Ok- Im 9.5 weeks pregnant and need to spice up my sex life. My boyfriend (the father of my child) is perfectly happy with just the same thing over and over but I feel in my heart there is alot to do to spice it up to make him happier. He isnt small (size wise) so anything is possible but I need tips.
2006-10-02 10:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by plaster_employment 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember, what works depends on your husband & you.
This is just one guy’s wish list. You might be able to use one or more of these or they may give you a better idea.
I've taken pictures of my wife naked. Some of them are magnificent & I look at them more than any other nude pictures.
You can perform an erotic dance & strip naked for him.
You might try role-playing your, &/or your husband’s, fantasies. One of my favorite fantasies is my wife losing a bet that forces her to be a topless waitress for a night. To act it out she’ll serve me a drink topless as I imagine her topless in public with her breasts dangling in front of me & other guys as she serves us. We’ve role-played this several times.
The wife as a sex slave scenario is an obvious role-playing choice. Would your husband like to see you as a tourist captured & sold in a slave market or a woman captured by a powerful man who wants her. Several times my wife has been a tourist framed for drug possession & held prisoner in a foreign jail. I’m the police official who tells her if she ‘cooperates’ by performing the very best sex routines she’s ever done she’ll be released after a week or two. Or she can be virtuous and be sentenced to 4 years in jail. She always cooperates to the fullest.
Before I was married a GF once played the role of a prostitute. She never went braless but that night she went to a bar braless and a dressed more risqué than I’d ever seen her in public. When I went in a few minutes after her she acted like a prostitute who let me pick her up. Weeks later I wanted to stop in that same bar just for drinks but she said she’d never go back in that bar again.
If role-playing is not what you’re looking for, try going braless. You can spice it up more with a semi or totally see-thru top. At a restaurant one night I told my wife she'd look better without her bra being visible under her blouse. She said that she couldn't go bra-less under a top that was transparent. However, she exited the ladies' room looking great. She was a little embarrassed because her breasts were clearly visible.
Or try surprising him by removing your blouse & bra while the two of you are somewhere he wouldn’t expect it. On weekends my wife will often go braless & several times she’s even removed her blouse while we were walking in a secluded park or hiking. If you are willing to go topless outside you can spice it up even more by handing your bra and blouse to your husband – or let him take it from you. This could be a nice turn on for him. Even if the risk of being seen is very small, or even zero, it can be a great turn on and if you do give him your clothes you combine exposed nipples with a bit of a power trip for the guy. However, if anyone shows up & he doesn’t give you back your stuff you might find yourself putting on a topless show for someone besides your husband. So you may decide to hold on to your top. However, you being caught topless might really turn him on. And maybe you?
If being outside topless is too risqué or reckless try removing your top while the two of you are driving -- preferably alone and at night. I love to drive with my wife topless & occasionally she’ll do it for me. If you’re in traffic keep your eyes open. Once we heard a very loud racing engine & soon realized that as we passed a truck his lights were high enough to light up the inside of our car. After seeing my wife he increased his speed to catch up with us to get another look. My topless wife didn't notice him till he'd seen her. She looked up & said he was grinning from ear to ear. My wife had a few drinks & he already saw her so she decided not to worry about a trucker seeing her topless & gave me a little thrill. I let him catch up with us & then slowly passed him again giving him another nice look as my wife smiled at him. Sleepy truckers are a road hazard so that was our contribution for public safety. The next day she said "I can't believe I flashed a trucker." I thought it was great.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 14:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Scalawag-101 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Two words: Romantic and Fun! - Ok for romatic why don't you take a day of togther. Go to your house order some chinese food, get a glass of wine. And sit in front of the T.V. and talk and have fun. Then take a nice romatic bath or shower (if you wanna heat things up) and take it from there. The classic still works.
2016-03-27 02:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-02 10:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever tried a little honey in certain places and let him lick it off till you're not sticky?
No motion toys while pregnant.
Sex in the shower?
Sex for dinner, and you as the center piece?
Blind folds and feather dusters?
Each write letters with your tongues in different places and have the other tell you what you wrote by feel? Try having him write the ABC's on your cl!+.
2006-10-02 10:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the bedroom....anything goes...so you don't have to ask what to do, just try anything, being pregnant doesn't stop you from doing anything, so try new positions, try new spots, like the kitchen or sofa....just try abou tanything that comes to mind...if you really want to spice it up, you have to let go of inhibitions, and just do everything that comes to your mind....enjoy!!
2006-10-02 10:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is go with the flow when you too are engaging try what ever comes up in your head and you might want to learn how to use those mussels in you Virgina it's good to know especially when your giving birth
2006-10-02 10:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by macarthurproperties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it somewhere in public...like city hall or the state capitol building.
2006-10-02 10:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pregnant? You better get used to b!ow jobs for a while.
2006-10-02 10:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
do u have a time machine? im thinking 9.5 weeks ago.
2006-10-02 10:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Shawn V 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
strap one on and take him for a change!!!!! i bet that will spice it up some for you
2006-10-02 10:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by dgr0919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋