trying to get prego and I never have been before should i start a family? how healty do you have to be to become prego?
2006-10-02 10:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The only person that can answer if you are ready to start a family is you. My fiance has mentioned it, but although I feel that if it happened in the morning I would not have any problems, I also feel that I am not ready to actively try. It's something you have to decide yourself and take into consideration finances, career/job changes, changes to your body... you really have to think ahead, not just "I'd love to have a baby".
As for your health, you should start taking folic acid while you are trying, keep eating healthily and keep this up when you become pregnant, as well as not smoking or drinking.
Best of luck to you :)
2006-10-02 10:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tamarinda Alexia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off are you grown? and are you finacially stable?
Pampers,clothes, formula, clothes cost money!!! and if neither one of you have a job or just one of you then its not gonna work out finacially!!! This is a big step. Trust me you dont want to go into this situation with a blind fold on. because you will certainly get more then you bargained for. And if you still act like a child yourself then its really gonna go down hill. You will find your self up at two in the morning trying to fix a bottle for a child that wont stop crying. Try this if you have a friend/family member that has a infant or toddler babysit for them over the weekend and that should give you an idea of what you may have to go through. Im not saying change your mind if you want a baby then by all means go ahead but if you are second guessing then listen to your heart and go from their.
You Have to have your PRIORITIES IN ORDER!!!
2006-10-02 10:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Some1Special 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off how old are you? Second you don' t have to be in the best health ever to become pregnant. Look some people do drugs and become pregnant. "That's not good health, for them or baby." I speak of this first hand having 4 children 7 yrs, 6 yrs, 4 yrs, and 2 months. If you are too young WAIT!
2006-10-02 10:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wish i knew your age. my brother and his wife had the same problm. there r many ways to help this along.
1 if you want a baby to much its like self birth con. your body thinks it preg. and wont allow the eggs to enter.
2 this is going to sound funny but it did come from a doc.
after sex dont pee and put a pillow under your butt and stay there for a min. while having pillow talk.
if all els fells theres a time frame to do this im new at the computer but i do know somewear on here you can find boy or girl recipes. im not sure how real they r if it works please let me know i have 2 girls and want a boy but to scared to try!ha,ha goodluck with yourown little faimley
NOTE: my brother and his wife it took them 2 yr to find all what they can do they couldnt stop after that they have 4 bouncing children 14yr 13yr 11yr 9yr.
2006-10-02 10:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by stcgoodman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh its a beautiful thing it brings you more to life!! You have to be kinda healthly don't let anybody scare you but don't be smokin crack and drinking while your trying to get prego, neither should he and if he smokes weed that is killing his sperm count. Make sure you teeth are in good shape also cause they get really bad after your prego.
2006-10-02 10:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by geminigurl2404 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not now ,you are not even married and that means you are not settled enough to bring a baby into the world .And you should be in pretty good health .But Live alittle first ,having a baby is not what alot of people think its hard to supply all there needs and lack of sleep and you dont date no more !!!.if you want to settle down real fast a baby will do it .but I think you need to wait .
2006-10-02 10:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be stressful for you, yet your mom is only conserving you and does no longer opt for some thing to happen to you. Age large difference does no longer count she will be able to continually assume a guy is to previous for you because you're her daughter. And certain your mom would have met your father an same time you met yours and your mom probable made some blunders that she only does no longer opt for repeated to you. only pay interest to her because contained in the top if some thing does happen to you, you'll sense undesirable for no longer listening and also you'll sense sorry about the end result.
2016-11-25 23:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you are not a teen anymore you should be seeing a gyno regularly anyway. i believe that there are too many bab'rs being born out there with there parents unmarried. usually the mother gets stuck with the child when dad walks away because of no commitment. commit to marriage frist, then a baby.
2006-10-02 10:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by debarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you need to be really fit and healthy to get pregnant. I think you just need to be in the mood and so with your bf...LOL
2006-10-02 10:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont become pregnant with a bf, wait until marriage it will be so much better, cuz i mean, one, wat if u split up after or through the pregnancy. two, would ur parents approve? *** on u dont wanna piss them off, they sorta pay for the wedding!
2006-10-02 10:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by blank 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋