spineless i just love her and want the best for her and to make her happy we have been together and lived together for yrs!, thanks for the input
2006-10-02 10:03:39 · 11 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! Its a very personal issue. You start to wonder after a few times," what the "he!!" is wrong with me". Then you begin to question yourself on every level, trying to figure out what the problem is, so we can get it right! Its a feeling of inadequacy. Finally, after years of this occurring I finally learned it wasn't just me. It was him too. He had some personnel issues with his self, and not with me. But it took him forever to share this info, because he was dealing with the same inadequacy that I was feeling, but his was private. After he finally broke down and we talked about it, I was very understanding about it and quite relieved, to say the least. The mental abuse I put myself threw, was tearing the intimate me to pieces. So don't just feel like its all you or your problem. Someday maybe she will come forward and tell you the real reason. I bet she feels like there is something about her that is not desirable to you. And that could open a door of a 1000 reasons. Remember, it takes two to tango! If you tango up, you tango on and never look back.
2006-10-02 10:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Not that type of rejection, but I know what rejection in general feels like. I've been rejected more times than I count, and that's why I'm shy. Sometimes u just wonder what's the use? But aside from that, I don't know what to do. Sorry, can't help u.
2006-10-02 10:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not real rejection.
Rejection is when she moves on and your whole world collapses.
You never recover from it and you can never give yourself to another woman because you know, deep down, that she is the one you still want.
Its as though you heart has been ripped out and you will never feel true loving emotion again. All future relationships will be hollow second bests.
2006-10-02 11:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words, and by her actions your gf is treating you like ****. DITCH THE *****! Better still start going out on your own and get a life that doesn't revolve around her.
Once she realises that you don't need her to be happy, my guess is that she'll change her piss poor attitude and show a bit more interest.
2006-10-02 10:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mr E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, it rather is been collapsing considering the fact that 1963, whilst Madeline Murray O'Hair took prayer and Bible analyzing out of faculty. The previous 4 generations have had no ethical education considering the fact that that day in u.s.. unhappy certainly!
2016-10-15 10:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been here mate. lay off for a while, make out your not bothered. dont try so hard. trust me she will be the one making the offer of a sexy night in.
2006-10-02 10:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep Ive felt it many times it does foook all for someone with low self esteem to begin with
2006-10-02 10:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by seeclearlynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know about the rejection part.
sry by the way
2006-10-02 10:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ection yes ne thing else u said no
2006-10-02 10:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
. . . could your rejection be connected in any way to your erection? . . .
2006-10-02 10:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋